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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by gistmelove(m): 10:08pm On Jan 10, 2015
Ok

Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by GSKing: 10:09pm On Jan 10, 2015
I had the feeling you'd bring religion into this.


Well done @Op

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by sulmeza(m): 10:09pm On Jan 10, 2015
Lol...nice write up anyway.....wish dey'l listen...especially d gals
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by peteruuu(m): 10:10pm On Jan 10, 2015
That's just why i'll remain a virgin until i'm married











































& that's if GOD tarries!

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by justscorch: 10:14pm On Jan 10, 2015
Too long to read undecided










































Like my dick NIGGGGA grin
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by marieolae(f): 10:15pm On Jan 10, 2015
boring
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by marieolae(f): 10:16pm On Jan 10, 2015
why do most nigerians make such a big deal out of it?
i will never understand.
Etizz:
I see nothing wrong to have sex before marriage.....

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by onwai1(m): 10:17pm On Jan 10, 2015
Swear that you've not had Sex despite u r not married oo,swwwear undecided
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by ddooskie(m): 10:18pm On Jan 10, 2015
God bless this OP #TeamCelibacy

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:21pm On Jan 10, 2015
Iykebestbt:
Buhari for 2015
is Buhari a virginai?
grin grin
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Iykebestbt(m): 10:22pm On Jan 10, 2015
MISSCONGENIALITY:
is Buhari a virginai?
grin grin
let me go ånd ask him.
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by AJOT99(m): 10:24pm On Jan 10, 2015
Nice piece
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by heffem(m): 10:25pm On Jan 10, 2015
So ȋ̝̊̅ go wan marry now, ȋ̝̊̅ ₪☺ go taste wetin ȋ̝̊̅ wan pay for? God forbid!........#abeg make ȋ̝̊̅ go take 2shots of my regular Jedi
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:26pm On Jan 10, 2015
Iykebestbt:
let me go ånd ask him.
please do, its very important.

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Missmossy(f): 10:28pm On Jan 10, 2015
True talk! Life would be a better place without unwanted pregnancies and the lot that comes with It.

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by heffem(m): 10:29pm On Jan 10, 2015
justscorch:
Too long to read undecided










































Like my dick NIGGGGA grin



















seriously.......ȋ̝̊̅ d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ read d tin d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ skip like disc wey ₪☺ G̲̣̣̣̥o̲̣̥ό̲̣̣̣̥̥̊ƌ̲̣̣̣̥ sef.... The guy for ₪☺ do copy and paste for the whole write-ups lipsrsealed
justscorch:
Too long to read undecided










































Like my dick NIGGGGA grin



















seriously.......ȋ̝̊̅ d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ read d tin d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ skip like disc wey ₪☺ G̲̣̣̣̥o̲̣̥ό̲̣̣̣̥̥̊ƌ̲̣̣̣̥ sef.... The guy for ₪☺ do copy and paste for the whole write-ups
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by juitar(m): 10:36pm On Jan 10, 2015
Samwell247:
Sex is everywhere. It permeates
television shows, the Internet, and
magazines.
Even children’s movies often
have thinly veiled sexual overtones.

Today, society’s carefree thinking on sex
out of wedlock is simply, “Why not?”
Believing that “most are doing it
anyway,”

Most people say we're in
the 21st century and that's now legal, but 99% of
things that are legal are not right.

Is this a bad thing? Most say no. To
support this position, some cite the well-
documented health benefits of being
sexually active.

some even say ""does sex belong only inside a
marriage relationship""? What is wrong
with reaping all the physical benefits of
sex outside of wedlock so long as one is
“smart” about it?

hmmmm but I tell u, there are dangers for the
sexually active person: transmission of
diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and
potential emotional scarring from a
promiscuous lifestyle of multiple
partners.

see our generation where teenage pregnancies are
rampant.
you meet young people “where
they are” and talk openly about sex.
Educators hope to arm teens with
enough information to dispel the
mystery of sex so they can “decide when
they are ready” to lose their virginity.

“One of the things young people say a lot
is that the sex education they get is
virtually meaningless, it’s too biological
and doesn’t relate to how they are
feeling.

Essentially, parents have concluded
they are no longer able to stop children
from having sex. The best they can hope
to do is teach them about it.

sexually transmitted diseases
have reached an unprecedented level.

Even the “safest”
sex can result in unintended pregnancies
This can lead to the tragic decision
to end the unborn child’s life through
abortion, something a woman will carry
for the rest of her life.

If the couple decides to go ahead with
the pregnancy, children of unmarried
parents are often susceptible to a host of
physical and emotional problems.

children born to women who
did not intend to get pregnant have been
found to have lower birthweight, poorer
mental and physical health, lower
educational attainment, and more
behavioral problems than do children
whose births were intended.”

Men and women who are products of
broken homes often have children out of
wedlock as well, which leads to a vicious,
multigenerational cycle of unhappiness.

Couples who wait enjoy
significantly more benefits than those
who had sex earlier..

A healthy, happy marital relationship
produces similar relationships in the
lives of children who come from them. In
short, happy couples produce happy
children.

It is a parent’s job to proactively teach
about sex. Yet parents have to compete
with what their children learn from this
world’s “sexperts”—the hyper sexualized
media, permissive sexual education at
school, misguided how-to websites—as
well as their peers.

While these sources
may supply some correct information
about purely physical aspects, the
majority of what they teach includes
much error. Add to this the pull on
young people to learn by their own
experiences, which can be painful.

Because of these factors, many parents,
who do not truly understand the purpose
of sex, are perfectly happy to outsource
the difficult job.

