Truckpusher:
Pishure of you rejecting the offer or.........fill in the blanks

cococandy:
So many things can be said about the black man but ugly ain't one of them.

zboyd:


As a Nigerian (I'm assuming), I doubt you are ignorant of the reasons some Nigerian women fall by the wayside. Some of those reasons are not too different from those of American women...e.g... immaturity, poor judgment, lack of sex education and/or birth control, lack of parental involvement, peer pressure, poverty, victim of a sex predator, past molestation, broken home, etc. There's misery on both sides of the pond, among some Nigerian and American women.

Unlike Nigeria, the US has myriads of programs that serve to alleviate the 'deplorable conditions' some American women find themselves in - free of charge. However, you will still find some American living on the edge. Why? Either they're lazy and trifling or previously messed up, when enrolled in one of these programs. The administrators of these programs can be strict. Mess up and you're kicked out - sometimes permanently.

So...you ask why some Nigerian/African women in the US who will not date/marry Nigerian/African men.

My observations ...

SOME Nigerian/African women in the US say they will not date/marry SOME Nigerian/African men because...

...they're not as good-looking as American men
...they consider Nigerian men inferior to American men
...they want beautiful children
...they consider them too arrogant, pompous, jealous, possessive, abusive and deceitful
...they want to experience different dating options, just like Nigerian/African men
...they don't trust them, due to bad relationships, in the past
...they lie too much
...they openly express their dislike of Nigerian women and like for non-Nigerian women
...they aren't romantic
...they refuse to deal with Nigerian men's "Woman you must submit!" attitudes
...they've found that the average American man is 'house-trained'...e.g...he finds no problem pitching in to do housework, cook and help out with the kids
...they've found American men to be better lovers

Truckpusher:
The most insulted man on this planet earth is the 'blackman' and now our women are taking a lead in making the blackman appear more and more evil,backward,unromantic,and chauvinistic in nature but why? Can't a man just keep his identity and be respected by others without being labelled as a vile and abominable thing?

zboyd:


Very true!

Sometimes I had to really 'go ghetto' on their azzes before they left me alone.

khiaa:



LMAO
Yet you call American women shallow, and you can't use the Nigerian government for the lack of morals of some people.
Just as simply as some people can say American women should learn to keep their legs closed, this advice applies to Nigerian/African aswell.
No I am not Nigerian.

khiaa:



Yeah you are right, some men will hit on anything in a skirt.

cococandy:
erm you guys can start by appreciating and respecting your women.

If y'all did, no one will call yous unromantic et chauvinistic and backward. That's the direct result of such behaviors.
If the women are leading the pack of those who label the black man bad, tells you something doesn't it?

Truckpusher:
Pishure of you rejecting the offer or.........fill in the blanks

khiaa:



She is only fantasizing, don't take her seriously.
The person(darkonesun) that the op quoted from is a very, very attractive African American male who has a deep dislike for African women so much untill it has become an obsession with him for years, so you know what that means.
People become obsessive with what they think they can't have. What's up with you today?

zboyd:


Yep...some women would sleep with Godzilla, if he had the cash.

No cash - no snatch!

Truckpusher:
Smh...I never expected you to see it differently anyway.

The worst thing that is happening to the black man today is the black woman's attitude of copying everything Western just everything ,without first of all thinking of what importance does this bring to her household and the long time effect of such culture, but they are don't care because most of them are selfish,myopic,self centered,dumb, too materialistic, and they like to adore and cherish those very thing that have made other society to loose touch with reality because of the immediate relief and fulfillment they get .

I'm not saying that a man should become a mini god to his wife
I'm not saying that a man should become autocratic to his wife
But there must be a clear line of reporting in every organization and the home is not an exemption of this and this is where the problem lies exactly.
Because the moment you let them know that they can't do this and that, you automatically become insecure,chauvinistic,unromantic and backward.

Most black women are lost and unfortunately there is nothing we can do about it.

cococandy:
Yea. We are back where it started. Ego trips. Abeg talk another thing.

All the ones that are being worshipped and saluted morning afternoon and night as the lord and masters yet they treat their women like trash nko?

Of course it is never the men's fault.
Everything that anyone has to say about black men is not their fault. It is the fault of the women.

Truckpusher Let's face the topic ehn.

Black men are not ugly o. Big lie. OP tell those sisters they didn't meet the right ones.

khiaa:


Those are called pros.titutes.

zboyd:


Some American women ARE shallow just like some American men. Shallowness is just another piece of the jigsaw puzzle called human. Do you deny it? And...isn't poor judgment one of the reasons that causes some women to drop their panties, on either side of the pond?

Btw...why are you telling me I can't use the Nigerian government for the lack of morals of some people?

And why are you telling me you're not Nigerian?

What fly is up your tail?

khiaa:



LMAO
Yet you call American women shallow, and you can't use the Nigerian government for the lack of morals of some people.
Just as simply as some people can say American women should learn to keep their legs closed, this advice applies to Nigerian/African aswell.
No I am not Nigerian.

zboyd:


What do you call women who marry men JUST for their money?

lefulefu:

me is learnin some american slangs to use to toast american girls when i check in into yankee .dis pigeon english don tire me to dey use

khiaa:



Prostitutes!!! Because they are still selling their bodies and souls for money.

lefulefu:

me is learnin some american slangs to use to toast american girls when i check in into yankee .dis pigeon english don tire me to dey use

khiaa:



Did you or did you not say that you assumed I was Nigerian in one of your quotes to me, well I am letting you know that I am not.

Yes people are shallow all over the world not only in America like you made it sound like in your original post.
My point to you is to clean up your on backyard.

khiaa:



You can practice your American slang on me.
Let me hear some!

cococandy:
The black man PHYSICALLY is the epitome of male sexuality (not lovemaking prowess) and handsomeness.


As for other areas, what you see you take am like that.
Patch patch.

Truckpusher:
This has nothing to do 'ego trips' and all that thing you're thinking.
I'll just face the topic ,oya! you face me

zboyd:


Oh yes...I did. I forgot about assuming you were Nigerian. Not good!

What's with the veiled hostility?

Whatever burr is up your butt - out with it.

Why hide behind petty remarks?

lefulefu:

haba we no dey audition 4 spatacus na

cococandy:
its upload your pic and put the topic to shame

cococandy:
Wey your pic?

Truckpusher:
Na joke I dey o

lefulefu:

why u wan see my pix?
abi na my big belle u wan c make u come dey yab me?

cococandy:
you dey fear? Lmao.