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Can You Love A Strong Lady? by MizMyColi(f): 5:34pm On Oct 01, 2014

Hi all smiley
Good Evening.

So this topic sounds interesting to me, because, while I may not come across to a lot of people that way, chiefly because, I'm a balanced extrovert - introvert. I admit that I can be quite feisty strong, especially when it comes to defending people and standing up for what I know to be right.


Putting myself in perspective here, when a situation calls for it, I can become very sharp and critical.
After having made my point, I will return to my natural, warm self.


Now Feisty Strong in this case DOES NOT include, proud, arrogant, men hating women/feminists.

This Feisty topic actually piqued my interest and I'd love to know varying opinions on feisty women in this context.

Synonyms for Feisty Strong include the following:
fiery, spirited, active, bold, lively, sparkling, vigorous, energetic, animated, have-a-go, courageous, ardent, game, plucky, high-spirited, sprightly, vivacious, spunky, mettlesome.

Some quotes for feisty strong women:

There is in every true woman's heart, a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity, but which kindles up and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity ~ Washington Irving.


Strong Women only intimidate weak men. shocked undecided


*modified again*

So, I got this new perspective from MisterLongman and it's quite revealing:



Feisty::
High-strung,quarrelsome,hot-blooded,thin-
skinned,truculent, sensitive, difficult, aggressive,
fiery, ornery, argumentative, hostile,
temperamental, agonistic, antagonistic, huffy,
touchy e.t.c

I see you are trying to support the positive aspects of
being feisty but the negative aspects cannot be ignored either.

And I strongly support ^^^
If that is also what it means to be Feisty, then, No LADY SHOULD ASPIRE TO BE FEISTY.

Be Strong, If you can.
Not Feisty wink


*modified*

Okay, from the comments posted, it's clear most people didn't bother didn't reading thru' the OP.

Personally, and indeed, everyone kynda has this abhorence to the word "Feisty"

But having looked up it's meaning, I'm beginning to think it might not be a bad thing afterall, when applied modestly......I guess it's another way of saying.

"I am my own woman" or "That lady is Strong, Intelligent and Independent"

Now Guys know women as dependent biatches shocked who always like it cheap.
So why does it trouble some guys that a woman rarely asks them for stuffs or do the sex exchange

Well, I'll keep reading comments and making contributions where necessary.

Happy Independence grin
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by tobiboss(m): 5:36pm On Oct 01, 2014
Did nt read al dat, as 4 d topic, yes in bed, no in life

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Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by chibwike(m): 5:37pm On Oct 01, 2014
following..lemme read up ist
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by barackodam: 5:37pm On Oct 01, 2014
Ddnt finish reading that, read more than 75% though.

I guess I can, havnt been in the position though.

I should be able to
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by MizMyColi(f): 5:41pm On Oct 01, 2014
tobiboss: Did nt read al dat, as 4 d topic, yes at bed, no in life

You should read before commenting.

Life is not always black and white wink
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by mynd44bankrall: 5:42pm On Oct 01, 2014
MisMycoli is a "fiesta" lady. undecided

My Bed=My Life=


If you always claim right.

NO!!!


If not

MAYBE


But never a

YES!!!
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by vizkiz: 5:44pm On Oct 01, 2014
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by LogoDWhiz(m): 5:44pm On Oct 01, 2014
The word 'feisty' is considered too strong. Exudes negativity.
Its generally viewed in a 'not-took-good' way.

I'd have preferred ladies who are strong and dependent. But who doesn't have to be feisty.
I believe that if a lady is strong and dependent, she can stand up for her beliefs and defend herself and do most things 'feisty' ladies do.

When a lady is termed to be feisty, i don't think people will be convenient staying with her, cos when her feisty side comes up. There's no regard for who the culprit is.

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Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by tobiboss(m): 5:44pm On Oct 01, 2014
MizMyColi:

You should read before commenting.

