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Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by GHANAOGA: 5:27pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
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Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind:I must tell you this:you're a very wicked man!. You care about yourself alone,you already know that you'll never marry her yet you're bent on keeping her and also discouraging her from marrying her numerous suitors. Search yourself bro. Since you want to kill two birds with a stone...marry her. Happy polygamous life in advance. Reading what you wrote up there just made me sad. Its unfair dude. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by darediamond(m): 5:31pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
You. Are indeed a Rare Gem for saying this: "Channel the energy you use in pursuing this woman to woo your wife all over again. She will be pleasantly surprised and blossom once more in your eyes." cococandy: 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by cao(f): 5:49pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind: I was going to read this with an open mind (against my own better judgement), then I read the bolded bit and I almost lost my shtako! Seriously?! Why marry? Folks, going on about not falling for your sidekick/piece/mistress/whatever, are the vows you promised not sacred? We honestly can't tell you what to do, you know what to do. We can't help you cover the grave you dug for yourself, you have to. Take control of the mess you made before this becomes the plot to Fatal Attraction. You obviously know you can't have your cake & eat it too. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by justscorch: 5:49pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Modified: I didn't read the story well,guy she's not on any bondage oh,na u gan gan dey live in bondage,better leave that girl alone n focus what's right in front of u,to insult u dey hungry me sha cos u bringing disgrace to the male folks with this mumucious gist but the fact u bring it up shows u r truly thinking about breaking up,guy.Kai finally na ur wife and kids I pity 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Goldenboy007(m): 5:50pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
#Singing....Trouble sleep, yanga go wake am...wetin e dey fiiiind!!! palava he dey find..- Fela Every Adam has the Eve that will bring about his downfall..and like a homing self-destruct missile, we men will never rest until we ruin our lives with our own hands!!! No advice can help you now..your timing mechanism has been activated!!! |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Delary: 5:53pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
U have to quit d relationship now by making sure u delet her from ur mind. if she gets older she might be more desperate and anything can hapen. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by adorable29(f): 5:53pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Timbuktou: LooooolZ |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Lexusgs430: 6:02pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
You need advice on how to dump a mistress ? The best thing to do, is take your mistress to your wife and confess all your sins (problem solved). You are a stumbling block in this woman's path and she is foolish enough to stay in your marital mess, to please your sex.ual satisfaction or lack of it. You are enjoying the ride and finding it difficult to let go (after all its a free ride) Till she gets pregnant with your baby, and you will know that an Ibadan man did not get his traditional marks, by fighting a lion !!!! |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 6:04pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind: U know exactly the right thing to do and when u are ready to do the needful im sure u will do it so continue until u destroy ur own marriage with ur own dic'k sorry " hand". |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by ayo111uk(m): 6:04pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
You should be happy she want to leave. Don't be Pharaoh, or else you will be in TROUBLE. BIG TROUBLE. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Olufemiolaolu(m): 6:14pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Proverbs 6:24, 26 To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman. For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life. Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned? I hope with dis point of mine i have been able 2 convince you & not 2 confuse you that you re plotting ur own downfall. A word is enough 4 d wise 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by clemzo101(m): 6:19pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
U are d devil in her life bro, she's suppose to be be telling u "satan! Get behind me". D koboko with which devil will flog u with is still being designed somewhere in katsina. Tellmeurmind: 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Forwetinnah: 6:22pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
This is a joke right?? Sometimes I wonder how men think. Why did you get married when you obviously cannot keep your langalanga in check?? How would you feel if your Wife was the one telling this story?? 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by daey118(m): 6:24pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Whenever I see another chic finer than my gf .I say to myself "fck it" then I move on...if she's a friend and Its tempting..I act rude to her for no reason..then they usually end up hating me..#works for me .may nt work for yu tho#. Buh really..there's always gonna be that chics finer than your wife..but your ability to Say No and stand Your ground is what makes you..#No Real Man Is a PushOver ...besides the seasonal drama from one woman is enough to watch for a lifetime...I don't think you want to see what two looks like....mistress is sweet and loyal now..then you get married to her #gbam! Welcome to HellOnEarth!. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by delishpot: 6:29pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
