bellong:


One of the dumbest statements people make.

Why are you ladies always bitter about men?

What informed this your unproven statement?

armyofone:
A good African wifey should only do missionary style
Aisha, kin mata the most important thing fa.

Aitee1:


Bible isn't encouraging such but agree with me for once that most people do a lot of follow follow with religion a very few are wise enough to look up scriptures on their own to prove a point and even when they are convince about it being otherwise they can't own it up the fact cos of fear of rejection from family and society so at the end they just join the multitude. 90% of religious ppl indirectly worship their leaders instead of directing their worship to God cos they refuse to reason things on their own they see the mortal man(religious leaders) as their brain most times. For instance most women run to church when their husband batter them instead correcting their wrongs together first.


Let me pause there b4 my dear friend will assume I'm an athiest

naijababe:


I am so disappointed in you! What kind of sexist post is this?

honeric01:


Just don't be because I dislike people playing the victim card.

If men want women to suffer, how come they created these gadgets?
Alot of women whine about too many things, just they haven't created any themselves..

Funny enough, majority of these gadgets were created/imported by these same men into Nigeria, majority of the gadgets are being bought by these same men in their homes..

I just do not like reading articles like this.

I may have used the word "women" but I actually meant the women whining and screaming on this board and not the total women at large.

honeric01:


Just don't be because I dislike people playing the victim card.

If men want women to suffer, how come they created these gadgets?
Alot of women whine about too many things, just they haven't created any themselves..

Funny enough, majority of these gadgets were created/imported by these same men into Nigeria, majority of the gadgets are being bought by these same men in their homes..

I just do not like reading articles like this.

I may have used the word "women" but I actually meant the women whining and screaming on this board and not the total women at large.

Shirley07:

Two condracting sentences. I could swear some peeps are dumb!

MadCow1:



Many of them underestimate the tolerance many women are putting up with in marriages..

The case of the new mother, she actually broke out I tears I the middle of sex with her husband because she felt like she was being molested by him.. How do you smack your wife around, call her names like whoore, sllut and biitch and then later stick your phallus into her.. Imagine the suffering a woman like that has to go through.. Pounding yams and washing a kitchen full of pots and pans pales in comparison to this type of suffering.

carefreewannabe:


@bold

Are you serious?

Women are not represented in science, economics and politics and all of them are so ignorant that they don't care how the world around them works?

More, all of them are interested in celebrity gossip?

And how have you helped to

- stop global warming

- cure AIDS and EBOLA

- and reduce the unemployment rate?

ferdimako:

You want better things but your maid is suffering from you.

Shirley07:

If you aint one of them, why are you disturbed?
And if that eyes of yours works well, you would have noticed I didn't make a sweeping statement/generalization.

honeric01:


Hehehe women like?

ok let me drop that part of this discussion so it doesn't turn to something else..

You want to know how I have helped?

It's numerous but I don't need telling you here..

All I want to know is why do some women whine on virtually everything?

If you have gadgets for everything in the house, yet still have a maid, what should I call you? Queen Elizabeth?

carefreewannabe:


Which of these gadgets were invented by Nigerian men? Please, I have to say this because we are not talking about foreign men here.
I can't imagine a Western man saying that a woman who uses a washing machine is lazy. Like I said, it is only in this part of the world that people can come up with such statements in this day and age.

naijababe:


You too Shymexx?! So how much do i save by hand-washing my dishes and clothes, bearing in mind that I can be efficient about how I use them? Just asking ni o

oyb:


Leave ya forex and get into the kitchen!

Bitojoe:


a woman must cook her husband best food.if pounded Yam is his best.remember, the service you can't render at home to your husband or wife,there is someone else outside ready to serve better.

honeric01:


Have you ever been to the trade fair before? go there to see what Nigerian men created for the good of the society.

okra slicer
onion slicer
yam pillar
pondoyam
dry grounded elubo
tomato slicer
e.t.c

Go there and see for yourself, Nigerian men created these items

No one is saying using a machine machine makes you lazy (my younger bro uses it) but when you make it a priority even if you don't have the means or refuse to wash because you don't have one, then you are lazy.

if you can afford it, buy it and use, those that cant afford it are not wicked to their wives..

If your husband does not want to buy it, go ahead and buy it for yourself and use it. not everything has to turn into "bad men, wicked husband" e.t.c, it's wickening!

iyabodeh:
I don't understand.
Since when does having a washing machine while he takes salary advance to get an iphone6 become a problem?

When did having a pounder when he wants a dstv decoder that records uefa leagues became an issue?

This isn't about being lazy. This is about being strategic. You make the soup while the pounder is pounding; time saving things.

You put the laundry in the machine while you are supervising Jekinyo's assignment and at the same time shredding the 'efo tete'; multi tasking.

If a man wants me to pound with mortar, no wahala now. He go dey put the yam as I dey pound. No way is he going to sit his arse in front of the television while I exhaust myself so he can chop poundo. And if I hear, 'he has been working all day' argument, I will scream!! Duh! Who dey jobless na? Even a housewife has the most tasking job sef.

If I don't get a dish washer, he doesn't get an electric shaver. Simple.

It's not femininity, it's just fairness.

carefreewannabe:


So you don't know Angela Merkel, Hillary Clinton, Margret Thatcher, Queen Elizabeth I and II, Marie Curie, Grace Hopper, Folorunsho Alakija?

@bold

Such statements can only be made in this part of the world.

MadCow1:



Many of them underestimate the tolerance many women are putting up with in marriages..

The case of the new mother, she actually broke out I tears I the middle of sex with her husband because she felt like she was being molested by him.. How do you smack your wife around, call her names like whoore, sllut and biitch and then later stick your phallus into her.. Imagine the suffering a woman like that has to go through.. Pounding yams and washing a kitchen full of pots and pans pales in comparison to this type of suffering.

honeric01:


Please what exactly are you doing in the house since the maid and the gadgets end up doing the whole thing self?

You can call it whatever name you like, but I don't get..

carefreewannabe:


I don't think these are Nigerian inventions but anyway.

@bold

Oh yes, people do, right on this thread!

macof:


And where's the contradiction you slowpoke?
molding love and unity as a responsibility of the first wife is contradiction to ur plankton brain?

macof:


And where's the contradiction you slowpoke?
molding love and unity as a responsibility of the first wife is contradiction to ur plankton brain?

iyabodeh:
Icherishu, no mind them. They can just be stubborn for no reason. Absolutely no cogent reason. The reasons are so flimsy. I go ask my uncles if they do same. And i'll plan with the wives to start buying meat with bones for them. hehehe. Then they will know say no be yam beans to be a homemaker.

I'm not a fan of stay-in maids though.

carefreewannabe:


I don't think these are Nigerian inventions but anyway.

@bold

Oh yes, people do, right on this thread!