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Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by pickabeau1: 10:37pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
edwife: It may help a manopaused man ..who knows 18 years gap.....hmmmmm Can dry bones rise again |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Nobody: 10:40pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Put aphrodisiacs in his food at dinner time never try it at breakfast, unless he will be home all day |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by soulglo: 10:43pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
This man is evil. Since he knows that he does not like sex why did he not marry someone as advanced in age as he is. OP you married a man with two divorces. Did you bother asking him why before you married him? 2 Likes |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by edwife(f): 10:46pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Help him ermm where if i may ask? |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by pickabeau1: 11:05pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
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Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by misssPepper(f): 11:05pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Na wa o.. so @ 33 ur sex life is already dead? Till death? E hard o. Me I can't imagine it. Some things a Love Machine can't fix.. how long will u continue? Ur husband won't change, he's already set in his ways. For his 1st and 2nd wife to leave cos of same issue and he's not even being considerate enough to work on himself to keep d marriage. Anyway if u can, learn to use d intimacy gadgets. Anything 2 save d face of d marriage. Success in ur endeavours 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Nobody: 11:20pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
beeevan: phew!!! Beeeevvvvvvaaaaannnnnnnn! 2 Likes |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by oweniwe(m): 11:27pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
soulglo: "if i had known/you should have known" doesnt solve anything..... It may even lead to resentment. It has happened o..... the koko is not about being starved, but making the starvation as pleasant as possible. 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by soulglo: 2:05am On Oct 11, 2014 |
oweniwe: I agree but sometimes taking ownership of your mistake can help her make a better decision on the next step to take 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by free2ryhme: 3:58am On Oct 11, 2014 |
Pepunis: tell your husband to marry once is a duty, twice is folly and a third is madness 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by kay29000(m): 9:12am On Oct 11, 2014 |
Young ladies should learn from this. I have been reading a lot of similar stories like this lately. Maybe it is the way our society treats sex talks like a taboo. Are you sure your man isn't gay? He might not know it. From my research and work, it is very hard to find a man who doesn't like sex at all...unless he doesn't feel sexually attracted to women, then he must be feeling sexually attracted to men. Even Pastors are sexually attracted to women, they just do a good job in controlling that urge. Anyway, I think the only solution to your problem is for you to get intimacy gadgets and help yourself. Your man can't change how he feels, so you have to live with that reality. 2 Likes |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Nobody: 10:06am On Oct 11, 2014 |
it goes to show that people should settle the area of sexual compatibility before marriage.. its nice to save it for d wedding night ..but again there might be rude surprises awaiting u.sex is a necessary sin in my opinion.@Op well,u have made a non refundable purchase by marrying him..no turning back now.. I wud advise u get busy with work,church activities etc to take your mind off sex..Because the truth is the day u find yourself close to a man who desires u..I doubt if u can be able to withstand the temptation... |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by tintingz(m): 10:18am On Oct 11, 2014 |
skyladon22:Why must people sample themselves during courtship? Sampling from one courtship to another. |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by tintingz(m): 10:25am On Oct 11, 2014 |
Op, if these sexx issue will lead you to adultery, sleeping with other men it is better you divorce him and remarry a man that will give you 5 times a week. You are still young. 5 Likes |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Chaleeee: 11:10am On Oct 11, 2014 |
Spike his food with aphrodisiac. You can contact a local drug store in ur area. He will come raging at u like a lion. |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by skyladon22(f): 11:23am On Oct 11, 2014 |
tintingz:So you support divorce but not sampling Both are sins if you don't know So where is your for better for worse or your own is for better to stay for worse for go And don't tell me that you will divorce your wife if she fails to satisfy your urge Things men do. Easier said than done |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by tintingz(m): 11:52am On Oct 11, 2014 |
skyladon22:I support divorce not sampling there and there. imagine someone in a relationship going to like 5 times, in each relationship there will be alot of sexx sexx sexx. then later he/she will be dumped. What's is the use? Both are sins if you don't knowDivorce is not a sin. So where is your for better for worse or your own is for better to stay for worse for goThe op husband case is not about for better for worse thing, the husband doesn't like sexx. A couple being satisfied with his/her one lifestyle should not use it to suffer his/her own partner. And don't tell me that you will divorce your wife if she fails to satisfy your urgeI don't pray for such. ....but when things are not going well with both couples it is better for them to divorce. |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Blakjewelry(m): 11:59am On Oct 11, 2014 |
