folameme: lol* someone once told me i act masculine hmmmmmmm,it takes a strong man to handle a woman like that,they are always smart,courageous,stand up to their own right,hate been relegated to the back,hate showing their feelings often(buh wen they do,they can be sooo loving and cute)can be aggressive and impulsive at times wen they feel they are not been treated fairly(irrespective of who it is),they are nice to a fault and expect every one to,they throw tantrums wen they are disturbed,they are prone to having mood swing and been melancholy at times(they wanna let down d strong woman in dem too,buh they hate appearing weak)and d list goes on and on and on*sighs*can a guy really handle all dis?d last one chickened out lol*

goofyone:

Yes, I can love a strong lady. I can love the kind of lady you described above.
Some ladies take it over board though, and are quick to bare their fangs at the drop of a hat. Those ones I avoid, and I avoid very much. The strong, cool-headed lady who doesn't allow people boss her around to their own advantage? I like such lady

MizMyColi:


LoL

And for some strange reason, I'm grinning from ear to ear.

tobiboss: "Act masculine" "chickened out?" Do you fight or beat up your boyfriends?
Then at your question, No at the bolded

MizMyColi: @Folameme, what d'ya think?
Are you strong or feisty?

Ever heard of the four temperaments?
I'm a mix of Choleric-phlegmatic.

Which is yours?

pansophist:

You de carry weight?

goofyone:
I know why .

And stop! Don't even try guessing what's in my mind.

You know I enjoy doing that.

Did you see my mention in Diaries section?

MisterLongman: I love that Combo

LoL, thanks.

I love it too

Wanna share yours?

MizMyColi:



You know I enjoy doing that.

Did you see my mention in Diaries section?

folameme: lol*u got it all mixed up sugar,not beating oooo,fight kee?I'm too posh for that sweetie i can never do it,buh i love standing up for wah i believe in,@my boyfriends?omg hell no hw many of dem?stop it ok?

Tymax: Modified:
In that case, every man should want a strong woman for a wife. There are men who desire evident submission in their wives. A strong woman may fall short in that regard. There is the tendency for her to be dogged and thus dogmatic in ALL things; but she should realize that "strong" may be apparently unyielding and brittle but "strong" can also be tensile and resilient.

Many guys would say they that want a woman who challenges them, who is not laid back and unresponsive. A lofty line of thought. However, there is the risk of the lady second-guessing her man on a really bad day.

[size=14pt]I think a strong woman is desirable. I believe she is strongest when she learns how/when to be weak. [/size]

Cc Miz MyColi

Just keep on revealing your true self. I likey
Good men are still out there, and they come to NL and be claiming women haters.

You see that Emboldened and enlarged, those are my thoughts exactly, only, the right English has been eluding me

Thanks joor.

MizMyColi:

LoL, thanks.

I love it too

Wanna share yours?

folameme: lol*u got it all mixed up sugar,not beating oooo,fight kee?I'm too posh for that sweetie i can never do it,buh i love standing up for wah i believe in,@my boyfriends?omg hell no hw many of dem?stop it ok?

LogoDWhiz: The word 'feisty' is considered too strong. Exudes negativity.
Its generally viewed in a 'not-took-good' way.

I'd have preferred ladies who are strong and dependent. But who doesn't have to be feisty.
I believe that if a lady is strong and dependent, she can stand up for her beliefs and defend herself and do most things 'feisty' ladies do.

When a lady is termed to be feisty, i don't think people will be convenient staying with her, cos when her feisty side comes up. There's no regard for who the culprit is.

MizMyColi: @Folameme, what d'ya think?
Are you strong or feisty?

Ever heard of the four temperaments?
I'm a mix of Choleric-phlegmatic.

Which is yours?

pansophist: I have dated a perfect description of a fiesty lady before, but relationship like that do not last. Sometimes it feel like I am dating a man because she lack some feminine feature.

MizMyColi:

I see your point clearly now sir.
Thank You.

I modified the OP already.

folameme: I'm a mixture of choleric,phlegmatic and melancholic

MisterLongman: I'm still undecided. Not yet sure of the one that best describes me

May I ask further?
Or leave things as they are, in this regard?

I know you're a Phleg, for starters.

MizMyColi:

Okay.

Check out these links:

http://www.personalitypage.com/ENFP.html - ChlorMel

http://www.personalitypage.com/ENFJ.html - Chlorphleg

**Warning**
Very Long but interesting read.

You might wanna let me know exactly which you are.
Mine's ENFJ btw

I'm actually thrilled at the possibility of meeting an exact personality typ, hence my inquisition.

MizMyColi:

Okay.

Check out these links:

http://www.personalitypage.com/ENFP.html - ChlorMel

http://www.personalitypage.com/ENFJ.html - Chlorphleg

**Warning**
Very Long but interesting read.

You might wanna let me know exactly which you are.
Mine's ENFJ btw

I'm actually thrilled at the possibility of meeting an exact personality typ, hence my inquisition.

dmcdad:
Like...? Just curious...

pansophist:

Pee while standing

dmcdad:
Awww... That's gross. Kinda like an eyesore to me.

folameme: I'm also ENFJ(buh d maintaining of an intimate r/ship got ma eye brows up)nahhhhh,r/ship is cool buh not likened to that ok?also wif a lil bit of ENFP.(I dnt like/enjoy been d center of attention)

pansophist:
Lol, you never see anything sha

dmcdad:
Ehn! You mean say more dey? Abeg ooooooo.

pansophist:
Na story you de find abi?

dmcdad:
I for like the story sha... I like to imagine what people experience so I can use it to formulate my thoughts or what I think about such.

MizMyColi:

Lolest.

Okay, let me ask you this.

Please answer in all honesty, it's a decider.

Given your first post on the thread, and some not too good comments that ensued, how d'ya honestly feel?

What do you think of the world we live in?

Are you beyond 21?

pansophist:

Ok make I talk about am sha.

You know a woman should be compassionate and restful, with a soothing attitude towards you, others and life generally. In as much as I like her quality of a strong lady, it just doesnt goes well. She is kinda bossy and is willing to fight if necessary, not violent per se, but that kind of attitude you put up that makes people just scared of you. She was a physical education student, and it didnt help much as it has affect her feminine physique, she has an interest in capoeira and is a professional in that. you might confuse her for a man if you look at her back from afar or at night.

The girl I dated was a european though, so it might be different from naija kinda girls.