cutieberie1:
wat do u wnt dem to say sha nt al gals re intelingent sha if u lyk d borin ones u beta stat initiatin d conversation.anyway i knw hw to keep d conversation goin

evegran:
OP stop generalising, you've been unlucky to meet female who dunno how to chat. Go and cry to the gods!

iKillzz:
No girl is a boring chatter.

The same girl you just called boring, go and check her whatsapp contacts and her BBM contacts and you'll be shocked. Go check her twitter and see how active she is. There's always a guy that a girl can chat 24 hrs non-stop with. Always. If they have found a guy to spice up their day, the rest will take a back seat until she finds one more interesting than the one she spends all day on chat with.

The problem is YOU. YOU are boring, as a person. That is why you find yourself in the back seat with all the ladies you initiate a chat with. Time for you to take the driver's seat. Improve yourself and gather knowledge on the things a lady finds interesting.

Ucheosefoh:
Op what you are doing is not chatting you are conducting interviews

Cutehector4u:
really, lol i dnt do question and answer pleeeease...i make statements......

Ucheosefoh:
You know why I call it interviews? Imagine being the only one asking questions and initiating new topics without adequate contributions from them

Cutehector4u:
Now, we all knw dat we r in the 21st century where texting is the order of the day and a good chat can just be the thing dat can make ur day interesting... Most girls i have had a rship with r so dry and boring that they want me to always be the one to initiate the chat..even when its very obvious that thr is nothin more to say and we may hav chatted for a very long tym , and i'm still online, they just want me to say smth... I usually get tired of such girls and eventually break up with dem by givin them the silent treatment... My question is, why r girls so uncreative nd dumb in chatting? Must guys always be the one to think abt evrythn?

iKillzz:
No girl is a boring chatter.

The same girl you just called boring, go and check her whatsapp contacts and her BBM contacts and you'll be shocked. Go check her twitter and see how active she is. There's always a guy that a girl can chat 24 hrs non-stop with. Always. If they have found a guy to spice up their day, the rest will take a back seat until she finds one more interesting than the one she spends all day on chat with.

The problem is YOU. YOU are boring, as a person. That is why you find yourself in the back seat with all the ladies you initiate a chat with. Time for you to take the driver's seat. Improve yourself and gather knowledge on the things a lady finds interesting.

tosyne2much:
Most ladies are dumb and uninteresting when it comes to chatting.. Oooooh did I say dumb and uninteresting ? YES

Lemme tell you something, it takes both side to make a good and lively chat.. As lively, funny and jovial as I am, some ladies make me feel as if I don't know how to chat

Most times you would even see some of them using monosyllabic words to explain themselves out.. E.g,

Tosyne- how are you young lady ?
Bimbo- 5n u?
Tosyne- how's your day bin going ?
Bimbo- cul u ?
Tosyne- mine was worthwhile though I have been indoor all day
Bimbo-k
Tosyne- So what are you doing aside chatting ?
Bimbo- Notn u ?
Tosyne- just sitted here with reading a book alongside
Bimbo- k

Are you trying tell me I'm not a good or lively chatter ?

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Cutehector4u:
Now, we all knw dat we r in the 21st century where texting is the order of the day and a good chat can just be the thing dat can make ur day interesting... Most girls i have had a rship with r so dry and boring that they want me to always be the one to initiate the chat..even when its very obvious that thr is nothin more to say and we may hav chatted for a very long tym , and i'm still online, they just want me to say smth... I usually get tired of such girls and eventually break up with dem by givin them the silent treatment... My question is, why r girls so uncreative nd dumb in chatting? Must guys always be the one to think abt evrythn?

Cutehector4u:
lol i am not borin, at least i knw dat... Am d kind of prson dat likes to be creativ in chattin.... I hav to tell u d truth , of all the girls i hav chatted wit, thr is only one girl who i cant do without..we can chat from mornin til night nonstop .....she is so lively and she doesnt even hide anythn frm me..she is d kind of person dat wil tel me she is shittin in the toilet wen i ask her wat she is doin..she is so open to me..and i find her priceless...now dat she is gone, (her fone spoilt) i really feel so empty and bored without her.....somtimes i stay al day without even chatn wit anybody cus she is nowhr to be found....i really really miss her.... So so so much.... We r frnds , she has a boyfrnd so we aint seein each oda...we are just chatmates..

Cutehector4u:
Now, we all knw dat we r in the 21st century where texting is the order of the day and a good chat can just be the thing dat can make ur day interesting... Most girls i have had a rship with r so dry and boring that they want me to always be the one to initiate the chat..even when its very obvious that thr is nothin more to say and we may hav chatted for a very long tym , and i'm still online, they just want me to say smth... I usually get tired of such girls and eventually break up with dem by givin them the silent treatment... My question is, why r girls so uncreative nd dumb in chatting? Must guys always be the one to think abt evrythn?

