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Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Franchise21(m): 3:17pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
naijaboiy:Dats hw one gurl in schl told me dat she was giving me signs wen we were in year 2 n I dint notice. Dats two yrs ago n nw we hv graduated n she's telling me she nw hates me cos I ditched her. I just smiled at her n left |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by pryd(m): 3:46pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
AgapeCharis:Thanks bro..God bless you more. 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by pryd(m): 3:49pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
AgapeCharis: Very correct. Then the guy is eventually accused of being insensitive..lol |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:18pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
UjSizzle: Good questions. Women are not interested in any one person. They are interested in males who meet certain biological/social criteria. Same for men. For men, mainly biological; for women, mainly social. And, she didn't set these.
Lol. Really, no one owes anyone an explanation. "All's fair in love and war", said some dude. People are going to whine, whatever decisions you make, anyway. 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Nobody: 4:57pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Mynd44: |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by ihedinobi2: 5:51pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
BuddhaPalm:Lol. Merc as hell. |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by UjSizzle(f): 8:17pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
You know, within social circles it is considered rude to insist on engaging people--or trying to--when they've expressly stated their displeasure. I know the internet provides invisibility cloaks to everyone, but it isn't enough reason to abandon decorum. Currently you're no different from the random guy who insists on being a chatterbox at a party, with the distasteful habit of cutting in on people's conversations, giving opinions when they haven't been asked for, and generally being a nuisance. You just don't know when to stop. |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Nobody: 8:30pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
This is just making life complicated @ihedinobi2. I think you are one of those people who never give a smile to stranger just for the sake of it. So how will I befriend people I like If I can't look at their eyes when they talk, I can't touch them, do things like walking, talking together? Green light. Can friends be loved? I mean just a simple love with no strings attached. Will absence of that even be a true friendship or just a shallow network? I think networks are just for convenience and only last as long as it is convenient. I guess thats why it is the more practised in todays individualistic society. Can I get excited when we meet, per a million chance, with one of my favorite NLers without being misunderstood? If possible, how far should this friendly gestures go? As in how to keep a friendship - some are worth keeping - without the other party getting it twisted. |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Ishilove: 8:47pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Una too like gist... |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by xynerise: 8:58pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Ishilove:I just dey observe. See amebos |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by AfricanApple(f): 10:20pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
AgapeCharis:I'm not arguing that there's such thing but its not as common as u guys think. as far as I know, a lady crushing on u will likely hide it (not all but only a few will show it) so u see most of the times u get the wrong signals |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Nobody: 10:43pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Green Light, I want to still believe are the supposedly signs a lady show to a guy to let him interprets how she feels for him. Ladies are emotionally unstable. They feel different at different times... Understanding that means the battle is half won. Back to the topic: If a lady flash you those "green lights..." 1. Behave mature. How? Ignore her. Only time can tell if what she feels is deep. If she draws closer, friendzone her! Talk to her about ordinary things that isn't near sex and watch her closely. if she really loves you, her eyes will speak. If she is into you for sex and money, those topics won't interest her. 2. Never think of taking down her digits. The moment you do, the green lights turns to lights out! And most importantly, you won't be able to add to her life positively, which can actually refocus her perspective of you ( if it wasn't right before). (3) If you really love her, and she beamed those lights first... even appearing cheap to you... Don't pounce like a hungry lion... No! Help her... Teach her... Let her see you more as a mentor rather than a "wooer"... Watch your words closely when she's around... GREENLIGHT? #lays mat and sleeps # 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by ihedinobi2: 1:16am On Dec 07, 2014 |
muafrika:I actually smile at strangers and acquaintances, wave, say hi, ask about their day and so on. There are women I keep up with. Friendliness, neighborliness. These things aren't confusing. But when you start laying things on heavy, why get surprised if someone thinks you mean something more? When you take time out every single day to hang out, ask about her day and try to fix every single problem, are you still being just a good friend or a contender for her heart? It's just a sense of decency that we need. A willingness to acknowledge the existence of limits so that life continues to make sense. |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Nobody: 5:36am On Dec 07, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: Good to know you are friendly. Does this mean that the limits lies in the frequency of deeds that would otherwise be friendly? Of course I agree with descency. |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by ihedinobi2: 9:03am On Dec 07, 2014 |
muafrika:That is one very strong sign. A husband is one who is bound by a vow to stand for a woman at all times and through all weathers. A wife is a woman who is bound by a vow to stand by a man at all times and through all weathers. "Stand for" and "stand by" are qualities of friendship. That is why your spouse is generally expected to be your best friend, your confidante, your most trusted ally. How do you then choose your spouse? Would it not be by watching to see who stands with you or for you no matter what and even when it is supposed to be inconvenient for them? |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Nobody: 9:58am On Dec 07, 2014 |
ihedinobi2:I'll remember that next time I am asked for a favor. I am one of those people who say yes to everything and when it gets overwhelming, I suddenly drop everything and move on. The habit has earned me a few enemies, especially in my church days. |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Caseless: 10:43pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
AfricanApple:u gals are guilty of this- u take every gesture for green-light. *coughs* |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by AfricanApple(f): 11:16pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
Caseless:u are right but u know dat most of the times, guys do all that because they really wanna have something to do with a lady, so it makes us confuse it for a guy who has no such intentions |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Oahray: 6:59am On Dec 08, 2014 |
Well, there's green light,but it doesn't mean you already want to DATE the person. It simply means you don't mind it if the person goes ahead with trying to. However, depending on the style (s)he uses, (s)he either makes a favourable impression or turns you off permanently. I think the mistake many people (especially guys) make is thinking that once a girl smiles at them, they are half-way there, so they become too pushy. You still have to gently start from scratch. |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by ihedinobi2: 11:22am On Dec 08, 2014 |
AfricanApple:So there are things guys do that make you think they have romantic intentions? Why then do you argue that your men should read no meanings into the behaviors of women? |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by AfricanApple(f): 12:10pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
ihedinobi2:u talk like u guys are not guilty of this is it not in nature that male get attracted to female and does things to make her aware of it. I do not think but I know. am I not a woman? there are some guys that initially I don't smile with them even if they get friendly, the moment I just open half of my teeth, they are already reciting poems Why then do you argue that your men should read no meanings into the behaviors of women?most of the times, ladies who are actually attracted to u won't show it those u think are showing it are not the ones attracted to u |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by JAVANESE(m): 12:45pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
UjSizzle:wetin u dey feel lyk. Abeg enta bush |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Jeanfortune(f): 9:44am On Dec 17, 2014 |
Dannylux:much more worse |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Jeanfortune(f): 9:46am On Dec 17, 2014 |
jaybee3:hehehe, this got me laughing, 'mortgaging ur time' indeed |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by jaybee3(m): 9:50am On Dec 17, 2014 |
Jeanfortune:But na true na Why invest in something for years then receive zilch return at the end of it? It simply ain't worth it abeg dash me any light this morning jare 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Jeanfortune(f): 11:51am On Dec 17, 2014 |
jaybee3:u dey find light abi |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by jaybee3(m): 11:54am On Dec 17, 2014 |
Re: Lets Talk About The "Green Light" by Stephxoblessed(f): 9:21pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
mydd you v been scarce o ( not that av been lookinh out for you tho). |
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