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Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by COvo(m): 4:09pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Been a calm guy has always been challenging,especially in a country like NIGERIA(Yes! Naija in particular).I dunno why girls view guys who are soft spoken and listens to love songs as been feminine,or a guy who keeps pride aside and helps his wife/babe with some few things around the house(A thread was created some time ago asking if guys would kneel to propose.The response was shocking).I've always dreamed of a life where I'd lift my wife whenever I want,when I see that she's so busy in the kitchen I could help with a few stuff while we tell jokes and laugh the moment away,where I won't shy away from telling her I'm sorry when I'm wrong,where I could just hold her from behind and whisper how lucky I am to have her as my wife,it goes on and on.But here comes the problem,girls won't take you seriously and they'd term you as been "weak"(Oh! He watches too many Hollywood movies). What's your opinion,should a guy drop such behaviour just because he wants to be "hard"? I know some persons will come here and start saying "OP is this and that".Please be mature in your response. Thanks #47 MODS! Frontpage 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by vizkiz: 4:12pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
op is this and that! |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by COvo(m): 4:16pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
vizkiz: op this is this and that!Ehn! |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
vizkiz: op is this and that! Op you are correct jare. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by MizMyColi(f): 4:20pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
[size=20pt]I'm Happily E-Married. Would Have Applied. 1000000000 Likes[/size] Okay, Jokes and trolling apart. If you're for real, then it's laudable that you've written this way. I know those monikers that will come here now and call you a sissy.....pffftt, pay them no mind. I viewed your profile pic before commenting, you don't come across as naive. I earnestly pray that one yubbish babe will not do you strong tin that'll change this beautiful mindset you have. Please keep on at being you. Love sacrificially, compromisingly and ferociously, albeit not blindly and foolishly. Ultimatey, it's worth it. Peace Bro. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by ideee03(f): 4:32pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
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Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by AfricanApple(f): 4:33pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
I swear if u be my boyfriend and u no dey romantic, I go dump u. na wetin!!!!! how I go marry person wey go dey dull my spirit for house especially all this football freaks wey like football pass their wives. eeewwwwww op carry on jare infact, will u be my boyfriend? I love calm and romantic guys like you 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by DeBlunt: 4:33pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Men don't help their wives in the kitchen? Wait! They sit and fold their legs while waiting for her to cook and serve? Does that still happen? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by COvo(m): 4:37pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
MizMyColi: [size=20pt]I'm Happily E-Married.Thanks dearie.It's been one challenging ride,I'll try and maintain it.Cos I want a life where the thought of going back home to my wife from work is gonna make me leap for joy.Lol. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by COvo(m): 4:38pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
AfricanApple: I swear if u be my boyfriend and u no dey romantic, I go dump u. na wetin!!!!! how I go marry person wey go dey dull my spirit for house especially all this football freaks wey like football pass their wives. eeewwwwwwSend your CV.Lol! |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by tblacker(m): 4:39pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
It's not worth it... Be cool but have a boundary. Know when it gets to her head and change the music, after all you pay the piper. The only truth ? : You will loose the best of gentle/sweet girl if you are too sweet cuz the relationship will be like a movie that is going on for two hours and the kick refuse to come until the end of the credit ( cast name and info ) . Movie like that get viewers sleeping and a lot of people step out of the screen before the movie is over. The movie title 'Under The Skin' comes to mind . Being hard is considered masculine. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by AfricanApple(f): 4:44pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
vizkiz: op is this and that!lmao, yeye people full dis Nairaland eh |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by MizMyColi(f): 4:44pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
COvo: Tymax. Here's one of the few good men. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by MizMyColi(f): 4:46pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
AfricanApple: I swear if u be my boyfriend and u no dey romantic, I go dump u. na wetin!!!!! how I go marry person wey go dey dull my spirit for house especially all this football freaks wey like football pass their wives. eeewwwwww [size=14pt]Hey! Stay off[/size] |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by AfricanApple(f): 4:47pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
COvo:CV kwa, hian, I no get CV o, I no dey search for work. better say yes before i change my mind |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by AfricanApple(f): 4:50pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