MrsBreezy:
Hahaha breaking up with the silent treatment. . that's sly

cutieberie1:
wat do u wnt dem to say sha nt al gals re intelingent sha if u lyk d borin ones u beta stat initiatin d conversation.anyway i knw hw to keep d conversation goin

engrsyer:
@Op, ALL ur comments were just like describing my woman for me to an extent that i started feeling if u were dating my woman. :p:p. But like seriously many girls r dumbed and uncreative minds. Worst of my girl is even wen to b struggling to maintain atleast d level of our conversation I created till we got to d end of it. Later on start asking her some weird questions so as dat cud make her to contribute and maintain d least level of communication, she now start getting angry dat she doesn't like somany questions. Gooosh! Even wen i wil just give her a little silent, d next she will type is ' r u there' or 'r u wit me'? Wen i answer yes, she will now say 'den u r not talking'..... OMG! Bros abeg tel me wetin i want mak we talk again. Even wen i am askin u questions so as we should keep chatting den u said u dont like many questions. Of cus d many questions helps u to b creative but u cant just still help thy self, gosh. May God help us(men). Despite dat i dont want to broke up wit her but see how i can bring out those hidden details in her because i beleived dat God put in us some beauties inside everyone but MANY are yet to discover theres so dey need help from others. Enjoy ur woman like dat OP.

iKillzz:
No girl is a boring chatter.

The same girl you just called boring, go and check her whatsapp contacts and her BBM contacts and you'll be shocked. Go check her twitter and see how active she is. There's always a guy that a girl can chat 24 hrs non-stop with. Always. If they have found a guy to spice up their day, the rest will take a back seat until she finds one more interesting than the one she spends all day on chat with.

The problem is YOU. YOU are boring, as a person. That is why you find yourself in the back seat with all the ladies you initiate a chat with. Time for you to take the driver's seat. Improve yourself and gather knowledge on the things a lady finds interesting.

Rexnegro:

U ve spoken well but u failed to acknowledged the fact that d op said he find it hard to date a girl boring y chatting. Y should a gf put her guy at d backseat because d guy might be boring according to u. Bro from how op sounded am sure dat guy isn't a boring chatter. I ve chatted with so many girls bro only one or two did leveled up as in I always enjoy chatting wit them.

Jerryolumide:
dats childish

Annypie:
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MrsBreezy:


Lol Omygosh that's crazy sounds just like me

I get ya. Funny way to get girls to open up is to like get them angry or make them really uncomfortable. Lol they usually come out of their shell faster

Yeaaaah I love them kinda relationships where you can be totally free with each other. I think its what everyone wants but they're to busy trying to look good for the other person :-/.

Well I hope she buys a new phone then yous can talk I have a feeling someone (you) have a crush on her

Cutehector4u:
lol breezy, i must confess i dd hv a crush for her but i came over d feelin...she knew abt it nd we had to separate for a while....den after our sepration, we got bk togeda as buddies.....dats y any girl i meeet online now, i try to define d typ ov rship dat we wil b in so neither one ov us wil get hurt...is it just frnds or chatmates or frnds wit benefits or spendn time togeda frnds or just for d sex only rshp....i try to bring up these talk so we could agree

Odilafta:
Because you keep typing in shorthand

you keep asking for b..reast picture,

you keep typing 'snap yourself and send'

Cutehector4u:
d problem with girls is dat they r just too annoyin...dey cnt even be open minded wen chatting... I knw a boring girl wen i chat with her, d moment i ask her how was ur day nd she just says fine only, without tryn to giv details, den i knw she is super boring..

tosyne2much:
Most ladies are dumb and uninteresting when it comes to chatting.. Oooooh did I say MOST ladies are dumb and uninteresting when it comes to chatting? YES

Lemme tell you something, it takes both sides to make a good and lively chat.. As lively, funny and jovial as I am, some ladies still make me feel as if I don't know how to chat

Most times you would even see some of them using monosyllabic words to explain themselves out.. E.g,

Tosyne- how are you young lady ?
Bimbo- 5n u?
Tosyne- how's your day bin going ?
Bimbo- cul u ?
Tosyne- mine was worthwhile though I have been indoor all day
Bimbo-k
Tosyne- So what are you doing aside chatting ?
Bimbo- Notn u ?
Tosyne- just sitted here reading a book alongside
Bimbo- k

Are you trying tell me I'm not a good or lively chatter ?

defendedvictim:
who z bimbo? ..jst curious