Toks2008:
I am too sincere a lover to go through the stress of running after a lady for long. I don't do casuals and i will never woo you if i don't truly want you.

I prefer to tell you straight up my sincere intent and i expect you to tell me there and there if i have a chance with you or not.

I don't believe in a lady playing hard to get and i will never look down on you if you tell me you also want me even if we are meeting for the first time.

Not every man loves going through the stress of running after a lady even if he sincerely wants her..

Its not about pride. Its just who i am.

Great response!

for as long as she keeps driving him crazy

Rapsodee:
Want to know your opinions concerning it,some girls like playing hard to get,some also do pretend as if they don't like a guy which the reason for these I don't understand but for how long should a reasonable guy keep chasing her before finally letting her go

till the girl agrees.

could be a month, a year or ten years as the case may be.

Kayordey:
u gree or not

hes still chasing me sef

macdelene:


U are a goat

^^^^ ther u go...typical dak skin female & usually agresssive..


....and then they complain they can't find man on nairaland!

LINKINPINKY:
A guy should chase a girl 4 long till when he finds out what's on d gal's mind....if d gal says no......U̶̲̥̅̊ leave her 4 a while....and go bak 2 her....try dat 3tyms and if she kips saying no....den...U̶̲̥̅̊ pretend U̶̲̥̅̊ nid her no more.....buh if she has interest in U̶̲̥̅̊.......she'lld sneak bak 2 U̶̲̥̅̊.....by talking 2 U̶̲̥̅̊...coming close 2 U̶̲̥̅̊ and asking questions.....den its left 4 U̶̲̥̅̊ 2 decide @ dah moment

You re very correct.

MrCork:

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....8 years ...maximum....if she light skin

....5 minute if she dak skin! (noo offense)

lol na u dey advice our babes wey b say person nor fit c black girl again

crystalflakes:
how come the girl u are following is dark?

...you?..

...follow u wear?...are u light skin?

If you have to chase a girl for her to like you then you do not have what it takes for her to fall for you

arvinsloane:
it depends on what you mean by unique though. No woman is indispensable except one.

as dispensable as they may seems , one still need to cherish and adore the one we love .
makes the relationship sweet and so out of this world.
My view

mydex93:
Forever

....lol...as if the much dreaded biological clock will allow you run forever.

For as long as his heart beats for her.

If you make your intentions known to her and you keep pestering her and she keeps refusing you, just bail out anytime you feel like (the duration is left for you and it must not be too long so you don't lose your respect) and be content her love grew in your heart. I believe if a girl is truly meant for you, she may date hundreds of guys but she would come rolling back to you.

I chased my girl for four years and it was worth the wait

tranxo:
....lol...as if the much dreaded biological clock will allow you run forever.

Nah it doesn't hinder too..even in death,u can still keep chasing the girl u love..*smiling*

the more you chase her, d more she hates/take u for granted......shikena!

18 - 20 three months tops
21-23 one month
For a lady, that is above 23 yrs, 2 weeks or 3 dates which ever comes first.

If by the end of the periods listed above, u've not gotten pass first base, my brother move on.. Or u have automatically allowed her to put u oN the friend zone.

Ps:: this only applies if she is currently not in a serious relationship

dhrey:
it all depends on what interest you find in her.mine took me 5years.

5yrs indeed, are u sure dt ur lady have not been disappointed by a guy, who she was hopin on b4 considerin u as a substitute.

onila:
A guy chased me for 2 years

so how did it increase your bank account...

I just came back from a long time ban. D moment I toast her and she refuse to give me her number, eventhough I see her d next day, I will just say hi to her. I no get time for rubbish.....

MrCork:

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....8 years ...maximum....if she light skin

....2 minute if she dak skin! (noo offense)

if she dak'' skin right you always crack me up

mydex93:
Nah it doesn't hinder too..even in death,u can still keep chasing the girl u love..*smiling*

....lol..for your mind we no get optionS abi?

Two to three weeks i think, if a girl is really into you it won't be difficult to get her.


I don't hang around girls who doesn't dig me

onila:
hes still chasing me sef

tor! hope say no b n'lander

Aprime:
As the lord leads...

Ha! Let's get serious:

I think when a lady likes you, she will respect your love and dignity and say Yes when she's sure you are In.

But when a lady doesn't like you, she will keep playing you around Until someone better shows up.

So Technically, Say No and give up on her when she's not giving you the vibes. Don't stay around, like a fool when she treats your approach like trash.

When a lady likes you back, two weeks of foot licking should do. Two weeks is enough for serious folks.

Remember, the patient dog, na hunger go kill am.

lolz, u got me laffinn. sometimes, some case might not be so. d lady in question might be proving hard to get due to her past xperince. she may be testing d level of d guy's love/ patient for her. she may want to be sure b4 commitment

Chase money first,sit back and watch the girls pile up.

You can loose a lot chasing after girls but you can never loose chasing after money.

MOB.

tranxo:
....lol..for your mind we no get optionS abi?

@all jor

One has been chasing me for over two years Guys ,i think if you chase a girl for a year or two and she still refuses you,she ain't interested :*free her:*

Samguine:

A girl that follows you cos of your money won't love you. She would love your money. Those types of women aren't wife materials

if I hear... Leave the wife material alone... Most women are carried away by money...

MrCork:

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....8 years ...maximum....if she light skin

....2 minute if she dak skin! (noo offense)

Guy, ur case worse!!!

kemiola89:
I hate the sound of that... 'As long as he can' even if it takes a life time? The guy no get work ni?

If a girl likes you, you need not chase her for that long before she agrees and let you in her world.

Thank you for this.


It's particularly commendable coming from a girl.

i cant woo a lady more than 3weeks ...if she no gree i bonne her lik say i hav neva talk to her in my life be4