tope2000:

Nah we are too classy than that

sori i 4got, dey wear nofin

~Sauron~:

U like hard things?? What a joke!!!
The number of threads from the ladies that are broken hearted in this section does not support your stance.

And who the hell is Monicaa?

I am michelin89, got it?

Ebony-Silk:

I beg to differ.

d badder d berra o. makes 'em com out bodacious n armd wt d upz n downz of lyf, they face lyf squarely.

goodass:

d badder d berra o. makes 'em com out bodacious n armd wt d upz n downz of lyf, they face lyf squarely.

goodass, stick with yoruba

But who cares. . . .am opposing the "once you go bad, you're gone" statement.
So false.

michelin89:

And who the hell is Monicaa?

I am michelin89, got it?

Monicaa, Michelin. . . . .I don't see any difference.

Ebony-Silk:

goodass, stick with yoruba

But who cares. . . .am opposing the "once you go bad, you're gone" statement.
So false.

we dey 2geda, ES.   _{we no dey kilasi; datz wia i spak yoruba}  

~Sauron~:

Monicaa, Michelin. . . . .I don't see any difference.

Everyone with their eyes.

Even bad guys get hurt and at the end of the day they are always the most docile of all. Haaaa! I want me a bad guy! *devilish laughter*

goodass:

we dey 2geda, ES. _{we no dey kilasi; datz wia i spak yoruba}

kini ES stand fun?

Ebony-Silk:

I beg to differ.

Aunty Morenike, why won't u differ. You must be a good girl then

Ebony-Silk:

kini ES stand fun?

datz a pamari 4 kweshun naw! ok, ES = u  . _{abeg com 2 kilasi o}

chamotex:

Aunty Morenike, why won't u differ. You must be a good girl then

chei! so na she b dat!? lil 1da she knws me sharp sharp!
irunmole, ow far?

@Topic

This topic smacks of self-assured infantilism. When folks start to construct an idealized image of a bad girl/boy, with list to boot, they forsake reality for juvenile fantasizing. Of course, we are only on a web forum but I do glean a certain ''seriousness'' to the issue from the OP and some others.  

One of the simplest messages in life is to "be yourself" . Simplistic but profound. Don't try to live up to an image, especially of a delinquent inclination. Unless you are stuck in a time warp, you should have discarded this sort of hogwash in your teens.

What is the biggest image issue that plagues black women? Living up to the image of the "strong black woman".  Guys also want to ''keep it real''. From such idealizations, miserable lives are built.  

_{Finished my rant}

@Topic

This topic smacks of self-assured infantilism. When folks start to construct an idealized image of a bad girl/boy, with list to boot, they forsake reality for juvenile fantasizing. Of course, we are only on a web forum but I do glean a certain ''seriousness'' to the issue from the OP and some others.

One of the simplest messages in life is to "be yourself" . Simplistic but profound. Don't try to live up to an image, especially of a delinquent inclination. Unless you are stuck in a time warp, you should have discarded this sort of hogwash in your teens.

What is the biggest image issue that plagues black women? Living up to the image of the "strong black woman". Guys also want to ''keep it real''. From such idealizations, miserable lives are built.

Finished my rant

guy, u just abandoned ur guys over there.
how u dey?

@ 4play


na wa, u dey vex oh. . .  

chill out bruv, its all in good fun, if i took it that seriously i wldnt post it on NL, i'd start a movement or sumthin. . .  

chamotex:

Aunty Morenike, why won't u differ. You must be a good girl then

Not only good, but a very good girl

Unlike some of you people

goodass:

datz a pamari 4 kweshun naw! ok, ES = u  . _{abeg com 2 kilasi o}

chei! so na she b that!? little 1da she knws me sharp sharp!
irunmole, ow far?

goodass, stop it na. This internet slang is killing me!

what class? class of olodo, i think not

Am fabulous!!feeling good thanks

*cheers* to your rant, 4Play. Now go back to "keeping it real"

tkb417:


guy, u just abandoned ur guys over there.
how u dey?

I dey come footie threads steady but not as much before. Very big weekend ahead though.

