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Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by jovialmum(f): 8:22am On Dec 03, 2014 |
I Was reading a friends article about single mum only to bump into an ugly comment made by a guy about single mothers. In his update, he outrightly hurled insults/highly disrespected single mothers. This he did with no remorse whatsoever, honestly, the minute i saw it, i said to myself Heck! Seems this guy is not in his right senses, SMH seriously,How many nigerian parents, map out time out from their busy schedule to teach their wards, all about sex education? Most parents shy away from this topic because they feel, it is wrong and embarrassing. They ignorantly shy away from this, thereby failing to understand that, failure to teach their wards the basics of sex education , the society will do so for them, and the outcome will likely not be nice.many young ladies are single mothers today, not because its what they want, but because its where they find themselves. Its what they are saddled with! Its really disheartening when, you find noodles embedded in a skull instead of brain cells. I find it nauseating, irritating, disgusting and outrightly unpardonable, when someone who has supposedly been to the four walls of a classroom, publicly yells at the top of his lungs, telling whoever cares to listen, that single mothers are whores and their kids will certainly turn out to be hoodlums and magnified prostitutes just like their mothers. Excuse me, who the hell are you to make such an ill comments? The fact that a lady is a single mother, does'nt in anyway make her awhore. She chose to have that child rather than murder her baby. She chose to damn the society and maturedly face the consequencesof indulging in unprotected sex.some of these single mothers are rape victims who, against all odds, still had a magnanimous heart to give their baby a chance to live and not terminate it simply because the baby is a result of rape. Some single mothers are victims of marriages that hit the rocks. They had to walk out of their seemingly abusive marriage for their own sanity and safety. the society will not hesitate to tell a woman in an abusive marriage, to stay put and risk her life, and not bite more than she can chew by walking out of her abusive marriage.well a woman who boldly walks out, does this and becomes a single mother because she knows that, if she dies in the abusive marriage, the society will bid her dust-to-dust and eat to their fill at her funeral.hence, she boldly walks out, looks the society in the eyeand says,"i'd rather choke on greatness with my sanity and my precious life intact, than nibble on mediocrisy""for crying out loud, there abounds a million and one reasons why single mothers are what they are today. BUT one undisputable fact is;single mothers don't joke with their kids. Just like every mother, they will gladly take bullets for their kids. They will gladly starve to see their kids eat to their fill. They will walk to hell and back if that's what it takes for them to see to it that, their kids attains great heights in life. Now tell me, how can a man who happens to be totally clueless about what being a woman entails,.have the temerity to conclude that "single mothers are whores and their kids will end up as miscreants and whores"please, dear overtly excited men with extremly itchy thumbs, before you make updates, with the intension of casting aspersions on the opposite gender, it will be a great idea ifyou connect your fingers to your brain.I'm not short tempered,I only have a quick reaction to bullsh!t· Seriously Mr, i love shopping but heck, there's no way in hell i'm buying your bullshit for the hell of it! Stop losing sleep over, what the kids of single mothers will turn out to be. Its non of your damn business. Heck! As for the single mothers out there, never let what people says or talk at your back get to you, it's better to be a single mother than to be murderer. Train that child well and give that child a brighter future. He or she might become the next president tomorrow. The Lord is your strength. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by AfricanApple(f): 8:36am On Dec 03, 2014 |
there is only one word for them HYPOCRITES |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by FLAWLES(f): 8:41am On Dec 03, 2014 |
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Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by AJ01(m): 8:45am On Dec 03, 2014 |
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Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by AJ01(m): 8:50am On Dec 03, 2014 |
jovialmum:yawns to long..can't read this |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by holatin(m): 8:50am On Dec 03, 2014 |
hmmmmm I don't know. maybe because some single mum Ve unplanned for child. Reason y a man is a security for woman. |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by 100Cents: 8:50am On Dec 03, 2014 |
From the single mothers I have met, hmmm No comment.. |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by scribble: 8:51am On Dec 03, 2014 |
They are sexually adventurous which is cool but the presence of the baby makes them unattractive to suitors. But why is it men that have side chicks are called cheaters and dogs? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by ghost1718(m): 9:02am On Dec 03, 2014 |
na them GO beg them for sex when others are not looking 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by Nobody: 10:22am On Dec 03, 2014 |
ghost1718:You dnt know dat for a fact. |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by austine4real(m): 11:30am On Dec 03, 2014 |
I wnt 2 meet a single mum 4 a serious rlationshp b4 i can comment. Xperience is d best teachr |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by enomakos(m): 11:49am On Dec 03, 2014 |
jovialmum:i feel your pain,are you a single mum? |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by AJ01(m): 11:57am On Dec 03, 2014 |
Then what are they before?? Mitcheww |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by AJ01(m): 11:59am On Dec 03, 2014 |
jovialmum:long story for the gods... a LovePeddler is a LovePeddler... |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by ghost1718(m): 12:29pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
kristina1:is like ur one OF them |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by menix(m): 1:38pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
AJ01: Guy 4 ur mind now u dey my head abii... Get dis chic wey b single mum wit 3 kids frm diff. Fada, abeg watin she be? I guess Nun |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by lilflipnerd: 1:42pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
If it's Single Mother na olosho |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by AJ01(m): 1:46pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
menix:no mind all this people wey dey like give BAD tin GOOD name.. |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by Deshannel(m): 1:52pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Single moms are mothers of abandoned children. so before getting preggy, a lady should know its going to be her responsibility alone if the guy was in just for the Se.x And yes Every lady knows if she is wanted for just Se.x or not. They just can't get enough of the Badboy/Jerk/Player, hoping being good in bed would keep him (meanwhile there's this set if nice guys she be Friendzoning) |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by Nutase: 1:52pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
The simple reason is because they have result for d igbongi dey did and d result of d igbongi makes it look like dey are wayward. However, the ones without results are sometimes worse because dey can go to any length to conceal or even eliminate the reult of d igbongi dey have done. |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Lies... I grew up with my mum alone. We all turn out to be good children. Am damn proud of my mum. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by ethereal(f): 3:49pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
@ op,thank u fr a brilliant and well thought out piece.It warms my heart when women speak up against the serveral injustices plagueing our kind.Female bashing has become the norm and rather than protest,we pretend to "not hear" wats all around us.Its even more dishearthening to know dat d loudest name callers and bashers are the same men who'd chase anything in skirt,old or young,married or single,sowing their wild oats with reckless abandon!these same nitwits and iiddioots would readily go on a 30 day dry fasting and prayer seession just to marry a VIRGIN!!!..its laughable.Tnk u fr making my day. |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by LLVelly: 4:09pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Too long so I read 10lines only. No blame on their mothers is just that these nowadays girls dnt listen to advice on sex education but if a girl have the courage to born the baby she's a good woman. It's just that most(all) of them are poor. |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by tayoxx(m): 4:31pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
that Nigerian mentality. .....but then some single moms na ashana dem b o.... |
Re: Why Do Some People Think That Single Mothers Are Prostitutes Or Whores? by Cwaya(m): 4:54pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Those who think they are whores needs Brain System Upgrade. Like say na them holy pass! Meanwhile, jovialmum, Nne the story long shaa, |
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