This is one thing I never really understood. Someone is cheating on you both, taking you two or more for a ride and one consoles herself with being the main chick then proceeds on a war with the others while the person who is actually cheating goes scott free with loads of goodies as all the women now compete on who treats him better. Chai.


I have failed to understand why women go fighting beating and killing other women their husbands date instead of confronting the man who made a vow to them. I am still trying to understand the logic.

I watched the movie the Other Woman, Crazy funny movie and I like how the real cheater got served in his own game. I also read how 3 girlfriends got together and embarassed the guy dating all 3 of them :http://www.lindaikeji..com/2014/09/three-scorned-girlfriends-turn-up-at.html?m=1

The funny part of all this is that men would not even for a second consider fighting each other over one lady tripple or double dating with them when they find out, they will collectively dump her and have a drink.

This post is an attempt to help me understand the logic of fighting the other woman

aisha2: This is one thing I never really understood. Someone is cheating on you both, taking you two or more for a ride and one consoles herself with being the main chick then proceeds on a war with the others while the person who is actually cheating goes scott free with loads of goodies as all the women now compete on who treats him better. Chai.


I have failed to understand why women go fighting beating and killing other women their husbands date instead of confronting the man who made a vow to them. I am still trying to understand the logic.

I watched the movie the Other Woman, Crazy funny movie and I like how the real cheater got served in his own game. I also read how 3 girlfriends got together and embarassed the guy dating all 3 of them :http://www.lindaikeji..com/2014/09/three-scorned-girlfriends-turn-up-at.html?m=1

The funny part of all this is that men would not even for a second consider fighting each other over one lady tripple or double dating with them when they find out, they will collectively dump her and have a drink.

This post is an attempt to help me understand the logic of fighting the other woman

I don't even believe in the notion of side chicks and main chicks. Everyone is in a relationship for 'something' and love in the context of boy-girl relationships is highly overrated and practically non-existent. Most ladies know exactly that their men are cheating but they don't care, inasmuch as their 'needs' are met.
Anyway, side-chicks oh, main chicks oh, middle chicks or back-chicks...They are all the same- Being in a relationship with a cheat leaves little to be desired.
As for me, I had rather take a hike through Sambisa than fight a gal over a man. May that day never break...Iseeeee!

standd:

I don't even believe in the notion of side chicks and main chicks. Everyone is in a relationship for 'something' and love in the context of boy-girl relationships is highly overrated and practically non-existent. Most ladies know exactly that their men are cheating but they don't care, inasmuch ad their 'needs' are met.
Anyway, side-chicks oh, main chicks oh, middle chicks or back-chicks...They are all the same- Being in a relationship with a cheat leaves little to be desired.
As for me, I had rather take a hike through Sambisa than fight a gal over a man. May that day never break...Iseeeee!

Interesting

They are all just being silly.
There are no winners . . .just losers all round.

chaircover: They are all just being silly.
There are no winners . . .just losers all round.

Thank you
I wonder why a gal would delude herself into thinking she is 'special' when her man is a cheat.

Main chick koo, Major chicken niii

@Aisha2, I have also watched 'the other woman'
I think Nollywood should start replicating such movies. Maybe some Naija gals will start to have some sense.

chaircover: They are all just being silly.
There are no winners . . .just losers all round.

An older friend got married, she met the man's mom and family members who all accepted her. A few months later a lady called her and asked to talk, she identified herself as the man's wife and even sent pictures of their wedding and kids

The man had left them in the far north and started a new life with the new wife who is quite well to do.

My friend called the man's mom and the mom swore heaven and earth that the woman was a liar and she wasn't aware of the her son being ever married.
The lady then let the matter lie low and a month later invited the mother to Abuja and while mama and son were sitting and having breakfast one lovely Saturday morning doorbell rings and the wife opens kids run up to gather and mama shouting grand ma, daddy. No room for denial then, na so grandma being shake.
My friend quietly approached the court and asked that the marriage be declared null and void the main wife also filled for divorce.
Now the new wife could have looked at her age and fought the first wife silly or the first wife may have decided instead to physically attack the new wife and making each other enemies rather than solve the real issue.

standd:

Thank you
I wonder why a gal would delude herself into thinking she is 'special' when her man is a cheat.

Main chick koo, Major chicken niii

I always wonder because you all share the same peni- is

standd:

Thank you
I wonder why a gal would delude herself into thinking she is 'special' when her man is a cheat.

Main chick koo, Major chicken niii

Seriously though.

