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Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by extremelygolden: 4:07pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Both of you are in bondage already and you'll only be freeing her in other to free yourself. You're committing adultery with her and she is committing fornication with you. Marriage is honourable and should not be defiled. Please don't use your hand to sink the boat of your marriage in the name of uncontrollable lust. Free that lady so you too can be free. There is nothing she has that your wife hasn't got. Focus on your marriage and on your wife to avoid story that touches the heart. TO BE FOREWARNED IS TO BE FOREARMED. That 80% your wife is giving you is more worth, in all ramification, than the mere 20% that lady is giving you out there. Please listen to the voice of reasoning. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by sukkot: 4:10pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
bros just marry her as second wife. thats your only solution right now. ask thats rastaman odb jezreel how e take marry 3 women and the kind lyrics to use tell your wife say you wan marry another woman 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 4:10pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Who knows,this may be exactly what his wife did to another woman in her single days Karma is a female dog |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by roymary: 4:10pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind: Greed and sentiment aside, which of the Vjays do you enjoy the most? Who has the better ringtone- Who delivers more juice ? I blame your wife though- she must have been too carried away with other chores that she forgot to pay attention to your excessive waist demands. Is the mistress more beautiful? Is she neater and smell better? Do you have more intelligent conversations with your wife or the mistress? Who cooks better? Who is more hardworking and supportive? Do you think the mistress would cheat on you as well? Does something tells you your wife would be unfaithful if opportunity presents itself? Evaluate these facts and see who has the higher score then quickly follow that route . Stop when you are ahead before you get caught and wifey will lose trust in you forever. NB: Lets play a game- let me start wooing your mistress and distract her from you a little bit. It works. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Beey(f): 4:11pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
It does beat my understanding how a man can be playing with hot charcoal and then expect not to burn his fingers. Mr.Man, you see women are smarter now than they were in the yester years.They know that it's unjust for anyone to work for free.If she cooks for you & does monkey styles in bed, you should then be ready to pay back in equal measure.The law of sowing & reaping is still real. It states that "Do not be fooled, for whatever a man sows, that he shall also reap." The seeds of unfaithfulness you've been sowing, in the fullness of time,if you do not change your ways,you shall reap of the same because you cannot plant mangoes & reap oranges.If you sow unfaithfulness, you shall also get a harvest. A foolish woman/man destroys his household with his own hands but a wise one builds with their hands.Be a builder & not a destroyer! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by GodMode: 4:11pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
IVORY2009: The woman can also cheat... If he catches his wife banging another guy... He'll know what betrayal feels like.. The OP deserves a taste of his own medicine. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 4:12pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by sucezTP(f): 4:12pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Braggante: One of the most sensible comments I have read on this thread, especially the last paragraph. @ op someone suggested you go for deliverance at MFM, and get your self loosed from that bondage. Please, I love happy home, marriages and I hate hearing divorce stories. Don't allow your kids to become victims of broken home. DO AWAY WITH THAT YOUR MISTRESS COMPLETELY. May God help you. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by IVORY2009(m): 4:12pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Dahjhi: I hv seen an issue as this, the lady in question got married, but that did not help issues, when both of them are in love, it is very difficult for them to stop seeing each other, except by devine intervention. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by IVORY2009(m): 4:20pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
GodMode: This will no way help issues, rather if will lead the union to an early end! |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by aviazuva: 4:25pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Ha ha ha ha What can it not do to a man? I mean the Chamber of Commerce, the down stream Sector, regulated or deregulated? My man, he who feels it knows it. your brain and your grass hopper are in conflict, and the witches in your village are supporting your grass hopper. You are bound for doom. My advice?: Dont run, Flee. whatever it takes. You must stop seeing her physically, because if you continue to see her even when you are no longer dating her, you will continue to feel pain specially anytime you see her smile to another man or she allow herself to be touched by another man and tell you what, you will see that a lot and she will approve them. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by kccarew(f): 4:28pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
First, I think u are under a spell called sin, I mean how can u be so wic... That u are first of all stopping her from settling down when u have and you have your own kids, but she doesn't, second, u have ur own wife and u are cheating on her, how would you feel if she was the one doing that to you. Now my advice, let it go, say to sin u have no dominion over me, and end this sinful act, draw your wife closer, I think you guys don't have a better bonding relationship that's why you are able to find companionship in ur colleague at work, man, you have to confess also to your wife, that's the only way u won't do it again, cos u are not a dog that will go back to your vomit. All the best, I hope u adehire to our advise it won't just save ur marriage but your life also Tellmeurmind: |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by amnestylaw1(m): 4:28pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Do you love your wife? If you do, then you already know what to do.
