Nimen:

yes i am, play your cards right an u might be

Well thanks, but I'm cool with male besties than the female ones. Babes.. they can spill one's beans in a milli secs, just don't get them mad

Nimen:

its true... But thats where my first point comes in

Yeah yeah.

She can make some of her hot frnds available 4 yanshing, if u know wat I mean

just have some good friends with the opposite sex and not best or close friends

ayyyyo:
. So what's up?

Nothing

VickyyB:
I'm a friend to both sexes depending on his/her personality.

Your signature though...are you a feminist?

Say No to opposite sex bestie. They are only meant for kpanshing and that is all.

Shout out to my female bestie.

well, having a girl as a bestie mean say u nor wan hurt her, if nt u'll be tempted to remove her from that zone.
As a man that I'm.

I think the topic should read "5 reasons to have a male bestie"

I'm not saying this because I'm a guy.
But guys are better configured by nature for friendship. Doing it slow but steady. May not be all about excitement and getting matching Tshirts or shrieking @ the top of our voices or walking everywhere hand in hand, But about allowing ur bud a place in ur heart inspite of how we feel @ the moment.

People do not automatically change their attitudes simply because they're now friends with the opposite gender. An easily irritable person willl remain so, a proud person, same. An unforgiving person, same.

In MOST cases, (didn't say all) friendships btwn a lady n a guy work very well because the guy is naturally a great friend and is making a lot of compromises (not talking about gifts or anything here o) and same guy (if u check) will also be a great friend to other guys. It is who he is. He is naturally that way (I know some guys can be the exact opposite and pick on otherwise insignificant errors)

for example, I can go for 6 months without a single "quarrel" with my female buds. Heck! There's is this particular one, we've been friends since 2010 and we've only had a fight once. It was mild and lasted less than 30mins...after that it was as if nothing even happened.

Another one I've known since 2008 and the only thing we've had that's close to a fight was because I was i'll and kept it from her.
Ps: one of them is someone that's considered by immediate family to be of bad attitude. (makes u wonder if love isn't supposed to "cover a multitude of sins"....)

But does that mean there are no issues that could've wrecked the friendship a thousand times over? NO! But I just lack d energy to follow up on another person's errors, when there are so many positive things to focus on. I very easily brush aside some actions, words etc that I'm sure she would blow to high heavens if we swapped shoes.

I apologize if this sounded by any chance like I'm tooting my own horn. But I'm merely pointing out that what makes ANY relationship work isn't primarily sex, but the attitudes of the persons involved.. dude or dame.
We should learn to amplify the good aspects of our friends n overlook (the ones we can't correct) as much we can, the rotten sides.
No human is perfect, but if we all can learn to be a little less self centered, and make compromises for the sake of love, then we all CAN get along.

frisby:
I think the topic should read "5 reasons to have a male bestie"

I'm not saying this because I'm a guy.
But guys are better configured by nature for friendship. Doing it slow but steady. May not be all about excitement and getting matching Tshirts or shrieking @ the top of our voices or walking everywhere hand in hand, But about allowing ur bud a place in ur heart inspite of how we feel @ the moment.

People do not automatically change their attitudes simply because they're now friends with the opposite gender. An easily irritable person willl remain so, a proud person, same. An unforgiving person, same.

In MOST cases, (didn't say all) friendships btwn a lady n a guy work very well because the guy is naturally a great friend and is making a lot of compromises (not talking about gifts or anything here o) and same guy (if u check) will also be a great friend to other guys. It is who he is. He is naturally that way (I know some guys can be the exact opposite and pick on otherwise insignificant errors)

for example, I can go for 6 months without a single "quarrel" with my female buds. Heck! There's is this particular one, we've been friends since 2010 and we've only had a fight once. It was mild and lasted less than 30mins...after that it was as if nothing even happened.

Another one I've known since 2008 and the only thing we've had that's close to a fight was because I was i'll and kept it from her.
Ps: one of them is someone that's considered by immediate family to be of bad attitude. (makes u wonder if love isn't supposed to "cover a multitude of sins"....)

But does that mean there are no issues that could've wrecked the friendship a thousand times over? NO! But I just lack d energy to follow up on another person's errors, when there are so many positive things to focus on. I very easily brush aside some actions, words etc that I'm sure she would blow to high heavens if we swapped shoes.

I apologize if this sounded by any chance like I'm tooting my own horn. But I'm merely pointing out that what makes ANY relationship work isn't primarily sex, but the attitudes of the persons involved.. dude or dame.
We should learn to amplify the good aspects of our friends n overlook (the ones we can't correct) as much we can, the rotten sides.
No human is perfect, but if we all can learn to be a little less self centered, and make compromises for the sake of love, then we all CAN get along.

hmmm... U make a whole lot of sseennsseee

Jennimma:
Yes,I agree too. Guys are my besties. For one,they aren't sentimental. Secondly,we may quarrel now and the next minute we're friends...but with my girlfriend? Hell-to-the-no! The quarrel go even reach one month or more sotey we go dey do anniversary on top sef. Lolz

Hahaha!...True; I have two male friends, and well apart from my sis (who is also my best friend), have female acquaintances. I can't deal with drama....Its too damn exhausting.