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Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Jyde81: 2:29pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
caesaraba:God bless u. Me too only a woman with a means of livelihood... |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by EziAsh: 3:07pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
I wounder who developed these thought that women only sit and wait on their men to do everything.If i can remember in my community all women have always done one thing or the other.This construction that women do nothing to me is not real.Even those who are full time house wife don't sit around.Being a house is more that an eight hour job in itself.It never ends.How many women in our society are lucky to just sit around.I would say few.From the villages to the cities women do not sit ,unless you start telling me their own way of contributing to the family is valueless. 1 Like |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by AreaFada2: 3:25pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Well, that's what we all hope for. Except for religious and cultural reasons in very conservative people, most men want their wives/gfs to be productive. Only that when some women start earning more, they want to wear the trousers in their home. When the man now complains about sudden disrespect and arrogance, he's accused of being insecure. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nelsizzy(m): 3:36pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Neldrizzy:no ooooh, jxt decided tu j0in NL recently. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by beeevan: 4:01pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
The same peeps that condemned a woman for clinging tenaciously to her job and ignoring her overbearing husband, is the same people shouting women should be yadahyadah...NLanders confused since time immemorial, always speaking from both corners of their mouths . Except a woman is disabled, no married woman with kids has the luxury of ever sitting around and doing nothing. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Neldrizzy(m): 4:11pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Nelsizzy:isorai.... U r welcum |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by beeevan: 4:18pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
...yet women are forced to quit their jobs and focus on family by the same men who claimed that their wives must work in their infantile. A thread was opened about men doing chores, it wasn't shocking to see them blaming it on 'westernization' and condemning women assigning house chores to their husbands. If you really want her hustling with you, wont it be fair if you hustle with her in the home front? If a working wife is every man's dream, how come husbands are still forcing their wives to quit jobs? Question for the God's I guess . Are these men hustling for working wives because they want to stay at home and play Ludo while handling the house girl's back side, who knows. Am just thinking aloud... Every woman gat to be doing something for herself though, but no married woman has the luxury of being a liability, only the laziest and most ungrateful of them all will utter such crap. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by beeevan: 4:24pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Daresh: Gbam! |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by beeevan: 4:29pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
londoner: |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by beeevan: 4:49pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
kandiikane: You get sense die 2 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by radicalove(f): 5:24pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Damalex4luv: I quite understand ur take on this issue, but then there are many men out there who are insatiable, they are never satisfied no matter what women do for them, in this type of case, should the women continue to kill themselves for nothing?? |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Eneze1(f): 5:25pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
beeevan: GBAM! could not have said it better, a lot of them want to eat their cake and have it HYPOCRITES |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by beeevan: 5:28pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Eneze1: U dey mind them. ... |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by 40dogzz(m): 5:32pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Yeah, this is so true coz 2 head ar better than 1. U hear different stories of when a man dies, his brothers family comes & claim all the fortunes, leaving the wife & the children stranded. The word is enough 4 the wise! |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by amtiredalryt: 5:49pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Very true, but u c ther ar men dat wil abuse such efforts by d woman. Seeking ha downfall,blivin he is playin smart |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by missojugo(f): 5:53pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
scribble: You are indeed a correct MAN.....All these small small boys here don't know anything. And yes I am a working mom ! |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by LaBonito(f): 5:59pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Lazy men just dey type God bless u....... it is u guys responsibility 2 provide 4 d family. We women hav our own part 2 play... period. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by MissBoss01(f): 6:02pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
HARDDON: Very funny buh sadly its Tru....... I don't knw wen some FishBrain gals(BigGals) would rise 2da ocassion....... |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Savigne(f): 6:55pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
I cannot go through school, struggle to get good degrees and end up becoming a stay at home woman,neither can I be so heartless to sit back relax and feel fine while another woman's son toils all day just to spend it all on me. I'm fan of symbiotic relationships,say no to parasites!...Imagine spending 70% of your income on a girl that cant spend even 30% of hers on you all in the name of love.. Love kpo oku. Any girlfriend that is ready to take and take without giving anythng useful in return (sex doesnt count) will wreck you if she becomes a wife... My humb,e submission 1 Like |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 6:58pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Gerrard59:My brother, hypocrisy or hypocritic, I am not in support of a woman being the breadwinner of the family when her husband is alive; God will never allow that to be my portion!! Secondly, I strongly support the poster 's proposition that women should be productive, but that shouldn't be an excuse for some husbands to abandon their family/marital responsibilities for their wives...and shouldn't also be an excuse for guys to become lazy, but then, women should be productive for their own good and to make them become reasonable/responsible in spending and demanding from men. My father never abandoned his family/marital responsibilities for my mother, and neither did he wait for my mum to help him...and even though my mum worked and contributed, she did so out of her own desire to be productive and supportive, not because my father made it a mandate for her to contribute, so I am following on my father's footsteps! By the special grace of God, my future wife won't need to labour to support me, but she will be productive to keep her happy (cos every sane humane feels good when they are earning money)...so I won't abandon my responsibility...I will take very good care of my future wife and kids cos that's y I have been hustling As for girlfriends, DailyNews doesn't recognise girlfriend-boyfriend relationship and that's y I am never in support of a guy sponsoring or spending so much on a girlfriend- its risky and foolish!!! To me Now u maybe wondering: y is this guy supporting wife-dependency on husbands Then I ask- do u know what it means for a woman to abandon her father, mother, siblings, uncles, nephews, nieces, aunts, granma, grandpa, just to live with you, a stranger forever and even forfeit her father's name to bear yours That sacrifice alone deserves a lot abeg |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Sirlucky1(m): 7:15pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
asset my foot. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 7:23pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Gorgeous58: i don't think you are her problem. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by donephi(m): 7:49pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
missberrypop5:Do u stay in jos |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Damalex4luv(m): 8:11pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
radicalove:that's another dimension entirely but the truth of the matter is that it's always good if a woman can fend for herself it's even a kind of boost of confidence for a lasting relationship, because she'll always have that respect she deserves from her husband and more so making both of them to have a very good rapour in building a successful home.. 1 Like |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by bukatyne(f): 8:11pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Gerrard59: LOL @ bolded: I will be kind and strike the men out Most Nigerians |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 8:45pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Every woman wants to be the kind of wife that a man would be pride off. But the men are making it harder and harder for this to be ahcxived. No woman in her sane mind would do anything to cause stagnation or backwardness for her hubby. They are always willing to do the little they can to help run the home. But when it is being awarded with envy, greed, ingratitude, gloom; then it becomes burdensome for the woman to stay true to this act. No one wants to be a liability but when becoming an asset is seen as a threat, the best bet is to withdraw. Hi mismeiya Hi masonkz Hi gsking Long time to read. 3 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Gerrard59(m): 8:47pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
DailyNews: You still haven't made sense. When you start making sense ,notify. As for your last sentence, it only goes to show the hypocrisy I have been pointing out, Why want An ASSET Girlfriend BUT A LIABILITY Wife? When you make sense, create a notification app and upload it on the Playstore |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by HARDDON: 8:49pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
yeshi: It boils my blood to see people selling short. Isn't it high time u eagles stretch out ur wings n soar? Ain't u all tired of possessing such amazing soaring powers yet u scrub scraps wiv them chicks? |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 8:58pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
DailyNews:Many dey cry to be and abandon the name too. But y u never marry? Na after marriage u go know say u Neva hustle enuf...in short nothing. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 9:05pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
LaBonito:but aren't we equal any more? |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 9:14pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
iyabodeh: Hi babe. Hope you've been good. |
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