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Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by babygirlfl: 6:11pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
kashman1: welcome. please find time to comment more in the family section |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Matthewbriggs(m): 6:12pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
cococandy: LOL It is a common problem for introverts we communicate better with written words than spoken words. For example talking use to be exhausting for me, but my fingers could type at the speed of light. So I understand your plight. Infact a very large percentage of very active people online ... are introverts and less social. But what I did to overcome this is exactly what I advised you earlier. For example, I took practical steps ... like making a decision to cut down the level on my e-engagement on all forums and social media platforms ... I now hardly chat or respond to pings. I instead visit or call a person if I need to communicate with them. I made an active decision to spend more time building offline relationships and communicating with people I care about face to face ... I try to know them, listen to them, hear them vent, share their pains, joys and sorrows with me, I do same to them. I sometime challenge my self to start conversations and build my ability to sustain them. I am beginning to learn to and enjoy small talk ... something I hated. Sometimes It can be very emotionally exhausting, that why I do take my time to recharge. Right now I am hybrid, I can communicate with written words at the same time I am rock star when it comes to spoken words. I find it easy to connect with people around me. The fact is you are not alone, Everyone has an introverted and extroverted side ... with one more dominant that the other. To be a balanced individual it is important to put the dominant side in check, as you the develop and improve on the less dominant part. I believe you can work on this weakness just as I did, because as you can see one key trend we can notice in the relationships of these happily married men that have graced this thread ... Is the level of communication and rappor they've built with their wives. Communication is the most principal thing in any relationship, It is a great deciding factor in regards to the success of any relationship. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by cococandy(f): 6:14pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
xynerise:oh good.and you even enjoy it too. That's awesome. Anyway i think I understand why those guys post those pictures. For the benefit of those who think it is unnatural for men to contribute in nurturing their kids. 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by cococandy(f): 6:17pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs:this is just awesome. Thanks so much. 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by iykedare(m): 6:20pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
okay,I m a happy bachelor..... |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by xynerise: 6:45pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
cococandy:Of course I enjoy it...though it always end somewhere exotic |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by cococandy(f): 6:53pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
xynerise: |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by pickabeau1: 7:02pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
Can u do the honours From my observation.. all regular female posters on NL are 'happily' married Only those who are not regulars post sob stories crackhaus: |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 7:04pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
Reality setting in....'superwman' gradually giving way More questions please |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by xynerise: 7:06pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
cococandy:No time o 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by rolled: 7:10pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
Not just women alone Have you wondered why sob stories are posted with new user names Or some of them would even say,"I had to create this account just cos of my story" Then I wonder,what do they do with their real accounts known to everyone pickabeau1: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by cococandy(f): 7:13pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
Resist every urge to turn this thread into a joke or make mockery of the men who have been educating us here since. 7 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by pickabeau1: 7:16pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
rolled: Hmmmm.....you onto something there.... |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 7:37pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
Ok. |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Nobody: 7:46pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
cococandy: Only if you stop feeding their need for attention. If you ignore them and face the thread it wont last a minute 10 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by bukatyne(f): 8:10pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
crackhaus: GOOD thread with a wrong motive I will advice the OP to open it or another person with genuine intentions 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by crackhaus: 8:50pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
bukatyne:Very good advice, I can't fault it...which is why I had no intention of opening it myself - just seeing my moniker as the author will keep some posters away. I'm like an e-conscience, the still-small voice on bandwidth. Not like I had any wrong motives/intentions though, I don't know why you would think so. 9 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by bukatyne(f): 9:09pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
crackhaus: e-conscience? |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by KBARBIE(f): 9:55pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
LewsTherin: Hmmmmmmmm...thumbs up |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Matthewbriggs(m): 11:12pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
aisha2: Word!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by deeptesting(m): 11:19pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
rolled: 5 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by mikeywise(m): 7:13am On Nov 08, 2014 |
rolled: 4 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by hrmkz: 12:23pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Make i mark register. am one of those married men that do not take most of the write ups here serious...no offence. just that people write the opposite of what they really do....including myself. 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Emaprince: 1:01pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
rolled:smh |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Nobody: 4:52pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
iykedare:I don't think so, you need a lovely woman in your life |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Nobody: 4:54pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
such a lovely thread.... I have no doubt my fiance will say even better stuffs when we finally tie the knot Wish all of ya more happiness in ya various homes. |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by getmeBest(m): 7:23pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
MarvellousGod: marve, are you sure?....with your time spent on social network like our NL MarvellousGod: marve, are you sure?....with your time spent on social network like our NL MarvellousGod: marve, are you sure?....with your time spent on social network like our NL MarvellousGod: marve, are you sure?....with your time spent on social network like our NL . Hope you won't be busy even when with him? don't mind me. hehehe |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Nobody: 7:45pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
getmeBest:I frequent NL because of idleness.... can I be idle when I'm with him? |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by getmeBest(m): 10:21pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
MarvellousGod:the question is, can you ignore your phone? 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by RoyalRoy(m): 10:23pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Crackhaus, Pickabeau1 and Rolled, your contributions on this thread is not aligning with the aims and the objectives. Gentlemen, please feel free to open a thread to suit your line of argument. Will expect your cooperation as always. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by pickabeau1: 10:44pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
mod! I will comply with the rules of NL |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by crackhaus: 11:46pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Party pooper But did someone just report, cos it's been more than 24hrs since my last post on this thread na... |
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