soldierdollar: Am sure this girl has disgraced all the girls reading this post.
They will be like , " are we prostitutes ?"

LifeIsGuhd: Agreed!

Spending on your girlfriend (if you really love her) is something you should enjoy doing, but Nigerian gentlemen see it as a favour which is really annoying

And what is more annoying is; if no sex, then no spending!!!

Toks2008:

This is why i sometimes tend to conclude that all Nigerian ladies are whores and its not about having to stay in brothels.


98% of Nigerian ladies expects some form of compensation from you which is mostly material andonatary simply because both of you are sleeping with each other.

This is mostly prevalent in younger immature ladies while only few matured ones have the normal mindset of mutual satidfaction.

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haibe:
It's not always about se.x. You can be in a relationship
because you love a girl sincerely and wish to marry her.
Whether or not you end up marrying her is a different
issue.
Being in a relationship because of se.x is just being silly, if
it's se.x you want why not go get a call girl For se.x and
forget emotions.

haibe:
It's not always about money. You can be in a relationship
because you love a guy sincerely and wish to marry him.
Whether or not you end up marrying him is a different
issue.
Being in a relationship because of money is just being silly, if it's money you want, why not become a call girl and give sex for money forgetting emotions .

kilokeys:
bro its annoying jare.. for instance, i have been off dating for a long time. why? i dont need a gf. i want a fiancee..
wouldnt it be unfortunate if my future fiancee thinks this way?
.. while i am busy trying to gather resources to make our life comfortable before meeting her, whoever she is...

fairygeh: Honestly this post is disheartening, in as much as I am a lady, I disagree with the op.abeg don't let guys view we ladies like i never chop.if you want to have sex with ur guy please do irrespective of whether he gives you money or not....common,only poor girls or better still pr ostitutes expect money in return for sex. Hard working ladies would never expect to gain money from a relationship except trust, happiness,joy,a long lasting relationship,a home,a family etc

dalynch:
U can all be even more dan all u mentioned for all I care. I stand to correct Ur last statement. I med first class in school nd no man was behind my success nd my socalled boy friend den weakly finished with 2:1jst with me by his side. If u can tell Ur self d truth d best students in Ur class back den in schools from primary to tertiary are girls. So pack well pls.
As for nairalander keep propagating premarital sex, but remember deris God oh.

So you mean you didn't gain anything from your so-called boyfriend whilst dating?

@bolded,,you mean you haven't indulged in pre-marital sex?

LifeIsGuhd:
Na you give me my pu.nani?? Or boobi??

og2711:

Personally, even though i'm married, i actually look back to my single days and have to almost agree with this guy.

Since when did couples stop having sex just because they liked each other?!! Is Nigeria so bad that a young man cannot like a woman and not be calculating how much she will take when she comes to see him?!! No disrespect to the OP but you truly are symbolic of what the problem is with the young girls in Nigeria is today.

The reverse is the real horror. Once a man is spending well, they HAVE to sleep with him. I found out that just about 98% of our young girls have a price. Regardless of how beautiful and cultured they might seem, start spending and see their resistance fade like melting butter.

I wonder how it feels to ALWAYS be asking, no, BEGGING for one thing or the other. Money for hair, phone, transport, laptop, ipad, school fees etc. Why not let the guy spend as he sees fit, even if its not enough for you, you can simply move on. Or better still hold yourself till the type of guy you want comes along.

I remember when i was much younger. Once a girl told me 'fine boy', it automatically meant i was getting laid and only needed to spend if i felt like it..Sigh...i feel for our youths..

LifeIsGuhd: In response to Ezegozie, I created this thread!
I am really asking because i think some Girls are being used to achieve Sexual needs.

Take for instance, a student that is probably not going to marry in the next 5yrs.
And he is in a so called relationship; he doesn't spend on her, no allowance, yet a bleepful (sexful) relationship and every other sexual activities.
But she washes his clothes, does every domestic chores around his home and also satisfies his private needs!

Let me ask you officially

what do you gain from such a parasitic relationship ?

For the Boys, If you are not ready to spend on her, why are you ready to demand for sex?

