No man likes to discover that his girlfriend has set her eyes on another chump. What is even more heart shattering is the discovery that she has already done the unimaginable and cheated on you.

Here are some signs that she might have taken a roll in another man's hay bale. But before you start suspecting your girlfriend or accusing your wife of cheating, remember that these are just signs. Ultimately, you should trust your instincts.

You must also be on the look out for combinations of these cheating signs for a more definitive indication of trouble. Lastly, there is the chance, however slight, that she is actually doing some of these things to provoke jealousy or to attract you , so be careful, be wise and, most importantly, be smart.

Number 10
Scent of another man

Scent is a very important sign of cheating girlfriend, but if she suddenly starts wearing a new fragrance, the alarm bells need not sound off. She might be simply trying to spice things up in your relationship. Going off the deep end too soon could damage your love life — permanently. However, if you smell another man's cologne on her clothes, hands or neck,then she may be planting her lips where she shouldn't. Watch out.

Number 9
She doesn't criticize you anymore

There was a time when she cared about what you did or said, in fact, she used to hound you about those type of things. Now, it seems that she couldn't care less if you were dead or alive and concern about your habit's, good and bad, have retreated to the recesses of her mind. She might have simply given up on trying to convert you or she finally accepted your faults, but she could have just as easily met someone else who does not have your faults and bad qualities.

Number 8
You caught her in a lie

Catching her in a flat-out lie is a key sign that she is cheating on you or doing something wicked. When you discover that the person you're supposed to trust has been lying to you, your feelings will surely run the gamut — from anger to rage, and from frustration to sadness. But keep this in mind: if men are stuck with the "once a liar, always a liar" lyric, the same stigma can be applied to women.

Number 7
Your sex life is non existent

In the past, the two of you went at it like wild animals in heat, but now she gives you the cold shoulder when you try to initiate sexual relations and intimacy is nonexistent. Either she has lost interest in you, which is not good, or she is getting her kicks elsewhere, which is really not good. It's time for a talk if the two of you are still intimate but find that she lacks any desire for you.

Number 6
She has a new wardrobe

She has an entirely new wardrobe, her lingerie has taken a cue from Victoria's Secret and her hair looks great. She could be cheating on you, but here is a warning to the paranoid: if she started a new job, for example, she is probably not cheating. If she is doing this all for you, wake up and please her as she is not cheating on you... at least not yet.

Number 5
She's getting in shape

She hits the gym,eats healthier and she has her eyes set on becoming fit in a short time span. Again, she might be looking to improve her health and lifestyle or she might be doing the extra laps for you. But if she gets home from the gym, showers and runs out (without telling you where she's off to), then something is up.

Number 4
She works longer hours

A surprising number of women have admitted that if they were to cheat, it would likely be with a colleague. So unless she was just promoted, has a project to close or she's in the midst of a busy season, her work hours should remain more or less stable. If she suddenly starts working 60 hours a week instead of 40, she might just be "logging" in those 20 extra hours on someone else's pay sheet. You should take note, as it might be time for you to punch out.

Number 3
She likes her new colleague

Your girlfriend might be cheating if she was, at one time, constantly talking about her new male colleague, pal or friend and suddenly stopped. This guy, who at first seemed to seemed to be the center of the universe, suddenly disappeared from the radar. Actually, he only disappeared from your radar, as he has become the number one bogey on hers. If you see your girlfriend showing any form of affection toward another man, alarm bells should start ringing. The only instances that you shouldn't suspect her of cheating are if this man is a relative or an old friend. Could this reverence for the new star employee be the reason she no longer invites you to the office parties?

Number 2

You're cut off from her family

Her family is now exactly that: her family. One reason for the extra barrier might be to facilitate the eventual separation caused by her cheating or she needs her family to cover up for her. Perhaps the"in-laws" are in the dark as much as you, and would not condone her actions. Whatever her motives, you have discovered that you actually miss the family gatherings that you once dreaded.

Number 1
She has become defensive and paranoid

She thinks that you are out to get her when you are genuinely clueless about her cheating ways. She stutters and worries excessively when you ask her innocent questions. She answers some phone calls and reacts awkwardly, while she completely avoids other calls. Her sudden fear and paranoia have you worried about her health, until you realize that her health regimen has been getting an extra dose of protein.


*She's the cheating kind

If you notice any one of the aforementioned signs in your girlfriend or wife, don't fly off the handle just yet. Remember, it's important to keep sudden behavioral changes in mind as you examine and contrast her regular actions against her new attitude. When you suspect your girl of cheating it is best to follow your instincts first and to keep an eye out for any number of signs. Naturally, our first instinct when we discovera cheating girlfriend is to end the relationship. However, this is up to you and you need to consider what you might have done, if anything, to provoke the cheating and how much time you have invested in the relationship.


Source: http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating_top_ten/28b_dating_list.html


Do u agree with all of these points, are there some points the writer exaggerated?

If i hear...

Hmmnm

No. 9
She doesn't criticise you anymore ke?
She criticises you even more

she smiles sheepishly when talking about this 'new friend' of hers.

number 1 applied to me some time ago b4 I repented

We met, we talked, we liked, we dated, we committed, we loved, you cheated, we're done, we're deleted.

Y'all should say no to cheating.

Op why is the thread referring to a "she" ?


When in reality cheating is common with men

Or is counter thread loading?

HackErs

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irishCream:
Op why is the thread referring to a "she" ?


When in reality cheating is common with men

Or is counter thread loading?

lol. an "F" could take up d male version

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I have never done this before,


this is my first time.

Some pple are beautiful liars and smooth criminals. In fact you need to meet NGOZI, my ex

write2obi:
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I have never done this before,


this is my first time.

first time of doing what?

lalasticlala:



first time of doing what?

Buying plot of land

Maybe,but probably true,why do people cheat I fink we shud ask why do people sin against God and is dere a God self,an unending questions and answer is if u find her cheating either red or white handed, quit or accept her simple

I hear you

I'll be back to comment

10 signs? For naija? A land infested with correct mugus,

Abegii guys dy cheat without a symptom of a sign, this one na wash

You would know I'm cheating if I suddenly don't want anything to do with you anymore. I'm a monogamist by nature so if you think you are getting out of my mind its probably cos someone else is getting in.


moral of the story
Find your way out before I give you the notice.




Off topic? I know.

that number 9 sha

Some of those thing doesn't work hear, African woman is different from oyinbo woman

catch me if u can

You were her 'wikipedia and google' and you made her smile at every turn. Then suddenly she stopped 'visiting the site' (asking you questions), but she counters them before una land. Abeg turn jack bauer and catch Her and Sopreye feeding on supreme-icecream!

FP....

No 6 happened to me
Ma baby cum dey wear different G string

50/50
Nice tho