missbronze:
Na una sabi.

As for me, the only thing i desire in this life is to have a CHILD. A child to give all my love, to train, and to raise.

And, is only a child that will make me do anything desprate. because, a child is all i desire in this life.

Husband or no Husband, i dont give a damn.

And, am so glad that one can have a child without a husband.

Atigba:
just like that who gonna hold you when the wealther is cold?

Toks2008:
This is my candid advice for the young eoman out there who still probably have time talking about ladies of 25yrs or below.

I keep telling ladies and when i write things like this it seems im stupid or i too know.

Marrying a man is not about your feelings towards him but his feelings towards you and its not about six packs,tall height,cute looks or even the cheese in his pocket.

A lady needs a man that will truly cherish her and every other thing is secondary and if you think i am blabbing,go do your research and you will realize that no matter how you think you love a guy,if he treats you like serious shit,that love you have for him will fly through the window.

It really matters to like the man in your life i know but trust me,if that man treats you well and i mean like a real queen,i give you a short while and you will wake up one day to realize how deeply you have fallen for him too even if he is a short fat ugly guy..Please think deep before falling for that sweet tongue guy.

As a lady,you an an endangered specie in this cruel world of man and your love for a man is so insignificant if he does not love you and your strong desire for a guy who does not truly desire you is the greatest mistake you will ever make.

The most unfortunate twist to this is that most ladies know a ,man who truly loves and cherishes them but they are always like "Tunde loves me i know but i don't love him" and she ends up with a man that will treat her like plague so i keep wondering that if ladies will only go for a guy who truly cherishes them, we will have many ladies settling down fast and will also have a very very low rate of divorce.

Be with a man who have strong feelings for you and not the one you have strong feelings for.

I can't stress this enough.

Adeboyefa:
...All men are ready for sex..

alutacontinua:


This post deserves a standing ovation!
I still don't get how women claim to 'love' men that treat them like trash.
Btw, @toks, is your wifey back?
Please, tell me yes

OnyeEgo1:


men dat post is tru, since men are d determinant of d gender of d child dey should also be d determinant of love i guess....

parismarc:
All these would stop the day the Nigerian society stops looking down on single ladies.

donpeey22:
Then let single ladies start making their own excuses instead of blaming an innocent Nigerian society. It annoys me when I
hear some ladies say that the Nigerian society is
"forcing" them into marriage, when the truth is that women of all races since time immemorial, crave men as if they can never exist without being married to a man.

cococandy:
Ike okwu adighi m today

I haven't said all those things you listed don't happen.
I'm just saying that despite them,the population of men is not lower than that of women.
There's no shortage of men.
As evidenced by accessible records.

All women need to do is reassess what counts as eligibility to them. Simple.

Toks2008:
This is my candid advice for the young eoman out there who still probably have time talking about ladies of 25yrs or below.

I keep telling ladies and when i write things like this it seems im stupid or i too know.

Marrying a man is not about your feelings towards him but his feelings towards you and its not about six packs,tall height,cute looks or even the cheese in his pocket.

A lady needs a man that will truly cherish her and every other thing is secondary and if you think i am blabbing,go do your research and you will realize that no matter how you think you love a guy,if he treats you like serious shit,that love you have for him will fly through the window.

It really matters to like the man in your life i know but trust me,if that man treats you well and i mean like a real queen,i give you a short while and you will wake up one day to realize how deeply you have fallen for him too even if he is a short fat ugly guy..Please think deep before falling for that sweet tongue guy.

As a lady,you an an endangered specie in this cruel world of man and your love for a man is so insignificant if he does not love you and your strong desire for a guy who does not truly desire you is the greatest mistake you will ever make.

The most unfortunate twist to this is that most ladies know a ,man who truly loves and cherishes them but they are always like "Tunde loves me i know but i don't love him" and she ends up with a man that will treat her like plague so i keep wondering that if ladies will only go for a guy who truly cherishes them, we will have many ladies settling down fast and will also have a very very low rate of divorce.

Be with a man who have strong feelings for you and not the one you have strong feelings for.

I can't stress this enough.

penzino:
ati emi na. Make dem park well.

donpeey22:
Nigerian society also look down on eligible single men, why don't such men get so desperate like single ladies would?

oluwadanie1:
*just passing by*
I don't have any business with this yet.
Am still 17

cococandy:
Eya. Such fallacy.
There are 102 males born for every 100 females.

the rest are speculations as the last census shows that there are approximately as much men as women and in some countires more men than women even.

The problem is the word 'eligibility'
When many women are hoping to marry a rich man they tend to overlook the single not so rich guys out there.

The women who don't see money as the first on the list of desirable traits will attest that there's no shortage of marriageable men

Again

Men generally do the proposing and since many men have commitment phobia... You know the rest.

Vikky014:
what are blankets for?

Chinom:



A relationship based on the bolded is doomed to fail. Not to mention a marriage. Women are not wired like that. Your ' candid advice' simply sounds good to the ears. it is an utopia. It can never work in a real marriage. Even amongst animals it does not work.
Most female species choose and decide who they want to mate with. They choose who will be the father of their offsprings. A woman who has no strong feelings for a man will not be willing to have sex with the man. Without sex, no children.
Women like to be blown away by their man. They can only let a man take charge if they have strong feelings for the man.

For a man, [b]"all cats are grey in the dark" [/b]But for a woman, that's not the case. You get my drift here / !

Atigba:
u mean dido?

cococandy:
Eya. Such fallacy.
There are 102 males born for every 100 females.

the rest are speculations as the last census shows that there are approximately as much men as women and in some countires more men than women even.

The problem is the word 'eligibility'
When many women are hoping to marry a rich man they tend to overlook the single not so rich guys out there.

The women who don't see money as the first on the list of desirable traits will attest that there's no shortage of marriageable men

Again

Men generally do the proposing and since many men have commitment phobia... You know the rest.

Vikky014:
what is dido?

alutacontinua:


This post deserves a standing ovation!
I still don't get how women claim to 'love' men that treat them like trash.
Btw, @toks, is your wifey back?
Please, tell me yes

Toks2008:


Lol! Honestly i hav put her case behind me as it seems she just wants to be a staller.

She is not sure of what she wants so just pray for her just as pastor chris asks us to pray for her zodiacmate ANITA Oyakhilome
(Ladies born within feb 20 and march 21)
Most Piscean ladies have that funny nature of been melodramatic in their relationship and matrimony and im unperturbed. When i see the right woman,i move on.

Atigba:
Day in Day out

Chinom:



A relationship based on the bolded is doomed to fail. Not to mention a marriage. Women are not wired like that. Your ' candid advice' simply sounds good to the ears. it is an utopia. It can never work in a real marriage. Even amongst animals it does not work.
Most female species choose and decide who they want to mate with. They choose who will be the father of their offsprings. A woman who has no strong feelings for a man will not be willing to have sex with the man. Without sex, no children.
Women like to be blown away by their man. They can only let a man take charge if they have strong feelings for the man.

For a man, [b]"all cats are grey in the dark" [/b]But for a woman, that's not the case. You get my drift here / !

alutacontinua:


This post deserves a standing ovation!
I still don't get how women claim to 'love' men that treat them like trash.
Btw, @toks, is your wifey back?
Please, tell me yes

alutacontinua:




I wish you the best!

Toks2008:


How old are you?

Are you married?

Please answer these questions before i continue.