tintingz:
Sorry not all polygamy ends with infections.

How do you know this? are you in every polygamous home to know this?

Sophyrocks:


Dearie, take the words of people seriously. He is from a polygamous home and is also planning to be a polygamous man.

Well, as long as his wives know it right from the beginning and agree to it (but NOT bases on being desperate to have a man who takes care of them), I can live with it.

tintingz:
My plan is to marry one wife, God will.

Just that the way people paint polygamy entirely bad and make monogamy as the only best form of marriage and even focus on men alone is what I'm concern of.

No, it's not entirely bad and monogamy is not entirely good. I agree with you on this.

SAMBARRY:
kanwulia almost says the same thing yet they keep calling her crazy or clownish not knowing she's saying the truth. Jeez I missed that woman. Ig she was here I would have been laughing so hard now

People will always react when the truth is said.

Sophyrocks:


How do you know this? are you in every polygamous home to know this?

don't forget I'm from a "happy polygamous home".

carefreewannabe:


No, it's not entirely bad and monogamy is not entirely good. I agree with you on this.

First time. weew.

Farouksenior:
Bin followin d arguement. Tintingz na fighter ooo. E no wan gree. Choi. Ladies kill m

We never even start.

1 woman = 99 problems +/-
2 women = 99 X 99 problemz +/-(recipe 4 dying yong)

Some men knows how to handle women.

That's one of the reason polygamy still exist till date.

tintingz:
don't forget I'm from a "happy polygamous home".

So why concentrate on just your home? thats not enough to jump into conclusions. children never ever get to know if stds are shared between parents. E concern them? who will tell them? Married women and men mostly visit hospitals to get treated once they find out. we get to know this from nurses/doctors who work in the hospitals. In some cases, some women do not know they have been infected until they see their hubbies take 'strange' drugs and then get themselves tested. some outrightly experience symptoms. For a survey to conclude that 80% of married men do not use protection shows there is a lot of sharing of stds on the 'Marriage Bed' how much more a polygamous marriage.

Sophyrocks:


So why concentrate on just your home? thats not enough to jump into conclusions. children never ever get to know if stds are shared between parents. E concern them? who will tell them? Married women and men mostly visit hospitals to get treated once they find out. we get to know this from nurses/doctors who work in the hospitals. In some cases, some women do not know they have been infected until they see their hubbies take 'strange' drugs and then get themselves tested. some outrightly experience symptoms. For a survey to conclude that 80% of married men do not use protection shows there is a lot of sharing of stds on the 'Marriage Bed' how much more a polygamous marriage.

You getting it wrong here.

I didn't say poly men can't infect STDs.

Someone talked about the danger in polygamy(reference to fela infection) about being the good example of polygamy.

and i reply that not all polygamy ends with infections and to me he(fela) is not a good example of polygamy.

Sophyrocks:




People will always react when the truth is said.

before nko

tintingz:
I'm not a big fan of fela.

All I know is that he's trying to look African.

is unclothedness and lewdness part of African culture?



I thought the men are always advocating for women to cover up to make them look wifely even if the under has finally spoilt

SAMBARRY:
is unclothedness and lewdness part of African culture?



I thought the men are always advocating for women to cover up to make them look wifely even if the under has finally spoilt

African started with unclothedness and fela added his lewdness to it.

he's an artiste nao .

tintingz:
African started with unclothedness and fela added his lewdness to it.

he's an artiste nao .

so why do you people get angry when you see half naked ladies on the streets since Africa started out with unclothedness

SAMBARRY:
so why do you people get angry when you see half naked ladies on the streets since Africa started out with unclothedness

Things have change, our African mothers started dressing modesty at some point.

We now have enough clothing materials to make our clothes.

And in Nigeria where most people are religious.

...but in some part of Africa we can still find women exposing their br'east in festivals, when a king or prince want to pick a wife.

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