shymexx:

Er, it also depends on the guy and his mentality/maturity. If a guy is physically attracted to a chic enough to want to talk to her, and be around her. Regardless of how much he shows it, it doesn't really matter if the chic is the one doing all the chasing - and I don't think every guy will take advantage of her. How guys show girls affection varies from guy to guy - some are overt, and some are covert - depending on the guy. And most times, you wouldn't even know - and when you think you know, your judgement might be flawed and based on wrong signals about a different motive entirely.

Guys are different. And guys from certain backgrounds just want to be around girls who show them affection, before you come out of their shells. Once you start denying them that, you're also denying yourself an opportunity to get the man you want. It's the 21st century - if you like a guy, just go it - but make sure you keep your legs closed till you can ascertain that the feeling is mutual.

farano: All those feelings disappeared instantly.

shymexx:

Er, it also depends on the guy and his mentality/maturity. If a guy is physically attracted to a chic enough to want to talk to her, and be around her. Regardless of how much he shows it, it doesn't really matter if the chic is the one doing all the chasing - and I don't think every guy will take advantage of her. How guys show girls affection varies from guy to guy - some are overt, and some are covert - depending on the guy. And most times, you wouldn't even know - and when you think you know, your judgement might be flawed and based on wrong signals about a different motive entirely.

Guys are different. And guys from certain backgrounds just want to be around girls who show them affection, before you come out of their shells. Once you start denying them that, you're also denying yourself an opportunity to get the man you want. It's the 21st century - if you like a guy, just go it - but make sure you keep your legs closed till you can ascertain that the feeling is mutual.

dre11:

U never loved the guy
But his pockets or attention he did give to u


Because real love doesn't disappear in a giffy
And the guy was matured to have asked for it yo grow and not fall

farano: dre11 which one be pocket again huh? I'm talking of love here now I was disappointed, that was why the feelings disappeared

TrollMan:

Sugar? Me?

Seun: He doesn't want to take it to another level yet. The best time to ask someone out is when you can sense that the person wants it but won't ask.

farano: dre11 which one be pocket again huh? I'm talking of love here now I was disappointed, that was why the feelings disappeared

vizkiz:

i guess she has been friendzoned

1one:

Did Seun just comment in/on the Romance Section ...


Miracles STILL HAPPEN

Abbey2sam:

check who created the topic my guy....


farano

farano: We've been friends for over 3 years now that I personally decided to take it to another level. So on that faithful day, when we were together, i unfolded my feelings for him, he did too staring deeply into my eyes and romantically holding my hands.
My heart was beating faster and slower at the same time that I was forced to pop out that mighty four letter word. With my angelic voice, I told him 'I love you dear' But surprisingly, his response was 'i should allow it to grow naturally'. I smiled but within me I was very angry All those feelings disappeared instantly.

jnrbayano: I must commend your boldness and straight-forwardness Farano, to see such these days from a lady is a rarity.

Like someone said earlier be thankful he didn't just accept now that he's not convinced about his love for you, he would have gone for your jugular if he isn't a good person.

With 3years gone since you guys became friends it only natural one would profess love for the other, and you have done that and heaved yourself a big burden. A little more patience judging from his response to you you will need to find out if he is yours or not.

Mind you, that your friend looks a goldmine to me.

1one:

Indeed

So this is the only matured, sincere and reasonable thread in the whole of this section...


Seun can like to be forming Voltron a times sef

And I know why he chose to comment on this.. A penny for my thought?

Kinkybraids: A male friend once told me that a guy knows within 10minutes of meeting a woman if he wants to be with her or not. Men fall in love quicker than us. Im sorry to say but 3 years is a very long time for him not to have made a move or for the love to have 'grown'. He is a gentleman and be thankful he didnt use you... But becareful anyway you still wore your heart on your sleave.

You took a risk which is great...now you dont have to wonder anymore. You kinda know where you stand. Dont pine over him him...get a new love interest and make him see that its his loss... Does he not know how man niggas want you on NL

Not many women have the guts to do what you did

farano: dre11 which one be pocket again huh? I'm talking of love here now I was disappointed, that was why the feelings disappeared

Ksslib: You guys have been friends for three years. What type of friends if I may ask?

Besides, since when have you been nursing feelings for him. I suspect he might have at some certain point expressed his feelings for you but your reply wasnt encouraging. If yes, then he likes you but wants to play mind games too.

dre11:

And it all disappeared at once

Never knew real love do disappear like that

Spidermon:

Women too. Within a min of meeting any guy who isn't family, ladies subconsciously rule if the guy could ever get in her pants.

farano: We've been friends for over 3 years now that I personally decided to take it to another level. So on that faithful day, when we were together, i unfolded my feelings for him, he did too staring deeply into my eyes and romantically holding my hands.
My heart was beating faster and slower at the same time that I was forced to pop out that mighty four letter word. With my angelic voice, I told him 'I love you dear' But surprisingly, his response was 'i should allow it to grow naturally'. I smiled but within me I was very angry All those feelings disappeared instantly.

1one:

Did Seun just comment in/on the Romance Section ...


Miracles STILL HAPPEN

1one:

Indeed

So this is the only matured, sincere and reasonable thread in the whole of this section...


Seun can like to be forming Voltron a times sef

And I know why he chose to comment on this.. [A penny for my thought?

Slowpois0n: Seun commenting on farano's threads since 1960