normally I don't commet on such topic and I know this is going to sound kinda wicked, the truth is, he not not going to change. if this is his first marriage it is understandable but his third? and all these counselling stuff I don't thing it is going to work because from ur description, he seem to be Mr know it all and attempt to bring the matter to hear is going to be a bruise on his ego the problem is psychological one. you are already stuck with him, the solution is either you quit or stick to him and adjust ur own sexual orientation to match his. all the babes wey never marry test the thing whether e dey work, if it is the babe asking the guy to wait until marriage it is understandable but if it is the guy then you should be concerned. 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by fluffyz(f): 12:13pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
edwife:groundnut and carrot gives u serious x urge and vibrator will help satisfy u instead of commiting adultry |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by esteltiarra: 12:29pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
coogar:.... 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by edwife(f): 12:39pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
fluffyz: OK |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by cretin: 1:46pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
how old is this marriage? s,e.x toys are wrong...n in the long run cant still compare with the original. spiking his food with aphrodisiacs..is also dicey......he might hv a heart condition/it might make him ill.u can try it as a last resort. you have a 7yr old kid?..u r 33?..that mean u married at least 7yrs ago?.......or this is ur 2nd marriage? how have u been coping for the past 7yrs?..or this his condition is a recent thing? 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by kendraloops: 2:40pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
serious something! Can't imagine life without sex, na to craze be that o. Same thing my mum faced, popc was way older too. Bottomline my dear Op, things won't change, if you like fast for 100 years, d age gap is a big no-no. That's hw one old fool too wanted to tie me down, he had 2 kids already o. Serious thing, sotay he even gimme ring, i turned it down o after calculations. How long can u m*sturbate? 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by skyladon22(f): 5:55pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
tintingz: I don't support divorce and it is not right to sample in every rship but romance and some smootching are allowed. In this her case she should have know better. If it was a no sex before marriage courtship, she should have discussed the issue of sex Since she is an active type |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Nobody: 7:14pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Sorry pepuins, when u have the urge jux self service and keep on praying for him |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Pepunis(f): 8:29pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
cretin:got married 2005, and had my first child 2007 sept, may be he pretended that time, after my first child he show whom he is |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by pickabeau1: 8:45pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Pepunis: Woman he is not pretending U married a man almost 20y your senior Do u expect his libido will b d same of man in 30s or even 40s He needs you for companionship in his old age and gave u a child to make u feel secure. The more u push along dis line the more one wonders what u saw in him Was it an arranged marriage? Was it an escape for u? If ur eyes have opened up now..get a divorce and marry a younger man instead of committing adultery or worse poison him to hasten his exit If not take responsibility for your decision and stick with a vìbrator Everyone here is blaming the man while few wants to tell u d truth. Only beevann did That's the issue if u dont want to accept |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Pepunis(f): 8:58pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
cretin:married 2005, had my first children 2007 sept, this whole thing started when i was preg, he pretended those few months, until he show who he is |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by oweniwe(m): 10:05pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Pepunis: sorry about that. Its not really about men..... Women pretend a lot before marriage too. Men marry women hpoing they never change...... Women marry men hoping they will change... After marriage, both often end up disappointed as its birtually impossible for a woman not to change physically and emotionally after marriage/childbirth....... While the men, well, their attitudes often get worse. You have to make up your mind whether you can endure it all till "infinity" or you will "play ball" or "check out"..... Gud p.m 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by Nobody: 4:11am On Oct 12, 2014 |
A confirmed runz babe from d response so far And guys r already falling for it Some hv started communicating tru pm. Toto! Always reset a man's brain anytime its mentioned |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by pickabeau1: 7:08am On Oct 12, 2014 |
moca: How did you get the scope 1 Like |
Re: Starving Wife, Help Advice Her Please by soonest(f): 10:13am On Oct 12, 2014 |
pickabeau1:And that seems to be your problem |
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