coogar: This kain reply ehn, as if its only him involved in tge marriage. Did you not read where he said any arguement with her distabilizes his family? And that is just dating level o. Hian, eat his cake and have it ke? Is that possible in tgis world? For everything you win, there's something lost. OP, you no need advice, your heart is already set. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by adorable29(f): 6:31pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Hehehe! Some of this married men with mistresses think they are too much. You think you are in control! What age is this girl? If she is in her mid/late 20s, her friends, colleagues and age groups around her are already getting married! Then its either one of three things. Scenerio one! Her eyes are out there for her kind of "potential" husband. This babe just hasn't found that man yet! When she does, she will drop you like a dirty old haggard piece of rag. You think she doesn't know her time is ticking? You are just there probably (like all her other magas) as her wardrobe maga or latest iphone maga... Some one mentioned that she is your side chick but you may actually be her side ewu! Scenario two, she has seen that she can actually "GET" you! She sees how much you have fallen for her and expects that as time goes on, you ll discard your family for her! Or who knows, she may even be scheming to discard them on ur behalf! This is the dangerous one. Scenario 3! Just like you said, she loves a married man so much that she has refused to settle down and get married herself! Then I had say she is just a dumb biatch and you two deserve each other! But she ll grow some sense after the suitors have stopped coming.... By then sha be ready to marry her or face her inner demons! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by DICKtator: 6:39pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind: My goodness!!! Na pesin supposed wife you de sample so? And you no even still wan free am!! And somebody would still go ahead and marry such nasty package? Phuuccck these bitccches I tellya!! Make I sample your wife nah!!! Where do you work and what is the name of the girl? |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by coolfredo(m): 6:42pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind:u dnt kno hw to let her go? very simple ... do u kno otapiapia? jux one spoon full wil do d magic..... tnx me later bro wen it work.... |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 6:43pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Goldenboy007:. Fela of blessed memory, na true talk, trouble dey sleep, yanga go wake am up........ |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by kingpelumi: 6:44pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
He who wear the shoes no where itt pintches,am also in the same shoe,its a serious one which have beenn loooking for a way to let go but its pretty hard,plls. Help us out |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Nobody: 6:45pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Lexusgs430: chai, nairaland una go kill person with laugh..... 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by KMB: 6:46pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Looks like you've been fed. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by coldFLARES1(m): 7:02pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind:If u are sacked, for example, would your family eat grass? Marry am join ur wife if u are jealous enough to spoil her chances |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by kwenu: 7:09pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
alady at 30 still following married men ok let her continue till 40 but just picture how much damage this man must have done to her body system now ,when aman finally marries her,na the man go dey carry the cross and if the future husband cheat on her 2morow ,she will say men are dogs you cant eat your cake and have it, u ll all reap what u sow, says the lord |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by awizl(m): 7:10pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
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Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by royalicon(m): 7:13pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
hapiness44: Good advice. I love the lyrics you used. Imagine the OP in his third paragraph; He is been selfish and he knows. Selfishness is a grave bound disease. OP, pls don't run your life and that of ytyour family with selfishness. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by millionboi(m): 7:14pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
bennyrazz:No mind op....he jst playin wit fire. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Ninilowo(m): 7:16pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Sorry eh? Una don enter one chance if you don't know. |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by awizl(m): 7:17pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
kingpelumi: I'll be very practical with you. You're a cheating pathetic dude with no self control or common sense and I respect that. You're not alone, lots of us are just like you. However, you must realize you're on a destructive path which you must continually strive to deviate from permanently. Having said that, while at it, you can buy yourself time and play safe by making it a priority to continually toast and shag every girl that you can. It will help you not get too emotionally involved with one person and make it easier to shake off anyone ....some will even dump you themselves. Your life will be miserable, wasted, and chiefly pathetic but this is a time buying exercise you should engage in, hoping to make adjustments along the way that will lead you to the right path eventually. Proceed with sense, make superficial choices, endeavor to toast a new babe every 2 weeks.....hopefully one day, one will shock you back to being responsible or you'll get tired of stray vag recognizing that there's actually nothing to it..or ...you'll get to realize why your wife is special when you see the antics of these godless girls...or you'll lose your head and destroy your life or someone will destroy it for you. This is not the easiest way out of your predicament but it is a practical one and i know it is the one that will walk you out ...because, let's be honest with ourselves...you're never going to let that vag go..it has to happen by itself....This is how to make it happen by itself |
Re: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by awizl(m): 7:19pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tellmeurmind: I'll be very practical with you. You're a cheating pathetic dude with no self control or common sense and I respect that. You're not alone, lots of us are just like you. However, you must realize you're on a destructive path which you must continually strive to deviate from permanently. Having said that, while at it, you can buy yourself time and play safe by making it a priority to continually toast and shag every girl that you can. It will help you not get too emotionally involved with one person and make it easier to shake off anyone ....some will even dump you themselves. Your life will be miserable, wasted, and chiefly pathetic but this is a time buying exercise you should engage in, hoping to make adjustments along the way that will lead you to the right path eventually. Proceed with sense, make superficial choices, endeavor to toast a new babe every 2 weeks.....hopefully one day, one will shock you back to being responsible or you'll get tired of stray vag recognizing that there's actually nothing to it..or ...you'll get to realize why your wife is special when you see the antics of these godless girls...or you'll lose your head and destroy your life or someone will destroy it for you. This is not the easiest way out of your predicament but it is a practical one and i know it is the one that will walk you out ...because, let's be honest with ourselves...you're never going to let that vag go..it has to happen by itself....This is how to make it happen by itself 1 Like |
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