On the other hand, well-meaning parents
who seek to discourage premarital sex
might simply say: “Because I said so!” or
even, “Because God said it’s a sin!”
Others, feeling it is inevitable that their
child will have sex, may hand their son
or daughter a condom and tell them to
“be safe.”

In both scenarios, parents merely pass
along what they feel is right or what
others have told them—without ever
proving the truth for themselves.

By comiting to premarital sex you risk.....

1. The risk of disobeying God and letting Satan
get a foothold

The Bible, time after time tells us to flee sexual
sins. Why? Because it is a major strategy of the
devil to sabotage God's work on Earth.

2. The risk of shame

Premarital sex imputes a spiritual state of shame
that becomes a major weapon of Satan. God
forgives you, but you will still face the fruit of the
sin and you'll still be vulnerable to Satan's
whispering accusations on your worth as a
person and your value as an active individual.

3. The risk of sexual dysfunction

People spend millions of dollars to correct sexual
dysfunction through drugs and psychotherapy.
Why? Because they entered marriage with
unresolved sexual issues. For example, a man
may think that he will be free from the curse of
pornography once he gets married, only to find
that the problems are even more noticeable and
controlling.

4. The risk of placing your future children in
spiritual harm's way

The Bible clearly speaks of
the concept of generational sin. What you sow
(plant) spiritually may be reaped in the life of
your children. Break the power of Satan's curse.
Remain pure before God and you'll be
tenaciously guarding the future of the next
generation.
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5. The risk of depression

Those who participate in premarital sex
experience emotional damage that may lead to
an increased chance of mental depression and
emotional despair.

6. The risk of permanently damaging your
testimony as a Christian or Muslim

You'll never be able to honestly say, "I was a
virgin before I was married." You'll never be able
to live as an example of committed purity.

7. The risk of damaging the destiny of your
future marriage
There is no way that premarital sex of any kind
could be a plus for your future marriage. It only
causes suspicion, mistrust, and regret.

8. Risks of incurable disease

Imagine that you have found that one special
person with whom you want to share your life.

And now you are forced to break the news that
you have an incurable disease.
Even though such
diseases like herpes are generally not considered
life threatening, there are no cures.
Not only is it
incurable, it fills a life with worries, awkward
revelations, and continuous need for medication.
Herpes and other STD's are everywhere.

Why risk contracting an STD?

9. The risk of lost relationships

When you choose to develop a sexual
relationship with someone, you have immediately
changed the entire definition of the relationship.

God's intent was for a man and woman to enjoy
sex throughout the course of a lifetime. There is
no such thing as casual sex.
Once you have
developed a sexual relationship, that relationship
turns a critical corner. After the relationship
ends, you and your partner will experience the
guilt and pain of promises broken.

10. The risk of death
No one can deny that having sex before marriage
can have grave consequences.
disease like AIDS and its likes kills its victims.

The choice is yours...
Divorce is anoda pt,wen a lady is xposed 2sex b4 marriage she may not b satisfied by ha husband dere4 goin afta ha ex,same 4d guyz 2,dey tend 2 njoy som girls on d bed dan d oda.
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by eduxerxes: 10:39pm On Jan 10, 2015
Thos dudes borne out of wedlock don cause kasara for society like hell! (Guys and ladies, pls straf with care)
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by peeta4u(m): 10:40pm On Jan 10, 2015
Nice write-up, but sincerely, i can't marry someone I don't have sex with b4 marriage....

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by mulliga44(m): 10:53pm On Jan 10, 2015
SeverusSnape:
Yes!...I love this, I'm a proud virgin. smiley
If you are truly a virgin, what's the color of ur hymen?
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Gr8tasign: 10:53pm On Jan 10, 2015
Gud1 dear


It also attest to moral fiber of an individual.

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by That2: 10:56pm On Jan 10, 2015
All these boils down to religion. Apart from number one, two and four your so called spiritual bla bla all others applies to married couples. Not everyone is a christian or muslim. Stop viewing everything from your clouded religious point of view. Atheistic or irreligious societies dont care about all these. Guess what! The most religious part of the world, Africa and nigeria has highest STDs infected patients and unwanted pregnacy! Who are we decieving?

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Burger01(m): 10:59pm On Jan 10, 2015
See them forming virgins. Who's not a virgin? Even my grandmother is a virginundecided

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jan 10, 2015
Those biitchy girls won't comment!!
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jan 10, 2015
Knucklehead, marriage doesnt stop these physical things from happening if u are careless.
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by rottable(m): 11:08pm On Jan 10, 2015
condom and postenor are our protector

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Movesz(m): 11:11pm On Jan 10, 2015
NO FEMALE VIRGIN HERE?


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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by factorial1(m): 11:32pm On Jan 10, 2015
Comment Ratio: Guys to Ladies = 8 : 1,
hmm... this world!

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Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Wolexdey(m): 11:33pm On Jan 10, 2015
Very encouraging...Please keep it up.

Kudos
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by pseudonomer: 11:44pm On Jan 10, 2015
Virgin Till Marriage... But what if I get married to a...
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by valdes00(m): 11:58pm On Jan 10, 2015
As truthful as dis write-up is, it can't change my mind bout sex b4 marriage...... I can't jus waste my money lik dat on them witout return...... Wetin concern me
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by LewisO: 12:02am On Jan 11, 2015
juitar:
Divorce is anoda pt,wen a lady is xposed 2sex b4 marriage she may not b satisfied by ha husband dere4 goin afta ha ex,same 4d guyz 2,dey tend 2 njoy som girls on d bed dan d oda.
Just imaging the way u spo.it the thread for (op) with all that quoting! grin

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