HR.hotness:


na wa, u dey vex oh. . .  

chill out bruv, its all in good fun, if i took it that seriously i wldnt post it on NL, i'd start a movement or sumthin. . .  

All in good fun ma foot!!

Tgirl4real:

seriously babes. . . whats wrong?

for here,

nufin o . . .

just an innocent post after sauron's

For d other thread u know naa

Tgirl4real:

for here,

nufin o . . .

just an innocent post after sauron's

For d other thread u know naa

I cant knw if u dont tell me. . .

u refused what u tell others to do

Stop posting after u wen know u wont grant

@ Topic

I'm so far from being a bad girl according to the list, it isn't even funny, well maybe some day,

@sauron

like good gurls so i can make em bad.
U cannot make a bad gurl good. . . . .so we make the good gurls bad

Hehehehehe
True talk  

tope2000:

So u like good girls

I like 'em good with a lil' bit of badness

Classy but a lil' bit thuggish - I'm game!!!

chamotex:

I like 'em good with a little' bit of badness

Classy but a little' bit thuggish - I'm game!!!

Thatz a gr8 combo
Correct guy

I think this thread shld be renamed (The Ultimate Focusless Girl's Guide).

There's nothing like a "bad girl" . . . the consequences of reckless living always comes back to bite you in the back when u're older.

It's only an unserious mind dat will follow such

1.   Bad girls don’t give a rats ass about being called a bad girl. Deep down they do . . .

2.   Bad Girls Know What They Want and knw how to get it or hav fun trying. Very soon they will be forced to settle for things no one else wants.

3.   Bad Girls don’t Whine, they Vent! That's a violent woman not a "bad" one.  

4.   Bad Girls believe in being feminine without the fluff. Plenty of "good" girls also.

5.   A bad girl says what she thinks, she isn’t afraid to speak voice her opinion, she isn’t afraid to be strong and wont tolerate anything that insults their intelligence or goes against their moral code. She speaks the truth and expect you to do the same. this isnt exclusive to the "bad" girl. Even good little kids do the same.

6.   Bad Girls don't make excuses, they apologise instead. Cute little 5yr old girls with good home training know this already.

7.   Have a sense of humour and laugh. Bad girls are funny and can laugh at themselves. Pretty much anyone can have this trait.

8.   Bad Girls have very high standards If they did they wont be "bad" girls in the first place.  

9.   Bad Girls are busy. They have plans, meet people, and learn new skills. Don’t be afraid to just get up and do anything u fancy. Well trained kids (male or female) know this.  

10.   Bad Girls Flirt! Bad Girls strive to have fun, so go out and play! Aim to have a good time all the time. A bad girl is fabulous and her self confidence is at an all time high. Try it, even if u hav to fake it until u feels it "Bad" girls like decieving themselves.

11.   Bad Girls Never fall for any one man. Not unless he is mr right. Dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. This is a poor excuse for jumping from bed to bed.

12.   Never lets a man define who she is, he is a man nothing more and nothing less. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you, a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals, look for someone complimentary, not supplementary. Yet "bad" girls end up at 39 crying about Mr. Right.

13.   Knows how to do Nothing. A poor excuse for laziness.

14.   Enjoys her Single Years Do not think that the whole point of being single is getting married; men don't think this way, and neither should you. Men DO think that the whole point of being single is to get married, they only love to play the field before settling down.  

15.   Will Settle Down Because having a family is a happy thing after you have done those things Yeye girls . . . i think say na only fun una want. "Bad" girls indeed.  

16.   A Bad Girl really has a heart of gold. For where? which gold?

Buhahahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

@ David


i can "cleary" see what ur opinion is on that

DavidDylan:

I think this thread shld be renamed (The Ultimate Focusless Girl's Guide).

There's nothing like a "bad girl" . . . the consequences of reckless living always comes back to bite you in the back when u're older.

where was focus mentioned in that list?!!

Tgirl4real:

u refused what u tell others to do

Stop posting after u when know u wont grant

fine! shall we step into my office to discuss this in private?!!

What office sweets?