A man who cheats on me is simply telling me that he is not satisfied with what he is receiving from our relationship and so he has to ho outside to gain that satisfaction.
In fact, the one termed "side chick" is even better off because she doesn't have to go through the stress of playing the role of a wife to the man as MOST "main chicks" do.
And why some girls still feel special baffles me.

sholasholala:
Seriously though.
A man who cheats on me is simply telling me that he is not satisfied with what he is receiving from our relationship and so he has to ho outside to gain that satisfaction.
In fact, the one termed "side chick" is even better off because she doesn't have to go through the stress of playing the role of a wife to the man as MOST "main chicks" do.
And why some girls still feel special baffles me.

'Playing the role of a wife' is another matter entirely.
I wish I were a feminist
I seriously dislike the 'disgusting' habit of gals who try really hard to become 'wife material' by giving a single man all the benefits and rights of a married man. To what end?

I can't just stand cheaters...it's very disgusting....when yu recognize one it's better you run for your life....All ye girls claiming main chick you had be surprise d number of main chick's he has

standd:

'Playing the role of a wife' is another matter entirely.
I wish I were a feminist
I seriously dislike the 'disgusting' habit of gals who try really hard to become 'wife material' by giving a single man all the benefits and rights of a married man. To what end?

Yes that's a different case study on its own.
But why are you not a feminist though?

#I am not one either.

These ladies are pissed.....

In this generation and century I don't see a guy declaring to his babe and specifically telling one she is the main chick and another as the side-chick except he gets caught which itself is rare and even if it happens the guy still finds a way to wriggle his out through the most ridiculous of excuses. I can say ladies have fish brain truly. We see them everyday.

My point is nobody gets the title from anybody, the main chick, side-chick, up and down-chick think they are all the main-chick. The other self-acclaimed main chick thinks the other girls are only in a tussle for her man and not exactly a side-chick cos her man definitely has cooked up a make-believe story.

Who still fights and makes threatening phone calls these days over a man to prove the point that you are the main chick? In this age? Only a fish-brained individual.

If your man loved you enough and truly he wouldn't venture out making cardinal points with 'chicks' every side you turn to.

Some things are just not worth it.

I am either your chick or not your chick. No time to be claiming some stupid title of MAIN chick. To hell with the person and his numerous SIDE chickens. I am already out before you know it.

I am not one of the gals who try really hard to become 'wife material' by giving a single man all the benefits and rights of a married man. Who has time for that one. when i am not jobless....

Mynd44: These ladies are pissed.....

Maybe, maybe not!
The whole gist is targeted towards gals who think they are 'special' just cos a cheat makes them feel so.
And the point is, as long as your man has other gals in his life, there's no Main, there's no Side- Cos if the Man contacts STDs or AIDs, he will spread it evenly. So, no point in fighting other gals when your man choose to spread his wild oats.

Any guy who knows the value of his girl will make her his main chick and of course stick to her.

To me the issue of side and main chicks are for people who don't really know what they want. I also don't believe in having a side chick in case the main chick leaves you... Then again that's the excuse u'll hear from guys having side chick.

The wahala to date one girl sef no be here ooo... Let alone having others.

Last bullet: girls also have to learn to respect themselves cos they are the reasons most guys settle for side chicks. Possessiveness, extraordinary demands, jealousy, envy and the likes are enough reasons

I'm coming

No time keeping one chick cos dis hoes aint loyal

Interesting

I usually think men want women more than the way women want men but the reverse is the case,
Women can even die for a man, its pathetic.
Women show some restraint please.

On another note; its usually nice when you are the guy the girls are fighting for

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thats is why i call them brainless


i knw u ll quote me

How I abandoned my husband,3 children for armed robbery-Suspect

27-year-old Victoria and her partner specialised in robbing unsuspecting passengers who board commercial cab along Badagry-Mile 2 route.She narrated her story to www..com

“I was arrested last Wednesday at Dakar Hotel in Seme where I used to work as a prostitute.I am from Edo State. I came to Lagos last February to look for greener pastures when my husband was constantly beating me. We were married for eight years.I abandoned my husband and three children and came to Lagos with the intention of living under the bridge.

Continue reading: http://www..com/2014/09/woman-abandone-husband-and-3-children_17.html

Women are their own worst enemies

nawa o

Having a side chic is like having a spare vehicle, it's advisable.

Chics behave better when they know they have competition.

Hmm

Girls are sometimes foolish...they don't think before acting dats why men see them as people who have chicken brain