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Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by donbenie(m): 3:40pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Your headline is rather misleading, you made it sound as if she is the one pestering your life,instead of you being the leach that's blocking her future,so I advise you to concentrate on your family and leave the lady alone to get on with her life,simple.. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 3:40pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
I feel for your wife and what she'll go through when this your idiocy yields its fruits . |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Braggante(m): 3:40pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Trust me, you will never be free until one of you leaves that office. Either you resign or she does, as long as you keep seeing each other, emotions will always run. Feelings will always breed. I was in that situation once, once I left the office, the feelings died and I focused on what was important. Fortunately for me however I was/am not married. In your case, any rift with your wife, and she will be the first one you will call and spend time with, to the detriment of your marriage. It's a wasted venture cos ure not getting married to her neither are u leaving ur wife for her. But oju to m'ora, ko le lo'un o m'ora mo. Once de be, forever de be. So leave her/get another job. In the alternative, make sure she's hooked up. Scratch that. Ensure she's hooked up, and advise her on being faithful to her boyfriend. Both of you will need a lot of discipline for this to work. In either case, commit yourself to loving your wife more. Make it a duty. Spend more time with your wife. Flaunt your wife and boast about her always. Splurge on her and always talk about how much you love her, even before your mistress. Ditch your mistress with excuses of having a romantic date with your wife. That way, the picture will get clearer. Spend all your money on your family, or family project, and when ure always broke cos of that, ull become unattractive to Ur mistress and she'll ditch u. Cheers 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by uboma(m): 3:40pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
bennyrazz: I concur |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by nerodenero: 3:41pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tame your third-leg and stop exposing your family.If you don't,you will regret. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by yungcyrus(m): 3:41pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Hmmmmm..............wahala dey! |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 3:42pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
chaircover: .....way to go @ op |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by IVORY2009(m): 3:45pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
GodMode: what do you want to do with his wife? Are u a kidnapper |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by greatnow: 3:45pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind:. Pharoah let my people go. Any mistress in a married man's life is the second,your family should be the first before anything,she is in your life to while away time one day you will not see her again but your wife and kids will always be with you forever.........mistresses are by the way,passerby and second class citizens in your life...they have no economical value to you instead they are there to SAP you dry...bros use your brain |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by baby124: 3:45pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
The girl is a very big foo*l for making herself become involved in such a situation. How pathetic. Plus mumu OP, keep sleeping with her o. You actually think your overused old arse is enough to satisfy her. The day she will enter one chance by contracting disease, you too will get a nice package to take home to your wife. It will not kill you to stay faithful to one woman and honor your vows. An honorable man keeps his word. I see no where in this post where you are even concerned for your wife. I pity her 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 3:46pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
all those men thinking they can chop and clean mouth. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by GodMode: 3:46pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
IVORY2009: I want to treat her like the queen she is... 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by andyanders: 3:47pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Op, I feel that you are too weak to be a man since you do not have self control and know when to call it off. You have a family=wife and children and you still cannot allow a single lady go get married and has contributed to her not getting married because you wanted her to yourself. You are as useless as the lady since you cannot allow her to marry and she cannot allow your wife have you. If you cannot have her and she cannot have you as you claimed, are you both not sick? Don't come here to ask what you can do. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by fpeter(f): 3:48pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Awwwww! If you can then quit the job or even relocate! Then make una go MFM for deliverance. If your wife is understanding, then confess to her and ask for her forgiveness and prayers. Better still call the lady,explain to her that it is for her own good...don't yield to her pleas or tears be a man and call it quits,nothing is worth the sanctity of your marriage... |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by tobaflexy(m): 3:50pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Let me ask u did ur wife offended u, |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by jerryjere(m): 3:53pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
To me you are a fool if the girl have a relationship you get angry and jealous that means you don't want good for the girl so why complain. the truth is that let the girl go it does not mean that both of you work in the same company because if she eventually got pregnant just put it in back of your mind that abortion will not be an option then by then your eyes will opened a word is enough for the wise. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by bosun11(m): 3:54pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind: you got to choose between your family and your job or you flee from that lady |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by IVORY2009(m): 3:54pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
GodMode: The OP has not asked 4 it yet! |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by uboma(m): 3:54pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind: Start with working on your mind. Decide if your extra marital affairs is really worth the pains and emotional turmoil you have brought upon yourself, your wife and possibly your kids (if you have any). Do you sincerely think that having extra marital affairs with her and condemning her suitors is really going to help her in the long run? Remember you are married. So depriving her of meeting potential suitors speaks of how selfish you are. Apart from sexual pleasure, what else can this colleague of yours give you? The after effects are like burning coals that will burn you for a long time to come if you do not clean up your mess. If after the counsels gotten from the thread, you still decide to continue the extra marital affair, please release your wife because you don't deserve her. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by IKJ66(m): 3:55pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
PAssing by !!!! |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by extremelygolden: 3:57pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
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Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Antell95(m): 3:58pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Mr Festus, i know you! And u know what that means |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by pi4u: 4:00pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tell your wife with a faithful heart. Women are very faithful to their hubbies. It now depends on how u present it. Also are u a born again Christian and put the Word of God into practice? Confess to yourself that "I am faithful to my wife in Jesus name. I love my wife and family. I refuse to have an extramarital affair. Am raising my family in a godly way. And follow up your confession. Have early morning devotion together. Pray and share the word of God together. Even in your family devotion, u can all pray for her. The peace in of the Lord be with you. Tellmeurmind: |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by IVORY2009(m): 4:00pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
My own point of view of the whole senerio, this issue is very common, I give kudos to the OP for being able to come out frm his shell, it happens alot in offices, churches etc, even married women do it to, the only thing is that the OP should find a way of letting go of lady. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Dahjhi: 4:01pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
bennyrazz:imagine the wicked guy nah.. He can even tell us he's blocking her Mr Right... By the power conferred on me Tellmeurmind I tagged you "" WICKED" where's Mizmycoli z comment abeg.. I knw she for don talk sense into u 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by GodMode: 4:02pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
IVORY2009: But his enjoying another persons' "future wife" and his been an obstacle to the girls' progress. While his queen at home is just "at home". 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 4:03pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
After sometime now the girl will enter MFM and start commanding husbands unto herself Running around with a picture of the man they want from one babalawo to another All you single girls that mess with people's husbands when you nack 30 plus and no man is saying nne how now,remember you brought it upon yourself. And if you are married and messed with people's husbands while single,let others do same unto you with impunity 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Dahjhi: 4:06pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
IVORY2009:its nothing but canal-lity joor, even stopping her from getting married. If he allowed her to marry its possible her lust will vanish from his mind. (hw much we wan do for sex wey we go say make day nor break nah.. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by IVORY2009(m): 4:06pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
GodMode: hmmmm, wat will I say, a man will always be a man, this is the more reasons while some religion bodies will advocate for a man to marry more than one wife, they believe it will reduce the man's rate of cheating. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by vitality22(m): 4:07pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
byvan:Madam, God bless you reallllllllll good 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by topnedu(m): 4:07pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
You better try and deal with it. This kind of situation has the potential to destroy you, your wife, your marriage and your children. I know a guy in my office in your situation and he is so helpless. |
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