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Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by vislabraye(m): 6:04pm On Sep 19, 2014
Of all people to ask it's your ex ??
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Sep 19, 2014
vizkiz: Some might say yes while others might say No..but as the second to coment on this thread...i choose to say

"Stay the furck off from your ex" angry

My Exs opinions are not worth jackshit to me.

Besides, why is he still talking to an Ex anyways?
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by Cliqteam(m): 6:08pm On Sep 19, 2014
Gud
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by DikSin(m): 6:21pm On Sep 19, 2014
I would comment only when Nairaland lauch its online radio.
Until then; its "stay tuned to the LoveZone on. 9.69 CoolFM Abuja"cheesy
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by Spidermon: 6:23pm On Sep 19, 2014
I would rather ask my friends. Asking your ex for advise on your flaws is like taking your university class work to your primary school teacher.
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by MichaelSokoto(m): 6:29pm On Sep 19, 2014
Segunj8: Let d 'Ex' remain Ex.. Let ur new partner deal with ur flaws nd if he/she can't den u hv plus 1 Ex, u ll definitely find some1 who ll luv d whole of u with ur flaws.
Na xo u go let 1 ex go, 2 ex go, 3 ex go, 24 ex go until only u go waka reach 57 yrs & u nefa knw ya flaws, talkless of marry grin

Diiaaaris God sha cool
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by evmandy(f): 6:33pm On Sep 19, 2014
No way!!!!my ex should nt even boda asking me, because he won't lik wat he wil hear
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by dmz(m): 6:35pm On Sep 19, 2014
Saw this topic earlier and pinged her (we still have a decent friendship).
"I think you bottle stuff up a lot", she said. I can relate to that.

Sometimes the u that u are is not the u that they see, and sometimes who u think you are is not who you are.

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Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by MichaelSokoto(m): 6:37pm On Sep 19, 2014
evmandy: No way!!!!my ex should nt even boda asking me, because he won't lik wat he wil hear
Chai heeey! shocked
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by oganology33(m): 6:40pm On Sep 19, 2014
I consider dis an interesting and mature question. In ma opinion it depends on d current relationship wit ur Ex. if u guyz have a healthy relationship and can talk abt tinz. den 2 me itz OK. coz most ppl won't tel u abt ur lapses whyle dating u. but som can afford 2 afterwards.

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Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by leeland(m): 6:44pm On Sep 19, 2014
I agree
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by MabraO: 6:56pm On Sep 19, 2014
I can't even think of chatting her up let alone asking about my flaws
Unless I am thinking of getting back with her

BTW who does that sef.
Only ladies will agree with
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by creamylicious(f): 7:07pm On Sep 19, 2014
Dygeasy: Well, different strokes for you-know-who but asking that question shows that person either hasn't moved on or still has feelings for the other one.

I am friends with all of my EXes (even the angriest and the most bitter..lol!) except the ones that just disappeared and we know quite alright why the relationships ended. I try as much as possible to avoid talks about US in our happening days. It's a pretty lame thing to do left for me o.
friends with ur ex Kwa Helo helo kinda friend or some info sharing kinda friend I don't dig being friends with an ex at all
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by youngice(m): 7:08pm On Sep 19, 2014
andromida: I guess its o.k if you know your ex is not the vindictive type.
most mature comment so far

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Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by 3coins(m): 7:15pm On Sep 19, 2014
i think ts okk to ask. .cuz i stopped caring about my ex when i found out some very annoying traits in her. . . I just wasnt feeling it anymore,so i just had to end it. . She's a good girl tho
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by leshluap(m): 7:18pm On Sep 19, 2014
Ex should remain EX, at least dey ar d evidence of false love.
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by godman01(m): 7:26pm On Sep 19, 2014
If it was a flaw that caused the separation, then: guess you can find that out within you.
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by Dygeasy(m): 7:26pm On Sep 19, 2014
creamylicious: friends with ur ex Kwa Helo helo kinda friend or some info sharing kinda friend I don't dig being friends with an ex at all
I'm a guy and not the into-your-face kinda friends. We just talk.
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Sep 19, 2014
Scyllapatron: where is my good friend Sophyrocks, i have been checking to read her comment on this topic.

Sincerely, i have no Ex. Once i breakup with you, i dnt know you o. No matter how obsessed with me my exes are, i face front!! Thats my ish right there. Naturally, I move on quickly. So therefore, No ex must appear in my life as i move on.

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Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by DOWHILE: 7:41pm On Sep 19, 2014
wa Jez passing nd tot 2 lev a foot print wont be a bad idea grin
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by mrgreen4real(m): 7:41pm On Sep 19, 2014
I dey come mek I ask commander
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by MizMyColi(f): 7:44pm On Sep 19, 2014
DOWHILE: wa Jez passing nd tot 2 lev a foot print wont be a bad idea grin

shocked shocked shocked
grin cheesy

embarassed embarassed
You know naangry
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by franzis(m): 7:45pm On Sep 19, 2014
All my exes never found any flaw in me, so I don't bother asking
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by bisi16(m): 7:52pm On Sep 19, 2014
[quote author=MizMyColi][/quote]
no.. coz wat he/she sees as flaws, d next person could cope without complaining. it cld even be the attraction
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by Toks2008(m): 7:55pm On Sep 19, 2014
Flaws qwa?

Abeg guys go get that dough and you will forever remain perfect with your lady.

The only flaw most ladies see is lack of cash, If you have good money ladies will see you as a perfect man and your idiosyncrasies no matter how appalling will be just ok.

My candid opinion
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by DOWHILE: 7:57pm On Sep 19, 2014
MizMyColi:

shocked shocked shocked
grin cheesy

embarassed embarassed
You know naangry
****Smiles....what is it dear?
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Sep 19, 2014
Sophyrocks:

Sincerely, i have no Ex. Once i breakup with you, i dnt know you o. No matter how obsessed with me my exes are, i face front!! Thats my ish right there. Naturally, I move on quickly. So therefore, No ex must appear in my life as i move on.

Sure baby, I totally agree with you.
In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life:
1. life
2. goes
3. on
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by ugwum007(m): 8:08pm On Sep 19, 2014
Sophyrocks:

Sincerely, i have no Ex. Once i breakup with you, i dnt know you o. No matter how obsessed with me my exes are, i face front!! Thats my ish right there. Naturally, I move on quickly. So therefore, No ex must appear in my life as i move on.

u re really something
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by Etosonc(m): 8:16pm On Sep 19, 2014
priscaoge: You can’t start the
next chapter if you
keep re-reading the last one.
Ex should remain EX...Nobody cares about the past,they care about the present,an EX is an EX for a reason so get over him...IMO!


Btw MizMyColi u have a nice Post herewinkwink
Dnt 4get Dat Past Plus Present Iz Wt Determine Future
Re: Asking An "Ex" About Your Flaws, Is It Ever Okay? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Sep 19, 2014
Scyllapatron:

Sure baby, I totally agree with you.
In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life:
1. life
2. goes
3. on


That is it bro. Life goes on. I dnt dwell on past events if they are of no benefit to my present. Exes must remain where they truly belong. THE PAST. If you wanna ask about my flaws, ask my peeps. shikena.

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