Monicaa:

@Springss

Thanks a lot dear, U just concluded it all. It's hard for me to believe that most of these people that post rubbish or just like yabbing n running their mouths are matured. People have feelings. Of cause I've got zillions of friends, family, admirers, guys at my feet at this very moment, God especially n so on but when it comes to matters of the heart, most times u want to keep to yourself or see if u could get an insight. I'm Nigerian so sharing point of views with other Nigerians isn't bad but most of you are, can't even say the word

Simple, if u have no reasonable thing to say, then don't post. It isn't by force. There are still some reasonable people to give advice on here, even if it's just one person, a word is enough for the wise. I'm not the kind of person to be exchanging words esp wit people I ain't seeing

Springss, once again, thanks for ur maturity, only those that are n have been there can really tell how it feels.

Monicaa:

I'm not holding on to the guy. It's just not a good thing to feel when u part with someone for reasons u couldnt see n so on. But it's good. It will be well n I'm good. I'll handle it myself n thanks for the good contributions.

Busy_body:

It's the same guy, she just has a problem of letting go which is understandable

tope2000:

Monicaa, you have went back to the same yeye guy again?

HR.hotness:

whats d point of askin for advice if u hav no use for it?  

Monicaa:

@Springss

Thanks a lot dear, U just concluded it all. It's hard for me to believe that most of these people that post rubbish or just like yabbing n running their mouths are matured. People have feelings. Of cause I've got zillions of friends, family, admirers, guys at my feet at this very moment, God especially n so on but when it comes to matters of the heart, most times u want to keep to yourself or see if u could get an insight. I'm Nigerian so sharing point of views with other Nigerians isn't bad but most of you are, can't even say the word

Simple, if u have no reasonable thing to say, then don't post. It isn't by force. There are still some reasonable people to give advice on here, even if it's just one person, a word is enough for the wise. I'm not the kind of person to be exchanging words esp wit people I ain't seeing

Springss, once again, thanks for ur maturity, only those that are n have been there can really tell how it feels.

HR.hotness:

I don't see anything that understandable in this matter

she came crying to us twice befor and many people were sayin d same thing. . . "leave him!" but sheno hear. . . now she has yet another complain about d guy we all assumed she was done with!

abeg monicaa we r sick and tired of hearing of ur relationship issues. . . u obviously hav no respect for yourself or u wldnt be allowing some man to be giving u hypertension and making act like u hav no sense.

whats d point of askin for advice if u hav no use for it? 


lol
ask am oh

Monicaa:

What is the best thing one can do in this situation. I had an argument with my boyfriend due to his lack of understanding and distance. Making me feel too left out n we are still together especially when u call just to know how he's doing once in a while. I even asked him if the best thing was to have a break so my mind would be clear n he said no. Well after the argument, I didnt speak to him for like a week, then called him and his phone was switched off. 2days later I got him, and asked him, he sounded differently, like we weren't even fighting. So I asked him why his phone was off, if he was ok, n he said he just needed time to himself, we talked for a few mins. Then I called him that noght n his phone was off again, then tried it this morning with blocked id and it was on.

What do I do because I don't even know if this is a relationship anymore, I'm tired of being the one trying to make it work. I have a feeling that he has another woman maybe even living with him n I can't just go to his house as a surprise before i find out something else n don't want to act too desperate. I want to call him this morning but want to say the right thing.

Do I invite him over for a talk even though i know he moght not show up, or ask him over the phone or what? It's getting to a new year. I'm already hurt and would be hurt but I just want to know what's going on or where I stand. please what is the best I can do?

*osisi:

ewooooooo
she's had similar threads before ?
then why am I wasting my precious pieces of advice?

