okotv:
make it a crime against men. For now am not sure it is

carefreewannabe:


I saw the link.

I said that if a gay man penetrates another man then this will be considered rape and I stand by it. The link does not prove otherwise.

All the link says is that it is easier to get away with rape on males because they are less likely to report them and to sue their rapists.

Women have fought for legal protection when it comes to rape to be taken more seriously and against people blaming them for having become victims. They have won this fight. If men do not speak up and cannot even explain what constitutes rape on them and for them, how can they be helped? Who do they expect to help them?

okotv:
I thought we were equal. Women can also join us in the fight cause male rape is on the rise. After all Emma Watson called on the men to help in her heforshe women rights campaign

EfemenaXY:




Do you just swallow everything fed to you hook-line-and-sinker?

Whatever happened to disagreeing with reasons? I don't believe in cramming for exams, and if I see fit, will always question the "norm" whatever that might be. That's how great minds work - not being afraid to ask questions.

Now what your opinion on this topic? Can a man be r.ape.d by a woman? If yes, then how?

Nonso23:

That analogy is very valid as far as your line of thought is concerned.
E.rection doesn't require fore brain activity to kick in. Digestion doesn't require conscious effort to start.
Both are majorly 'action begets reaction' responses of the body.
If you can proudly assert that once a man is forcefully raped he enjoys it because he erupts why do you have a problem acquiescing that when a man dies of food poisoning he enjoyed it because he digested the poison afterall?

As for your question i will in turn ask.

what is the use of fire if not to burn stuff or
Why do people have sex if not to get pregnant??

carefreewannabe:


For something to be considered a crime, people must know that it exists in the first place. I still don't get how a man can be ra*ped by a woman and I am not the only one. And if you don't know how, who is supposed to know? You are a male! Tell us!

okotv:
I think I need to speak with a victim first before I can share any experience cause I haven't experienced it .
@carefreewannabe

A 33-year-old man was allegedly held at gunpoint and forced to have sex with a woman in the backseat of a car after the woman’s female companion offered him a ride on the Near North Side over the summer.

The man begged one of his tormentors — who demanded he place his hands on her breasts and buttocks during the July 26 attack — to stop, Assistant Cook County State’s Attorney Amanda Pillsbury said Thursday.

He eventually escaped, running out of the car naked from the waist down and into a taxi where a cabbie helped him and drove him home to the suburbs, Pillsbury said.

The man had been walking in the 400 block of North Kingsbury early that morning when 25-year-old Cierra Ross allegedly pulled up to him and offered to give him a ride, the Chicago Sun-Times is reporting.

While she was driving, Ross pulled out a black revolver and ordered the man, who was in the passenger seat, to get in the back and have sex with her friend, Pillsbury said.

The woman in the backseat demanded that he take off his clothes and the man complied by taking off his shoes, pants and underwear before he was assaulted, Pillsbury said.

The two women also took $200 from the man, his credit cards and iPhone, according to a police report.

When the victim noticed a nearby cab’s headlights, he decided to flee and seek help, Pillsbury said.

The cabbie let the man use his cell phone to email himself a picture of Ross’ license plate number, Pillsbury said.

The victim later identified Ross in a lineup, Pillsbury said.

Ross, who also uses the alias Octavia Brown, was arrested on Tuesday, the police report said.

The other woman has not been charged.

Ross, who appeared in court Thursday in Jordan gym shoes and a black and red striped shirt, has previous misdemeanor prostitution convictions.

The mother of two currently is a waitress at Denny’s, her defense attorney told Judge Israel Desierto.

Desierto described the facts of the case as “somewhat unusual” before ordering Ross, of Olympia Fields, held in lieu of $75,000 bail for aggravated criminal sexual abuse and armed robbery.
http://chicago.cbslocal.com/2013/09/05/woman-charged-with-raping-man-bond-set-at-75k/

EfemenaXY:




Gosh! You're harsh o!

But me sef would like to know how a woman can r.ap.e a man. I need graphical illustrations. A video won't be too bad if the supporters of this claim can back it up with some tangible proof.

A picture, they say, represents a thousand words. So therefore, a video clip will represent a million words.

okotv:
Lady, I have followed your arguments on the issue of male rape and you seem not to understand how the make organ operates. Male rape is real as female rape. A doctor who specialises in treating rape victims and female confirmed it although its in the minority.
Guys need protection a lot this days. From women who can't control their urges to gays. Men, let's forget macho and cry for help or take laws into our hands when confronted .....lol

ileobatojo:
Oya Efe, come and read this story..



@ bolded

carefreewannabe:


PLEASE DO!

ileobatojo:


@ bolded, only in cases of violent rape. In a case of non violent rape, one will not be able to medically prove it was rape. You can only medically prove there was intercourse.

carefreewannabe:


In this story the women would be charged with se*xual and armed assault.