Life is not always black and white wink
i'm hungry, when i eat... Btw, i'm black
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by esof1(f): 5:46pm On Oct 01, 2014
Like Op rightly said, only strong men can cope with feisty ladies.
They are intimidating and if you don't take your time to study them, you will judge them wrongly.
They are also very loving especially to their spouse.

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Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by remsonik(f): 5:46pm On Oct 01, 2014
Well as in most case I have experienced and my own personal experience, guy find you interesting to be with on dates,and being in a relationship but most times can't stand being commited to you. Some guys feel so insecured being around you cos they can't stand your intelligence and assertiveness which is above theirs.

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Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by tobiboss(m): 5:48pm On Oct 01, 2014
mynd44bankrall: MisMycoli is a "fiesta" lady. undecided

My Bed=My Life=


If you always claim right.

NO!!!


If not

MAYBE


But never a

YES!!!




read wat u wrote, i'm sure u won't knw wat u were even talkin abt undecided
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by mynd44bankrall: 5:50pm On Oct 01, 2014
tobiboss: read wat u wrote, i'm sure u won't knw wat u were even talkin abt :\
what are you saying? How can I not know what I am talking about? Or you mean what you are talking about? I don't understand you
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Oct 01, 2014
I for like read oo bt I de watch Indian film .
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by Crocz(m): 5:53pm On Oct 01, 2014
As a man, you won't like someone second guessing your decision, this is what the so called "feisty" ladies do ...yeah, call it whatever, in marriage men always have the final say...when you make one (decision), she feels hers is better...keeps happening at every turn and time, most of them can't keep their marriage (sorry, don't mean to offend no one)


But for me, I'd like to marry a vibrant woman...someone with her own mind, who'd respect my decision (& opinions) as I would hers...smart, courageous and above all, never go amiss in presence of her peer...and not a FEISTY woman!
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by chimerase2: 5:54pm On Oct 01, 2014
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew angry
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by pansophist(m): 5:56pm On Oct 01, 2014
I have dated a perfect description of a fiesty lady before, but relationship like that do not last. Sometimes it feel like I am dating a man because she lack some feminine feature.
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by Pennywise(m): 5:58pm On Oct 01, 2014
I met one this afternoon. I think am loving her.
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by tobiboss(m): 5:59pm On Oct 01, 2014
mynd44bankrall: what are you saying? How can I not know what I am talking about? Or you mean what you are talking about? I don't understand you
me neither
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by MizMyColi(f): 6:00pm On Oct 01, 2014
Crocz: As a man, you won't like someone second guessing your decision, this is what the so called "feisty" ladies do ...yeah, call it whatever, in marriage men always have the final say...when you make one (decision), she feels hers is better...keeps happening at every turn and time, most of them can't keep their marriage (sorry, don't mean to offend no one)


But for me, I'd like to marry a vibrant woman...someone with her own mind, who'd respect my decision (& opinions) as I would hers...smart, courageous and above all, never go amiss in presence of her peer...and not a FEISTY woman!

But that's Feisty! cheesy
You prolly don't like the use of the word?
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by MizMyColi(f): 6:02pm On Oct 01, 2014
pansophist: I have dated a perfect description of a fiesty lady before, but relationship like that do not last. Sometimes it feel like I am dating a man because she lack some feminine feature.

Lolest.
That one must have been hyper feisty.
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by Tallesty1(m): 6:03pm On Oct 01, 2014
MizMyColi and Adiche posting long topics since 1514AD

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Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by pansophist(m): 6:09pm On Oct 01, 2014
MizMyColi:

Lolest.
That one must have been hyper feisty.

hmmm...
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by Crocz(m): 6:13pm On Oct 01, 2014
MizMyColi:

But that's Feisty! cheesy
You prolly don't like the use of the word?