HR.hotness:

I don't see anything that understandable in this matter

she came crying to us twice befor and many people were sayin d same thing. . . "leave him!" but sheno hear. . . now she has yet another complain about d guy we all assumed she was done with!

abeg monicaa we r sick and tired of hearing of ur relationship issues. . . u obviously hav no respect for yourself or u wldnt be allowing some man to be giving u hypertension and making act like u hav no sense.

whats d point of askin for advice if u hav no use for it?  


lol
ask am oh

tope2000:

Monicaa, is the SEX that GOOD

*osisi:

ewooooooo
she's had similar threads before ?
then why am I wasting my precious pieces of advice?

tope2000:


Monicaa, is the SEX that GOOD

tell me his secretions are diamonds and other precious stones then I'll say she should go and bow down before him

tope2000:

Excatly, there has to be a time where you have to say enough is enough
I wonder when she would have enough
Monicaa, is the SEX that GOOD

Monicaa:

I don tire, Busy_Body, ok now what same guy or not?
Newayz like i said, if u don't have anything reasonable 2 say, then vanish! as simple as that. N i'm good. Would handle the situation myself. It will be well

 @ Chika98
I can end this post. I'm not holding on to the guy. It's just not a good thing to feel when u part with someone for reasons u couldnt see n so on. But it's good. It will be well n I'm good. I'll handle it myself n thanks for the good contributions.

^{Sorry Jenny}

Monicaa:

I don tire, Chika98, ok now what same guy or not?
Newayz like i said, if u don't have anything reasonable 2 say, then vanish! as simple as that. N i'm good. Would handle the situation myself. It will be well
 
@ Busy_Body
I can end this post. I'm not holding on to the guy. It's just not a good thing to feel when u part with someone for reasons u couldnt see n so on. But it's good. It will be well n I'm good. I'll handle it myself n thanks for the good contributions.

HR.hotness:

if na only because of sex, then she really needs to get out more

Busy_body:

Shuo Ineme me I should leave I reject it in Jisos' name Are you sure you are not mistaking me for Danke, I have never been asked to leave a thread before ^{Sorry Jenny}

Okay I know you are tired and I am sure what you addressed to me was meant for Chika98 and vice versa I have corrected it, see below



That's better

*osisi:

Nonsense
which sex?
is he the only man with "abunna" that  she can fornicate with?
the man is treating her like garbage
his bed skills should be the least thing on her mind.

*osisi:

Nonsense
which sex?
is he the only man with "abunna" that  she can fornicate with?
the man is treating her like garbage
his bed skills should be the least thing on her mind.

tell me his secretions are diamonds and other precious stones then I'll say she should go and bow down before him

HR.hotness:

if na only because of sex, then she really needs to get out more

tope2000:

Roflmao
or maybe she worwor and the dude is like denzel  
or maybe he is one of those yahoo boys
I cannot think of any reasons why someone will not let go esp if the bobo is ignoring you and treatin u like sh.it

Monicaa u tire me

*osisi:


more sex?

that is eh!
To him the whole thing is over
how much more plain could the man be?

~Sauron~:

Don't under-estimate the power of SEX!!!!

*osisi:

ewooooooo
she's had similar threads before ?
then why am I wasting my precious pieces of advice?

Don't say I told you o, but she even saw a naked picture of another girl on the dude's phone plus pictures of other girl in the phone

Monicaa:


@ Chika98
Yes the sex was good , though I don't emphasize on the sex because if it was, man! would i be everywhere with the amount of guys or admirers i have now. N of cause my ex trying to work things.

*osisi:


more sex?

*osisi:

The whole thing is over rated jo.
Nigeria is a country of over 100 million people perhaps about 25 million young men.
There are millions that can do exactly what he does and millions that can do it better with better apparatus sef.
I say she should move on

Monicaa:

I am a matured lady, no he isn't the first n wouldnt be the last. I'm done. Don't need more on this particular post.

Monicaa:

@ Sauron
Yeah that's just what i want, to ask him but I'll just forget bout that n do me. I tried at least.

*osisi:

The whole thing is over rated jo.
Nigeria is a country of over 100 million people perhaps about 25 million young men.
There are millions that can do exactly what he does and millions that can do it better with better apparatus sef.
I say she should move on

Busy_body:


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=184979.msg2960746#msg2960746


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=184979.msg2960791#msg2960791


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=186098.msg2973774#msg2973774


Don't say I told you o, but she even saw a naked picture of another girl on the dude's phone plus pictures of other girl in the phone

Busy_body:

Don't say I told you o, but she even saw a naked picture of another girl on the dude's phone plus pictures of other girl in the phone