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Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by DieeDiee: 10:52am On Jan 12, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Lady you make no sense. That is the problem with judgmental people like you. You are so quick to judge you fail to think first. Firstly, who told you she barely knows him? She never said that. In fact they have been married for over a year, in fact they are in their 14th month now. Pregnancy lasts 9 months and she is premature which means she only fell pregnant after 6 months of marriage. Secondly, you do not decide to get married now then get married immediately there are licenses to be applied for arrangements to be made all which take time. Thirdly, since when has two children been many? Who made you judge of how many children are many? Do you know this woman's finances to decide for her if she has more children than she can take care of? That is the whole aim of family planning -- to make sure couples don't have more children than they can afford. If she can afford 16 children she can have 16 children. Fourthly, human beings are deeper than the ocean. You can know someone for a hundred years but never really know them. Fifthly, IT'S HER HUSBAND AND HER BODY SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO HAVE ANY KIND OF SEX WITH HIM SHE WANTS 6 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 10:53am On Jan 12, 2015 |
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Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by DieeDiee: 10:57am On Jan 12, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Lady you make no sense. That is the problem with judgmental people like you. You are so quick to judge you fail to think first. Firstly, who told you she barely knows him? She never said that. In fact they have been married for over a year, in fact they are in their 14th month now. Pregnancy lasts 9 months and she is premature which means she only fell pregnant after 6 months of marriage. You do not decide to get married now then get married immediately there are licenses to be applied for arrangements to be made all which take time. Secondly, now just because her first baby daddy is a douchebag she's not allowed to have another child? Thirdly, since when has two children been many? Who made you judge of how many children are many? Do you know this woman's finances to decide for her if she has more children than she can take care of? That is the whole aim of family planning -- to make sure couples don't have more children than they can afford. If she can afford 16 children she can have 16 children. Fourthly, human beings are deeper than the ocean. You can know someone for a hundred years but never really know them. Fifthly, IT'S HER HUSBAND AND HER BODY SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO HAVE ANY KIND OF SEX SHE WANTS WITH HIM 2 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 10:58am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Nonso23: This is what she has done and I don't think that it is a bad idea if that works for her. That does not mean that this is what I would do if I were her. |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 11:03am On Jan 12, 2015 |
DieeDiee: That's a very long time. And in this time, she got to know his family, friends and culture. Pregnancy lasts 9 months and she is premature which means she only fell pregnant after 6 months of marriage. That's enough time to have a child for someone. You do not decide to get married now then get married immediately there are licenses to be applied for arrangements to be made all which take time. Secondly, now just because her first baby daddy is a douchebag she's not allowed to have another child? How do you know her first man is a douchebag? Apart from this, a woman who already has a child whose father is absent should be extra careful. Thirdly, since when has two children been many? Who made you judge of how many children are many? Who said two children are many? Do you know this woman's finances to decide for her if she has more children than she can take care of? That is the whole aim of family planning -- to make sure couples don't have more children than they can afford. If she can afford 16 children she can have 16 children. In your world, money is the only decisive factor for having kids, not in mine. And you are talking about sense here? Fourthly, human beings are deeper than the ocean. You can know someone for a hundred years but never really know them. She should still first get to know his family and culture. It would make a lot of SENSE when we talk about sense. Fifthly, IT'S HER HUSBAND AND HER BODY SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO HAVE ANY KIND OF SEX SHE WANTS WITH HIM Who said she has no right to have s*ex with her husband? Read carefully next time. 2 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 11:05am On Jan 12, 2015 |
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Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by DieeDiee: 11:06am On Jan 12, 2015 |
mutter: Now comprehend. That does not mean she wants him. It means that is the only revenge she can think of if she had another form of revenge she'd probably take that form. So if she doesn't want him and only wants to stay for revenge why would she care about nigerian culture and being friends with the other woman? The only reason OP is thinking twice about divorce is because of her child it has nothing to do with the man and she didn't say divorce is off the table |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 11:08am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Nonso23: No, she was not asking for advice. She said that she made her decision for a number of reasons. This is what I understood from her post. |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by DieeDiee: 11:09am On Jan 12, 2015 |
@Nonso23 leave Carefreewannabe she is confused she doesn't know what she wants to say. She keeps contradicting herself. 4 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 11:09am On Jan 12, 2015 |
imagine if obamas mother had followed the drunken loser who fathered him to africa end of. 7 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 12, 2015 |
DieeDiee: Says someone who struggles with reading comprehension. 4 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by DieeDiee: 11:11am On Jan 12, 2015 |
oyb: LOL!!! America wouldn't have a president right now *dead* |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by samtol4(m): 11:13am On Jan 12, 2015 |
DieeDiee:ancestors still dey punish peopel?Lkmao 5 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by DieeDiee: 11:15am On Jan 12, 2015 |
samtol4: You are clearly looking for my attention, try me tomorrow I'm busy right now. Ps it's "they" it may sound like a "d" to the ear but it's spelled t-h-e-y |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by samtol4(m): 11:17am On Jan 12, 2015 |
DieeDiee:hmm |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 11:17am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 11:20am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by samtol4(m): 11:21am On Jan 12, 2015 |
DieeDiee:Lkmao .....my "dey"is pidgin so don't try to test your English skill on my quote. 7 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by samtol4(m): 11:22am On Jan 12, 2015 |
DieeDiee:how are you doing? |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by DieeDiee: 11:22am On Jan 12, 2015 |
samtol4: Wrong number, sorry I don't speak ignorant. |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
findingtruth: There you go! You see you snapped out of the victim mentality and took a decision that you think is best for you. Respect! But, be careful what you are planning is in reality impossible. I Will not bore you with the why i think so. Hope you Will not be here with a worse story a few months or a year later. Hopefully it works for you. Goodluck! 3 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
Mondisweets: Exactly what I am worried about. You can never close in a snake to punish it. By the time people open the door you would be a gonner and the snake would have taken over. Word is enough for the wise! 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Onegai(f): 1:03pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
mutter: dear Mutter, you sound like SUCH a matured married woman, you post here a lot (I'm assuming your hubby is well-to-do) and you have no problems with Polygamy. Therefore, i have a proposition: I've got a friend, in her 30s, working class and pretty. It would be nice to see her settled down and since your hubby is financially capable and you are a reasonable lady, perhaps we can all come to an understanding. Your hubby will feel even more Love from 2 women and you and your co-wife can always catch a bite together, chatting about kids, your shared man and household duties. This could be great! Btw, I'm not kidding, I'll be expecting your pm, pass your number, so you and your hubby can meet the girl and decide if she's the "2nd one" for your husband 17 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by mutter(f): 1:18pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
Onegai: No it`s you I want as a mate so either with my husband or yours. You decide 2 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by freecocoa(f): 1:18pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
Don't you just love NL? Y'all gat drama. 3 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by DieeDiee: 1:23pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
Onegai: Lol 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by zeb04(f): 1:30pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
Hahahaha to think the op is planing on playing a nigerian man is laughable By the time he's done with her,not only will her son loose father but also mother.(I reject it for you anyways) but the reason God gave us a brain is because he didn't want our head to only be for show. 4 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
Onegai: 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
BluIvy: Enough said. 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by MymothersKeeper(f): 2:05pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
This man is desperately wicked and insensitive to his friend and wife. You have been betrayed and wronged . I hope you protect yourself and child 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by cococandy(f): 2:34pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
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Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by ameenahz(f): 2:36pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
DieeDiee: Hi. Do you think it is wrong for a married woman to use contraceptives? |
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