No, I don't...Feisty is not the same as Vibrant, is it? grin
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by jmoore(m): 6:20pm On Oct 01, 2014
Yes, I can.
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by MisterLongman(m): 6:24pm On Oct 01, 2014
I don't agree with that blog....... Being a feisty woman is entirely different from being a strong woman
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by MizMyColi(f): 6:25pm On Oct 01, 2014
Pennywise: I met one this afternoon. I think am loving her.


Lolest.

I hope you know you're the inspiration for this topic?
cheesy cheesy
When you used the word feisty, I felt bad, I mean, no one likes feisty, or so I thought.

So I decided to look up the meaning of feisty and I discovered, it had two statutory meanings.

One was extreme positive, the other is extreme negative.

So, I'm like "Hmmmm cool Feisty's not such a bad word now, is it?

I agree though, that everything has to be in moderate moderation.

So, Thanks smiley
Thanks for calling me feisty. I know better now.

Though having done a quick scan on self, I can't call myself outrightly feisty.
That said, I believe that all extrovert women have a bit of innate feistiness, whether they agree or not.

Different things trigger it, depending on their values, orientation and principles.
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by MrCork: 6:26pm On Oct 01, 2014
MizMyColi:
Hi all smiley
Good Evening.

So this topic sounds interesting to me, because, while I may not come across to a lot of people that way, chiefly because, I'm a balanced extrovert - introvert. I admit that I can be quite feisty, especially when it comes to defending people and standing up for what I know to be right.


Putting myself in perspective here, when a situation calls for it, I can become very sharp and critical.
After having made my point, I will return to my natural, warm self.


Now feisty in this case DOES NOT include, proud, arrogant, men hating women/feminists.

This Feisty topic actually piqued my interest and I'd love to know varying opinions on feisty women in this context.

Synonyms for Feisty include the following:
fiery, spirited, active, bold, lively, sparkling, vigorous, energetic, animated, have-a-go, courageous, ardent, game, plucky, high-spirited, sprightly, vivacious, spunky, mettlesome.

Some quotes for feisty women:

There is in every true woman's heart, a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity, but which kindles up and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity ~ Washington Irving.


Strong Women only intimidate weak men. shocked undecided




I got this from a [url=kategale./2011/06/02/feisty-women-should-you-put-up-with-them-do-you-want-a-feisty-woman-in-your-life-and-in-your-bed/]blog[/url] content



*modified*

Okay, from the comments posted, it's clear most people didn't bother didn't reading thru' the OP.

Personally, and indeed, everyone kynda has this abhorence to the word "Feisty"

But having looked up it's meaning, I'm beginning to think it might not be a bad thing afterall, when applied modestly......I guess it's another way of saying.

"I am my own woman" or "That lady is Strong, Intelligent and Independent"

Now Guys know women as dependent biatches shocked who always like it cheap.
So why does it trouble some guys that a woman rarely asks them for stuffs or do the sex exchange

Well, I'll keep reading comments and making contributions where necessary.

Happy Independence grin


^^ Story...are u light skin ? angry

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Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by MizMyColi(f): 6:36pm On Oct 01, 2014
MisterLongman: I don't agree with that blog....... Being a feisty woman is entirely different from being a strong woman

Oh, Okay.
I get your point.
And I agree too.

But, in this context, remember I made exceptions.
Could you please help by differentiating a strong woman from a feisty one?
Thanks in anticipation smiley

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Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by MizMyColi(f): 6:38pm On Oct 01, 2014
Tallesty1: Miz MyColi and Adiche posting long topics since 1514AD

Tok your mind joor cheesy cheesy
Re: Can You Love A Strong Lady? by MizMyColi(f): 6:41pm On Oct 01, 2014
Crocz:

No, I don't...Feisty is not the same as Vibrant, is it? grin

These are synonyms of "Feisty"
Make your pick. grin

Synonyms for Feisty include the following:
fiery, spirited, active, bold, lively, sparkling,
vigorous, energetic, animated, have-a-go, courageous,
ardent, game, plucky, high-spirited, sprightly,
vivacious, spunky, mettlesome.

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