MizMyColi:see me see wahala o, u said u are happily e-married else you would have.... so why u kon dey jealous me now. Niko no spoil show for me o 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by DeBlunt: 4:50pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
COvo: And dvd too 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by MizMyColi(f): 4:52pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
AfricanApple: see me see wahala o, u said u are happily e-married else you would have.... so why u kon dey jealous me now. Niko no spoil show for me o |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by COvo(m): 4:53pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
AfricanApple: CV kwa, hian, I no get CV o, I no dey search for work. better say yes before i change my mindMake I just say yes? PM me.*smiles* |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
COvo: Been a calm guy has always been challenging,especially in a country like NIGERIA(Yes! Naija in particular).I dunno why girls view guys who are soft spoken and listens to love songs as been feminine,or a guy who keeps pride aside and helps his wife/babe with some few things around the house(A thread was created some time ago asking if guys would kneel to propose.The response was shocking).I've always dreamed of a life where I'd lift my wife whenever I want,when I see that she's so busy in the kitchen I could help with a few stuff while we tell jokes and laugh the moment away,where I won't shy away from telling her I'm sorry when I'm wrong,where I could just hold her from behind and whisper how lucky I am to have her as my wife,it goes on and on.But here comes the problem,girls won't take you seriously and they'd term you as been "weak"(Oh! He watches too many Hollywood movies). What's your opinion,should a guy drop such behaviour just because he wants to be "hard"?Op i wud luv a guy lyk dat wen he sings 4 u and d PDA thin.. buh no i had 2 fall inluv wit d direct opposite.. why? God!! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by AfricanApple(f): 4:58pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
COvo:laye laye, let it happen here. I want everybody to see it |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by MissSlimbody(f): 4:58pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
COvo: Been a calm guy has always been challenging,especially in a country like NIGERIA(Yes! Naija in particular).I dunno why girls view guys who are soft spoken and listens to love songs as been feminine,or a guy who keeps pride aside and helps his wife/babe with some few things around the house(A thread was created some time ago asking if guys would kneel to propose.The response was shocking).I've always dreamed of a life where I'd lift my wife whenever I want,when I see that she's so busy in the kitchen I could help with a few stuff while we tell jokes and laugh the moment away,where I won't shy away from telling her I'm sorry when I'm wrong,where I could just hold her from behind and whisper how lucky I am to have her as my wife,it goes on and on.But here comes the problem,girls won't take you seriously and they'd term you as been "weak"(Oh! He watches too many Hollywood movies). What's your opinion,should a guy drop such behaviour just because he wants to be "hard"? ...Fallen in love already Op will u marry me? Mizmycoli, dnt tell me 2 keep off o. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by COvo(m): 4:59pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
AfricanApple: see me see wahala o, u said u are happily e-married else you would have.... so why u kon dey jealous me now. Niko no spoil show for me oI comment my reserve. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by AfricanApple(f): 5:00pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
MizMyColi:abi make we share like in those days |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by AfricanApple(f): 5:01pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
MissSlimbody:I dey see well again so, see how these people won kon spoil my market o |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by AfricanApple(f): 5:03pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
COvo:ehn ehnnn, na so na? so u want make we tear cloth becos of u na. e no go ever happen |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by MissSlimbody(f): 5:05pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
AfricanApple: I no dey see well again o, see how these people won kon spoil my market o Madam, take am easy oooo. Na who no like better thing? |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by teewai3(m): 5:08pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
lazy girlz!!! una don see who go dey help una for kitchen ba?, person wey go help una with few stuff ba see dem oo... op will u marry me?, op will u do dis? op will u dat...mtcheeeew 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Aah, No need of you getting hard' Am sure Your 'johnny' is hard enough for your supposed gurlfrnd or wifey ... #Be Who You are. #Be Original. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by COvo(m): 5:13pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
mirexx: Op i wud luv a guy lyk dat wen he sings 4 u and d PDA thin.. buh no i had 2 fall inluv wit d direct opposite.. why? God!!They sing too.Are u asking God?Go for what you want. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by Tymax(m): 5:16pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
MizMyColi:He must be my distant cousin. You know, it's in our blood. We are nice and faithful in our clan. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Be Calm And Romantic? by AfricanApple(f): 5:18pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
MissSlimbody:but vu see say he is about to be taken na. did kain beta tin no be for everybody. no worry, if he free, I go give u hin friend, u hear |
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