Aksonman:


[size=13pt]Nna, after OP don help you catch the babe finish, shey na him go still help you enter bedroom come wire the girl? Use your own brain small nah...haba! All these small children on Nairaland sef.[/size]

You're not the op,nna.Let the matured,generous op do his job. Thanks in advance.

RedEboe:


Yes, women can experience extreme orga$m during a.nal $ex. As per the 'pain', it becomes an acquired taste.

OK, no more a.nal sex questions from you kid, aight?

am no kid, I am in my late 20s, I have a reason why I asked questions concerning a.NAL sex. Thanks for enlighting me, I am grateful.

Op,what's your impression of opposite sex relationships in Nigeria(Lagos).Are our girls/women now more interested in materials than substance,as is generally believed? What's your personal opinion on this?

anssy:
am no kid, I am in my late 20s, I have a reason why I asked questions concerning a.NAL sex. Thanks for enlighting me, I am grateful.

That's OK, you are welcome.

T

RedEboe:


whenever you walk up to a beautiful lady always have it at the back of your mind that she's an ordinary human being just like you. I'm sure you've had numerous experiences where you've stirred up or participated in conversations (about English Premiership) with total strangers in Danfos, BRTs or Molues- have that same mindset when next you attempt to toast a pretty lady. Go with the flow.

Thanks.Na man you be.

hugoart:
TThanks.You na man.

LOL, you are welcome.

hugoart:
TThanks.Na man you be.

Again, you are welcome.

I've got gals that re really admiring me...there is one close to my house..don't know how she got my number and she's not my type but as a potential player(for my mind) i still got taste...should i go ahead to woo her?... she's this village average girl,a little bit tooshed, she just came to lagos last year!...jjc u know!..and I've never screwed anybody that makes a virgin i think!...i want to screw lot of gals but i find it time and funds consuming!.... fire me some advice and answers man!

Really really interesting thread, one of the few threads that has ever made me read all of its 8 pages so far.
Matured responses, with intelligent, well thought-out, honest to earth answers.
Kudos to you OP, you must be a really intelligent guy, sort of remind me of what Seun would have possibly been like if he had decided to be a 'gangster bad boy'.

This thread is turning out to be one of the best threads in Romance section.
Recommended for front page!

^^^^^ some threads are interesting when they are not taken to front page and this is one of the threads. Once it gets to the FP insults n childish comments take over. Without being on the FP, an interesting thread will mature like jungle

Serious thing

hugoart:
Op,what's your impression of opposite sex relationships in Nigeria(Lagos).Are our girls/women now more interested in materials than substance,as is generally believed? What's your personal opinion on this?

All individuals both men and women have needs and material needs i.e MONEY, is very important to all of us. I have seen Nigerian men who don't have cars but wield N70k worth handsets-these men acquire such items because it makes them feel good and perhaps stand out. So, why then should some men complain if their women want N50k worth of Brazillian hair? Does it not also make her feel good and stand out in public?
My own conclusion/opinion, Nigerian men and women are THE SAME when it comes to materialism.

calobinna:
I've got gals that re really admiring me...there is one close to my house..don't know how she got my number and she's not my type but as a potential player(for my mind) i still got taste...should i go ahead to woo her?... she's this village average girl,a little bit tooshed, she just came to lagos last year!...jjc u know!..and I've never screwed anybody that makes a virgin i think!...i want to screw lot of gals but i find it time and funds consuming!.... fire me some advice and answers man!

If you are still a virgin guy (as you've said) and you are too desperate to have $ex, I can assure you that all you'll end up with is the 'average village girl' you've just talked about.
You started your comment by proclaming that you've "got lots of gals admiring" you. So, why don't you zero in on one of your 'numerous' admirers and do your thing?

PS: Emphasis on safe $ex please,use a condom.

OP well-done oo! U didn't answer the question on under-aged girls. By the way do u have any form of guilt dealing with ladies you know could be within the age bracket of 18 & 19 that is if you deal with them. Secondly have you deflowered any lady b4? If yes can you justify you reason? because I know most flowered gals attach clauses.

I tink m in LUST wit dis op
Oya all ye tongue lashers save urself d stress cos i know u'll want to preach to me and bla bla bla. Buh hey, i really dont care

Lekmusic:
What influence did po*rn have over your s*exual knowledge/powress?

How do you satisfy your urge to unleash what you know and enjoy sexually without involving your wife...as not everything is practicable with the wife

How do you pull off a three*some? Convincing an extra lady to join and making it sound okay to the 1st lady. This is assuming they are not sexually adventurous as you are

1. I love watching p0rn, especially those that involve Black women, I don't like or enjoy watching p0rn featuring white people. I also watch educational $ex tapes,most of which are highly recommended to married couples.

2. Truthfully, your wife may never be able to satisfy ALL your $exual desires (and you may never be able to satisfy hers), but you'd be surprised at how far many wives will be willing to go in satisfying their husbands' $exual desires if he's man enough to tell her what he wants.
You may not agree with me, but in many Nigerian marriages,it is the husbands that are more scared of revealling their inner most $exual desires to their wives, not the other way round.

3. When it comes to three$omes, it is best to allow your woman be the one to go search out a playmate for you guys. Going out of your way to bring two different women together for a playdate might not work out as planned. It's not impossible though but rather difficult.
Hence, the task before you is to find just one $exually adventurous lady and the rest will follow.

rallymento:
OP well-done oo! U didn't answer the question on under-aged girls. By the way do u have any form of guilt dealing with ladies you know could be within the age bracket of 18 & 19 that is if you deal with them. Secondly have you deflowered any lady b4? If yes can you justify you reason? because I know most flowered gals attach clauses.

