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Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 2:31pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: In order words, your 1st wife never approved of it. Why didnt you inform her from the very 1st day of meeting her that you were polygamous? 4 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 2:32pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
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Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by chiefinalowo: 2:37pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Well, achievement means different thing to different people. It only shows that I prepared very well for it before venturing into it. 2 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 2:37pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
beeevan: Lol!! All you ladies are killing me! 3 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 2:38pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: And your wife was very well prepared too. 1 Like |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by chiefinalowo: 2:42pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Many of my friends are monogamist but each of them has more than five mistresses which I can not subscribe to. Which is better? To be polygamous or to be engaged in extra-marital affairs with several women? Some men that are monogamous engage in extra-marital affairs which I think is even suicidal to their so called wife. 2 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by chiefinalowo: 2:43pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
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Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 2:46pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: I was referring to your first wife who didn't know about your intentions before you went to marry another one. She was perfectly prepared. One could also call it back-stabbing. Never mind, even Jesus was betrayed by a close person. 3 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by chiefinalowo: 2:46pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
@carefreewannabe and others Please be sincere, answer the below question Which is better? To be polygamous or to be engaged in extra-marital affairs with several women? 1 Like |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 2:47pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: Here we are again, justifying one evil with another. Which is better to kill someone with a knife or with a hammer? 7 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 2:48pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: I would rather have him fvck around behind my back than marry another woman behind my back like you have done. 1 Like |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by beeevan: 2:48pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
ileobatojo: Nah true oo, i no fit see gun stand dey yarn bull*shit with such a man . 3 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by chiefinalowo: 2:49pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: My bad, never knew! In fairness to her, she did not prepare for it but she handled it maturely. 1 Like |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 2:51pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: I am sure you would also be "mature" if one of them married a second husband behind your back. 4 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by chiefinalowo: 2:52pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: You don't mean it! What about him contracting STD and get you infected? |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by chiefinalowo: 2:53pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Hahaha.......you are very funny |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 2:54pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: It also happens in polygamous settings. 4 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 2:55pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: Funny is good, deceitful is bad. 1 Like |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by chiefinalowo: 2:56pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: You are right, but it is very rare. |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by chiefinalowo: 2:58pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 3:06pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: Not true. Women in polygamous settings are more likely to contract STDs. http://www.modernghana.com/news/252599/1/polygamy-is-major-cause-of-sexually-transmitted-di.html http://www.eldis.org/id21ext/h6kh4g1.html 2 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 3:20pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
beeevan: carefreewannabe: 1 Like |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by greatgod2012(f): 3:22pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: 95% polygamy is as a result of cheating. Almost, if not all 2nd, 3rd,etc wives were formerly mistresses, so, it's still the same IMHO. 12 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 3:26pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
greatgod2012: Thank you. And he is asking which one is better when they are both the same. 6 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by zeb04(f): 3:32pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:so you believed that tales by moon light. |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 3:37pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
4 dh to go for wife no 2,that means our marriage get k-leg be that. So from d onset i don dey prpare my exit both emotionally and financially. Some men havnt seen nothing yet. Some ladies will sell both house and ppty and vamoose into thin air with d kids. That is why its good to jointly own those cars,houses, whatever together cos u can never tell. Lv no blind again o |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 3:40pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: So you were more concerned about preparing yourself but not with how your 1st wife felt or if she would approve at all. Lemme guess, she had no choice to put up with it because there is a child/children in the union, she was totally dependent on you financially and she never wanted a divorce. Therefore, you backstabbed/betrayed her. You knew she would never accept polygamy so you waited until after 4 years to let her know so that she would have no choice but to accept. Thats blackmail. Marriage based on blackmail. And i am sure you are seriously fantasizing about a peaceful home devoid of divisions, hatred and voodoo with the foundation youu have now set for your marriage. 5 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 3:41pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
zeb04: What tales? |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by beeevan: 3:41pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
chiefinalowo: And you believed that wives in polygamous setting are damn so faithful? 5 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by greatgod2012(f): 3:49pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: don't mind those unfaithful men, that is part of the thing they say to rope the innocent and faithful women, whereas, they knows within them that their wandering about is what led them choiceless of becoming polygamous. Well, personally, sha, any polygamous man was never faithful, it's cheating gone from bad to worse to worst to agidi. 4 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by greatgod2012(f): 3:53pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
beeevan: True. Many of the wives actually pay them back in their own coin. 2 Likes |
Re: Polygamy: Men: How Do You Tell Your Wife,you've Gotten A New Wife. by Nobody: 3:56pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
beeevan: Excellent! Apart from those that have been brought up religiously to accept it, I see 2nd, 3rd, 4th wives etc as people without scruples. They probably have no qualms about getting it on the side from other men. Lawd knows the number of STD's recycled in these homes where man and women are all screwing around. |
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