farano: We've been friends for over 3 years now that I personally decided to take it to another level. So on that faithful day, when we were together, i unfolded my feelings for him, he did too staring deeply into my eyes and romantically holding my hands.
My heart was beating faster and slower at the same time that I was forced to pop out that mighty four letter word. With my angelic voice, I told him 'I love you dear' But surprisingly, his response was 'i should allow it to grow naturally'. I smiled but within me I was very angry All those feelings disappeared instantly.

If I were to say my mind on this topic now, I know some monikers that'll call for my head

Ever since rozay, I've developed thread trust issues, pardon me.

If the topic of discussion is anything to go by, then I can relate with the "Love Disappearing Immediately".

That's because ladies in general are prideful and aren't as apt as their male counterpart at handling rejection.
The Love didn't disappear, her pride was deeply hurt.

Well, I'll just darn the consequences and say it anyway. Heck, for all we know, he could be keenly following this post.

Do yourself a favour and give the guy a break, I mean space. You need time to recollect yourself emotionally, to refresh.
No, don't go no contact, no, don't stop the communication. Just be, without him, for a bit.


If this happened for real, I'm sure by now, you'd be feeling some form of inhibition towards him?
Don't let it slide, don't try to mask it.
Let it run its course.

However, be mature about it, always applying wisdom, it is profitable to direct.

mako007: MizMyColi , how do you guys keep up with this NL thing, I tire o

LoLest

NL is beyond a thing.
It's a community.
Some find life and purpose here.
Others find their means of livelihood
To some, its fun.
To some, it's a hideout
To me
It means a lot.......FRIENDS, People, Money , Politics, latest trends.
I think what makes it a fulfilling experience for me, is the ability to reach out to people, no matter where they're at, show love, solve their issues in the way(s) I can and just enjoying having people around.


Discover your own NL Mojo Mako007, stick with it, then make the best out of it.

Ksslib:
Lol. We cannot categorically ascertain if she has been catapulted into that zone as of now. But if I were to guess, den e be like say the babe don enter oo. Perhaps the nigga wants to revenge.

This is what engineers call reverse friendzoning

Abbey2sam:
lemme guess, you friend zone the guy, and now you've fallen mercilessly in love with the guy and you just want him to say I love you too, because the guy is your toy or your programmed robot that's meant to say yes to all your demands
babe; let it grow naturally...just as he said

Baddestguyp: you never loved him from d start. love doesn't just disappear. the guy is lucky he didn't make d mistake of saying "I love you too" cos u just wanted too use him

vizkiz: are you trying to say you'v never replied a dude who said "i love you" with something more heartbreaking than that??

Yeah, feel how he felt then

Sanchez01: I think he is mature. Love does take time to grow and I believe it would be better for you to hear that than have him say 'I love you more' when he does not mean it.

Baddestguyp: you never loved him from d start. love doesn't just disappear. the guy is lucky he didn't make d mistake of saying "I love you too" cos u just wanted too use him

glitest:
Such isn't always true...One can start as friends, and develop feelings overtime...That is a big difference between most men and women...Most men do want a relationship right away, while most women let their feelings speak for itself.

Baddestguyp: no matter how long it takes to fall in love, love doesn't just disappear, I'm speaking from experience. it took almost a year in my case

Scyllapatron:
the guy was right, wise and smart. real love doesn't disappaer instantly.

Sanchez01: I think he is mature. Love does take time to grow and I believe it would be better for you to hear that than have him say 'I love you more' when he does not mean it.

Scyllapatron: the guy was right, wise and smart. real love doesn't disappaer instantly.

qinbeauty: We women hate rejection more than men.

WoodcrestMayor: Your siggy is deep

farano: Grow for like how many years hun?

MizMyColi:

nitlad:

Edumare bless you!

Jasi7: y r ur sentences in quote?...did u make comments and den quote urself only to delete d original post