1. Young girls within the age bracket of 18 & 19yrs cannot be described as under-aged. Last time I checked, the Nigerian constitution pegged 18years old as the official age for becoming an adult. However, if you get $exually involved with any girl below the age of 18yrs then you rightfully belong to a prison yard where other men will get $exually involved with you.

2. I only got down with a virgin ONCE in my life and it was one of my worst $exual experiences; I think I still have the finger nail marks she gave me on my back.

op,did you sometimes made use of Vaseline,when so Hot but no pusaw available?

veegirl:
I tink m in LUST wit dis op
Oya all ye tongue lashers save urself d stress cos i know u'll want to preach to me and bla bla bla. Buh hey, i really dont care

LOL

Fkhalifa:
op,did you sometimes made use of Vaseline,when so Hot but no pusaw available?

Ma$turbation is one of the most common past-time for men, married or single, player or dullard.

How long is best to wait before asking for sex?

A new trend for gals to have a bf and a number of side guys has been observed. What's your take?
And what if a girl demands for money,etc without reciprocity(sex,etc)?What should guys do?

dont8:
Nice thread with mature questions and answers, this has shown that threads of this nature should be allowed to 'germinate' before hitting front-page so as to separate the wheat from the chaff.

Now going by your sexcapade (it's not a mean feat to hit 100+ ladies), ain't you at any time afraid or of it crossing your mind that most of the ladies might have had medical issues and the probability of them dying in your house (God forbid though)?

Years ago, a close friend of mine sleeping over at my place brought in a girl suffering from epilepsy. She had an attack while they were 'doing it' on my couch (I was in my room sleeping jeje) and it wasn't a funny experience. We didn't know what to do, call in the neighbors and risk being accused of gang r.aping her to death,or call the police and risk even bigger problems. By the time she regained consciousness after 10minutes or so,we quickly took her straight back to her hostel at Akoka-time was round 2am.
This was my first and last experience with a woman habouring health issues.

hugoart:
How long is best to wait before asking for sex?

12hours, 3days, 2weeks, 3months, it doesn't matter...whenever you want $ex just ask for it but be man enough to respect whatever answer(s) she gives you.

hugoart:
A new trend for gals to have a bf and a number of side guys has been observed. What's your take?
And what if a girl demands for money,etc without reciprocity(sex,etc)?What should guys do?

It is not 'a new trend', many guys also have steady girlfriends with multiple side chics. A woman does not owe you any real loyalty until you pay her bride price.

If a girl demands for money but doesnt reciprocate your financial gesture with $ex, don't give her money next time. Just go out there and look for other women that are willing to give you $ex in exchange for your money. I can recommend a few streets to you in Lagos, after dark.
Abi?

RedEboe:


1. Throughout my primary to early secondary school years, I was scared of/and crazy shy with girls. The first time I ever summoned up courage to dance with a girl was in SS1-let's just say things took up from there.

2. It is not wrong to investigate a woman before you date her. Especially if she's the type that gives conflicting details about herself during your 'get-to-know-her' stage.

3. Cheaper means of getting 'your harvest'? Invite her on outings and dates to events where someone else has already incurred the expenses on food and drinks i.e your friends birthday party, your cousin's wedding reception, your musician uncle's album launch. You dig?

4. You are welcome.

1. You did not answer this question. Did you take the same path?
2. Changed my perspective, used to think otherwise but your exception makes perfect sense. thanks.
3. This is a tactic I've not heard (a big compliment coming from ME). Seriously, give me more.

RedEboe:


It is not 'a new trend', many guys also have steady girlfriends with multiple side chics. A woman does not owe you any real loyalty until you pay her bride price.

If a girl demands for money but doesnt reciprocate your financial gesture with $ex, don't give her money next time. Just go out there and look for other women that are willing to give you $ex in exchange for your money. I can recommend a few streets to you in Lagos, after dark.
Abi?

exactly I remember a gal telling me I haven't paid her bride price and it was fr anyone when I was smooching......sometimes it is better not to get stressed on with a lady,many ain't loyal but some are......

DrProf:


1. You did not answer this question. Did you take the same path?
2. Changed my perspective, used to think otherwise but your exception makes perfect sense. thanks.
3. This is a tactic I've not heard (a big compliment coming from ME). Seriously, give me more.

Answer to first question, NO!

Bizibi:
exactly I remember a gal telling me I haven't paid her bride price and it was fr anyone when I was smooching......sometimes it is better not to get stressed on with a lady,many ain't loyal but some are......

I agree with you, "never get too stressed over a lady that is not yet your wife"...same goes for ladies in their dealings with boyfriends.

share your experience with the girl you disvirgined.

fadjnr:
share your experience with the girl you disvirgined.

I can't, the bite marks and finger nail marks still hurt,11 years after.
LOL!!!!

Anyways, she was about 26 years old, and when I first met her,she was forming 'gangster babe' and all, when the D-day came and she revealed her virginity, you can imagine the shock I had to endure. So between both of us there were two firsts, her first time of ever having sex and my first time of encountering a virgin. Both of us were totally clueless on what to do!

But we eventually sailed through...I still hate the sight of blood!