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Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Pepunis(f): 7:26pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
skyladon22:at that time i thought as an expirience man he will knw better, he first marry when he was 25, this my complain is what he made me to know his exes complain, some time if i probe more or having discussion, or some time he just say it by mistake, hmmmm |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Dymondgurl(f): 7:36pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
oweniwe:Oweniwe I see you!...thanks anyway. |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by oweniwe(m): 7:40pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Dymondgurl: do u kno ur pix is my wall paper right now? I appreciate..... . . . . . A beautiful smile cos it makes me smile too. |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Nobody: 7:43pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Pepunis: Don't worry he will change |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Nobody: 7:45pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
skyladon22: Mins is different, this is why I hate to be real here |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by JEITO: 7:46pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Pepunis:hmmm! First of all, your hussy is wrongly interpreting the scriptures: lev 18:23 says a man should not have sexual relationship with an animal lest he defile himself. Not his wife but an animal( bestiality) Most likely, he had a poor sexua.l orientation while growing up and also maybe the kind of church he grew in was one that shy away from se.x. But lemme leave the past and look at the present. Sorry am saying this o, but I see your husband as one that doesn't give much room to the feeling or opinion of his wife( I may be wrong though). If that is the case, what I'll encourage you to do is to get his attention: there must be something that excites him or catches his attention or there should be a time of the day when he is quiet and ready to listen. Take advantage of that opportunity and pour your hearts out to him but mind you, not rudely or loudly but with wisdom and reason making him know that he's being unfair to you. If it still doesn't work, get your spiritual head involved( not your family members or friends) I am sure he would give him. They may have to compel him into doing his responsibility. He may not like it, but he'll have to do it because of the respect he has for them. I won't advise you to involve marriage counsellors that are. Not really "christian" because I doubt if he would listen to them. It takes two to be married and both are responsible for the other. Phillipians 2:4: "don't just think about your own affairs, but be interested in others, too, and in what they are doing." Why I said talk to your pastor of Spiritual/marital guide because I want to believe you have a couple you are both looking up( more like a discipler or role model) and am sure they should have a very sound knowledge on the Bible's stand on this matter and so they can exercise a level of authority over your husband. It is not bad to compel people to do their responsibilities when they are not willing to. Also, take up the matter in prayer I know God is able to turn his heart aright. But cheating on him or breaking up, shouldn't be an option because it is possible that God has pit you in that marriage, so that you can help that aspect of his life. #marriageIsaboutMutualedification 2 Likes |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Pepunis(f): 7:46pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
brito:Amen |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Dymondgurl(f): 7:46pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
oweniwe:thanks, but wall paper?! Kinda scary. Don't wanna get implicated tho... |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by oweniwe(m): 7:47pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
brito: for wia? A man in his 50s? I assume he is thinking he is already "spent" so no need trying. But he may be hiding something about his past too sha. Pepunis pls check ur inbox 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by oweniwe(m): 7:49pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Dymondgurl: no no no no.... Am a gentleman. Just that d pix makes me smile whenever i look at it. . . . Why should i overlook what makes me happy? So i decided to "keep it"......!!... |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Pepunis(f): 7:54pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
JEITO:thanks so much for ur lovely post, it will help, i pray he change oooo, |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by successking401(m): 7:56pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Pepunis:pray well well.btw smtin tells me u've already started to knack kpekus outside or dat u want to start.and ur looking for reasons to justify ur already guilty as charged conscience.IMO 2 Likes |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Pepunis(f): 7:56pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
oweniwe:i have checked thanks |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Pepunis(f): 7:58pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
successking401:i will tell him i saw his twin, God bless though chief judge 9 Likes |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Nobody: 8:01pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
oweniwe: He may change one day |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by oweniwe(m): 8:02pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Pepunis: brito: how do you think a 50s church eccentric woman will react if her husband tells her to start wearing jeans trousers like a young gal cos it turns him on.... Do u think she will start wearing trousers? |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by JEITO: 8:11pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Pepunis:you are welcome. But you don't sound positive Well, I don't blame you for that. But it is important you believe it and confess it only then would you see it happen. Play your part, a wise wife builds her home: every woman has a weapon, potent enough to turn her husband's heart to her- discover yours and begin to use it positively. |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by pickabeau1: 8:37pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Pepunis: Choi.. third marriage When he courted you, did u even bother asking why he had 2 previous marriages You a young filly married a man in MANopause As coogar says, better go procure a vibrator cos if u are a caught..its out the window! marriage no 4! 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Nobody: 8:37pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Pepunis your best bet here is to invest in intimacy gadget, yes that. Even married ones with quite healthy sex life uses it. He will likely not agree but who will he report to? He is even hiding under scriptures when the problem is his mindset(ego-he got plenty). Did his previous marriage not produce kids? Why did a 'scriptural man' remarried after divorce if not for society? Unless your prayers makes him accept to see a counsellor he will not change...at 50 how much and long can you hope. Stop killing yourself over this, put your feet down if he resists and get the gadget then invest the remaining energy for more productive things. One more thing, do not allow him to transfer this mindset to your kids. |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by coogar: 9:26pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Pepunis: invest all your next month's salary on dïldos & duracell batteries. 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Kimoni: 9:40pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Pepunis: Epic response! So much conveyed in a simple sentence 4 Likes |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by beeevan: 10:21pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Seriously this man is old, let him be before he breaks his waist. You swore to celibacy the day you chose a man almost two decades older. For better, for worse.... 3 Likes |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by coogar: 10:23pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
beeevan: be nice! 2 Likes |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by edwife(f): 10:23pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
beeevan: You wicked! |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by fluffyz(f): 10:24pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
sorry u hv to go thru dis.my advice serve him groundnut and carrot and see if he will b on fire,if he still doesnt comply then get a Love Machine or vibrator and help urself out |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by beeevan: 10:25pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by beeevan: 10:26pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
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Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Kunbee: 10:30pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
A 50yr old ma change?!!!!!! Nairaland is just so optimistic , the man is set in his ways by now. Just forget or put it at the back of your mind. |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by edwife(f): 10:32pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
fluffyz: Please inform me here,because i am seriously confused. What are their benefits? |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by dytbabe: 10:34pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Eyah *sobs* Erm madam, if u want intimacy gadget, u can holla ehn, I will give u plentiful varieties Don't cheat with a man oo I can also get u a male figure Bt honestly I feel u And again u can't do nothin Don't forget to send the mail ko |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by pickabeau1: 10:34pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Guguru and carrot |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by edwife(f): 10:35pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
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