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Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by victorazy(m): 4:32pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
chaircover: What bondage? is she a 6yr old girl? |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by babaluckey: 4:33pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Hey, take her as your best friend, stop sleeping with her, cut off all activities you have with her and pay more attention to your (family) wife and kid/s, do not put up a fight or argument with her. I promise you someday, she will notice your motive and understand where you are going to and that will give her the impression that you are done with her and she will move on with her life. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by gbemzola(f): 4:37pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Sorry to say this but men like you make me sick. I can only imagine what you do to your wig at home. A friend of mine husband recently beat her black and blue because of his mistress. You are not mature enough. You want to eat your cake and have it in your hand. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Jasi7(m): 4:43pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
bennyrazz: Ive seen this same scenario somewhere and also in movies....''if those suitors stop coming,she will DEFINATELY,I mean DEFINATELY destry his family.... |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 4:45pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
babyosisi:. hahahaha..lol @ karma is a female dog, chai, babymama you get mouth oo.... |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Dahjhi: 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
IVORY2009:issokah.. Make he continue .. Make he nor find d devine intervention himself ..
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Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by JiggamanGh: 4:52pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
adamskutty: Rude boi |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by hectorswag(m): 4:57pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
PerfumeRepublik:Its like u read my mind. Was having the same conclusion! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by nattyhero(m): 4:58pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Holla. guy u are in a fix. You are d only one who can free ureself, am a married man also involved with a single lady. I just recently emasculated myself. if u truely love her as u claim then blank her from ur mind. Family na number 1 |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by GHANAOGA: 5:01pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
babaluckey: bestfriend ke |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Amhappy(f): 5:02pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
@OP You can free yourself,your family and this lady if you decide today to stop seeing her. So you are worried that people will talk because you people are no longer together but you are not worried that you have been hurting your wife for God knows how long. Maybe you plan to continue in this mess when she finally gets married. Nawa Pearls have been thrown to the dogs. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by kccarew(f): 5:05pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Am sorry to say, but I would have to say it, foolish advise, what if all the good qualities is found in the other lady not his wife, u still advise he follows it, haaabaa! When he was doing for better or worse with his wife, he didn't know he would meet other prettier ladies out there, and its only a follish man that will set trap for his wife, the bible says woo unto a man that sets trap for his neighbour, for he will be the one to fall inside.be careful oga oo, for it is by ones advise you know who they truely are. roymary: |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by kccarew(f): 5:10pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Thank God for your reedemption ooo, hallelujah, pls share your testimony with such men, so they can kw it does not pay, I wonder what you guys get from them single ladies that you can't get from your wives at hom, PS, am so single and not married, very young at that, but I hate such that men do this days, fear God my people nattyhero: 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by sarcoma: 5:15pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Confess and apologise to your wife then delete her from your memory |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Coolguy89(m): 5:15pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Its a feelings u can't let go,my broda make her a second wife |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Delary: 5:15pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
U have to quit d relationship now by making sure u delet her from ur mind. if shet gets older she might be more desperate and anything can hapen. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Gordieshegz(m): 5:16pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind: Sir! Be man enough to let go of her pls...why wasting her flourishing moment when you understand quite well that you won't end up with her She is someone sister just like you are someone's brother,uncle,nephew etc remember?? if it were to be a gal doing this to a guy,Nairalanders will have been shouting FRIENDZONING!!! Lol...pls let her go before she becomes a threat to your interesting family you are fond of!!! |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by roymary: 5:18pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
kccarew: Pray never to be with a wrong partner. A lot of people marry wrong spouse for different reasons- and No- I do not share the school of thought that forces advice down a throat- i admire logic a lot - I need Op to be logical- it's the best tool for better understanding of a situation. If you ask me, i would say Op's wife has those great qualities or he wouldn't have married her but someone needs to remind him and have him reevaluate his steps and life in general. Don't tell a man to go back to his wife because she's the wife but remind a man those qualities that makes the wife who she is. You also talked about the general saying "for better or worse" That ideology works when both partners share mutual ideas- Will you allow your sister remain in her husband's house if you found out he is a ritualist or an armed robber? 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nuezha(m): 5:21pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind: Anytime your pastor prays against principality and powers, rulers of the darkness of this world and spiritual wickedness in high places, please postpone your doomsday by not saying Amen. 1 Like |
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