LifeIsGuhd: In response to Ezegozie, I created this thread!
I am really asking because i think some Girls are being used to achieve Sexual needs.

Take for instance, a student that is probably not going to marry in the next 5yrs.
And he is in a so called relationship; he doesn't spend on her, no allowance, yet a bleepful (sexful) relationship and every other sexual activities.
But she washes his clothes, does every domestic chores around his home and also satisfies his private needs!

Let me ask you officially

what do you gain from such a parasitic relationship ?

For the Boys, If you are not ready to spend on her, why are you ready to demand for sex?

kilokeys: girls, u folks dont get it at all. is this how u reason?
a counter thread clearly stating that

sex.. is to guys as money is to girls?

lemme clear u ignorant pple of ur obvious stewpidity.

guys are innately designed to crave se,x.. more than women
and also NoTE that it is natural for a Man to give and cater for a lady.


so if u r dating a thing that just wants se.x. u r dating a BOY.
thats ur fault.

real MEN give se.x and MOney.
shallow BoYs Pay for Se.x.


stwpid girls endure/enjoy se.x for money
ideal Ladies date for companionship( with or without se,x or money)

Real ladies date serious men with futuristic tendencies ( they date when marriage is in view, and the man is ready)

CharmO1: I truly wanted to read and pass but I just feel I ought to comment directly. First, ladies please get a job or engage in business. In Uni I was selling okrika clothes and shoes. Why have a bf just to beg for things? That's the fastest way to be insulted. Then guys, if a girl asks for money everytime, give her 100yards. But if she asks occasionally, try and help if you can. A cousin of mine dha a gf who he was sleeping with and another he was spending money on. He claimed the one he spent on was "an expensive chick". Meanwhile that expensive chick was getting ready to marry someone else. The other girl he was using wised up and left him. Now she is married. This made me dislike that my cousin 'til today. This whole sex before marriage thing is even wrong but if you must indulge please do it with a clear mind. Ladies, the men aren't ATM. Guys the ladies aren't s3ks toys. Respect each other and live a life you would be proud of in your old age.

freecocoa: Seriously now, kids should stay away from adult things.

Threads like this and the other is an insult to serious minded adults in relationships.

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fairygeh: Honestly this post is disheartening, in as much as I am a lady, I disagree with the op.abeg don't let guys view we ladies like i never chop.if you want to have sex with ur guy please do irrespective of whether he gives you money or not....common,only poor girls or better still pr ostitutes expect money in return for sex. Hard working ladies would never expect to gain money from a relationship except trust, happiness,joy,a long lasting relationship,a home,a family etc

fairygeh: Honestly this post is disheartening, in as much as I am a lady, I disagree with the op.abeg don't let guys view we ladies like i never chop.if you want to have sex with ur guy please do irrespective of whether he gives you money or not....common,only poor girls or better still pr ostitutes expect money in return for sex. Hard working ladies would never expect to gain money from a relationship except trust, happiness,joy,a long lasting relationship,a home,a family etc

ronald4lif:

This thread is uncalled for, if you follow Eze's thread carefully you will realise that majority of the guys aren't complaining of spending on their women but rather demands that women shouldn't reject getting laid provided a guy sorts her or some of her bills. And as per your post I don't know your gender but if it turns out that you are a lady then it's disheartening to openly admits that ladies shouldn't indulge in sex if their guys doesn't spend on them. Just a quick reminder of what the term prostitute means "A prostitute is a sex worker who willingly engages in sexual encounters for monetary or material gains". Am I right to conclude that (judging by your logic) you and every other girl out there who only agrees to get laid by her boyfriend/man only when she gets financial favours from him is a prostitute, or in subtle phrase a potential prostitute? Please correct me if I am wrong. Thanks

coolzeal: Nigerian girls are not romantic. They are so familiar with selling their bodies just to gain finaincial assitance hence, thinking every man want s*ex and in return offering s*ex as favor. Hell! They don't understand the meaning of a relationship so obviously nothing more than s*ex and a punching bag for those who have the enthusiasm for it.