The same would happen if the victim was a woman. Her aggressor would be charged with sexual assault because no intercourse took place.

okotv:
www.redpepper.co.ug/african-businessman-dies-after-being-raped-by-his-5-wives/
maybe this might help. At least it happened

EfemenaXY:


Okay, so how does a man prove that he had sex against his will?

njokusboy:


Seems you have already decided you were gonna disagree before the lesson...

Yes, men can be raped...

A man can be drugged and ra"p'ed, as long as it's not consensual, it's rape... my lil man gets a'r'oou'sed even in my sleep, assuming I woke up to someone riding it, it counts as rape too... doesn't it?

A man can also be bound and r'a'ped, the penis would respond to stimulation of any kind unless the man is impotent.. so yes, he'd get an e'r'ec.tion.. the fact that he was forced (he had to be tied) clearly indicates that the act was done against his will... it's r'a'pe... deek no get brain... he'd stop her if he was not tied...

A strong lady can also overpower a man and r'a'p'e him.. a teenager maybe, a physically challenged or unhealthy individual, an old person or a weakling...

In all, as long as the person had to be forced, d'r'u'g'ged and was not able to resist, consequently, it's r'a'pe...

Why u dey squeeze face like dat sef.. who vex you

ileobatojo:


I don't follow. He was forced to have sex against his will under gun point. Where does it say no intercourse took place?

EfemenaXY:


That swipe against gays was unnecessary.

How does a man prove that he was sex.uall.y assaulted by a woman? How can it be medically proven that a man was r.ape.d by a woman?

carefreewannabe:


Where in this article is it written that he actually did have s*ex with them? Have I missed anything?

carefreewannabe:


African Businessman Dies After Being Raped By His 5 Wives

A wealthy businessman – and husband of six died after allegedly being forced into a marathon sex session with his ‘jealous’ wives.

Nigerian Uroko Onoja was having sex with the youngest of his spouses when the remaining five are reported to have set upon him with knives and sticks – and demanded that he have sex with each of them too.

Mr Onoja went on to have intercourse with four of his wives in succession, but ‘stopped breathing’ as the fifth was making her way to the bed in Ogbadibo, according to Nigeria’s Daily Post.

Two women have been arrested following the incident in the state of Benue last week, said the report, which used the term ‘raped to death’ to describe the businessman’s fate.

Mr Onoja is understood to have returned from a bar in the small community of Ugbugbu, Ogbadibo, at around 3am on Tuesday, and headed for the bedroom of his youngest wife.

His five other wives – who were said to have held a meeting to discuss their intentions before their husband arrived home – are then alleged to have burst into the bedroom armed with knives and sticks to insist that they too be granted their conjugal rights.

The businessman, who has been described as a philanthropist who ‘contributed positively’ to the growth of his local community, is thought to have resisted the demands of his wives’ before being overpowered.

Mr Onoja reportedly stopped breathing and could not be resuscitated after having sex with four of his wives in a row.

His youngest spouse is quoted as saying her five fellow wives ran into the forest when they realised their husband was dead.

The head of his village, Okpe Odoh, told the Daily Post the matter had been reported to police.


I am surprised he was able to get it up under such circumstances. How is it possible?

Anyway, that helps a little bit.

Now, the incident has been reported to the police. Were his wives persecuted?

ileobatojo:


The very first sentence?

okotv:
I can't say.

join in the fight against male rape.

njokusboy:
And Efe, some women actually start enjoying the act at some point. It has happened severally...
The rapist would have to be possessed by all the evil spirits in my village to claim that what he did was not r'a"pe because the woman was moaning at one point.... so your point about the man getting aroused does not hold...

I didn't accede to have s,e"x with you, you got what you wanted against my will... it's r'a'pe, it don't matter whether the victim was male or female... stop the double standard...

carefreewannabe:


Thanks.

Last sentence:

Desierto described the facts of the case as “somewhat unusual” before ordering Ross, of Olympia Fields, held in lieu of $75,000 bail for aggravated criminal sexual abuse and armed robbery.

ileobatojo:


I don't get your point. Rape is a type of aggravated sexual assault.

Nonso23:

Your first line is more applicable to you obviously.
You agree to one instance and vehemently ignore another on some shaky basis.
I'm not arguing for the sake of argument, i'm just appalled at the thought process that birthed those ideas.
The main aim of churning activity of the stomach = digestion.
You are quick to accede to biological differences in the sex organs of both genders but refuse to recognise biological differences in their pattern of response to stimulation?
Somehow your 'standard' response to rape is the female version?

R.ape is very difficult to prove except in violent cases. Violent rapè cases can be proven irrespective of the gender of the victim.