leo083:
Hello @amsynord... Had similar issues in the past , it all boils downto some factors, I grew up in ilorin to and went to unilorin, I could well relate to your issues well. Though left ilorin about 7yrs now but still go there quite often, .... From Honeymoon, to Cocacola to victory to. KH to opposite KH, enigma, to bekandims(eclipse) to prince palace and henry george in adewole...We rocked it.. These places might have changed cos its been a while..U can mail me.we can go thru this together. jayone4real@yahoo.com

kilokeys:

. when u wanna win a soul. u lead them in d way of truth.. not just tell them about giving their lives to christ without follow up.

u approach mildly

ABEngine:
You wouldn't know what it feels like fighting an addiction because your conscience hasn't condemned them yet. Addictions vary from candies to hard drugs.

I had this friend that could kill to get the latest fashion accessory and she had a particular affinity for handbags. Yes she suffered grossly when she lost her job and couldn't fit in properly anymore.

Dear OP, I leave in the real world, despite the fact my intuition tells of an advertorial up there but for the sake of the war I would suggest you find an alternate chore to occupy those times the cravings are likely to reoccur. Avoid whatever situation or location that could trigger a craving.

dechandel:
You are wrong!!
Having sex at what age again is right??
There is nothing like self control for him.. He needs to add self control to the list of things needed for his revival
Peeps dont have sex for years and they still do better. You see the problem with the op now? He needs therapy!! And he should get broke for some time. Lets see if he will sleep around on credit

kilokeys:
personally i feel u are bored. monotonous lifestyle.
ever-available cash, and living religion-deprived life.

u are searching for something.. me and know it isnt orgasm.. and its definitely not hidden inside there.

Get ur grooves on. according to Maslow's hierarchy of needs..
u rnt hungry
u rnt broke
u have security
u have a sense of belonging

u are stuck between ur self esteem, self actualization phase and self transcendence

if u still collect cash from folks at 27.. ur esteem is surely bruised

then, do u love ur job? , why r u working? what else would u likely do? thats for self actualization

then self transcendence is the need for spirituality.. to understand something bigger than urself, getting closer to God. a sense of higher purpose..

Iamsynord:
I consider it pretty much necessary right
now as I can't continue living this way and I
need u guys to help me out. I am 27 yrs old,
a banker in one of the leading banks in
Nigeria. I also own a business of my own,
but I am seemingly addicted to sleeping
with prostitutes.
You might like to call it
"Aristos", "Rungirls", "Oloshos" or what have
you. I had always lived in Abuja and in
Abuja you would rather pay than keep. But
this is killing me right now as I cannot even
save reasonably.
This ill habit started about 11yrs ago when I
was about writing WAEC, my friend & I went
to a neighboring brothel pretending we
wanted to buy ice cream as we both knew
pretty well such is never sold in a place like
that.
We just wanted to satisfy our curiosity
about prostitutes, see them and stuff like
that. But here I am today I have graduated
to the highest class of prostitutes "aristos".
It is as bad as sleeping with a girl for N
30,000 per night & this I do almost once in
every week.
I can hardly save N 200,000 in my acct, as I
have parents that still give me money, so I
particularly don't do anything with my
salary. Worse still I have a girlfriend & my
girlfriend says we can't have sex until we
get married. She doesn't know I patronize
aristos though.
My greatest fear at the
moment is if I don't desist from this I might
never get a life of my own. Am good looking,
drive a good car, very caring, energetic,
down to earth, with a good sense of humour
yet I keep patronizing aristos. Please I need
your help.

Unibenstudent:
Hmmm,girls been draining guys money since the time of creation of Eve..

Richiy:


Didn't you see the part where he willingly lets go of his money in exchange for sex?

folabayo1:
Abeg wetin be konji??

Midecuc:
I will always advice any lady who is denying her guy Sex that she is doing the worse thing on earth to herself.

showafrica:
I saw this story in 2012...how come it's surfacing again and you are still 27yrs since then. Something is fishy here

9jatatafo:
Guy, I feel your pain but to be realistic why pay as much as 30k per night for just garnishing olosho a night? You are a man, make up you mind and stop patronizing ashi. I will advice that you look for a very decent girl as a side chick and be bleeping her on coded basis since you have a main girl to marry. My other worry for you and your girl who you intend marrying is this, fronm what you wrote above, you are very sexually active and I hope if you later get married to that your girl who said no-sex before marriage, will she be able to tame your high sex drive? I hope two of you will be compactible because I read here on NL how a lady complained about her husband that the guy constantly raped her because they never bleep before getting married. Guy living life of fantasy, you are a man now and live responsibly. I hope you stop that ill habit of garnishing and bleeping road side nurse (ashi). I rest my case bro.

Iamsynord:
I consider it pretty much necessary right
now as I can't continue living this way and I
need u guys to help me out. I am 27 yrs old,
a banker in one of the leading banks in
Nigeria. I also own a business of my own,
but I am seemingly addicted to sleeping
with prostitutes.
You might like to call it
"Aristos", "Rungirls", "Oloshos" or what have
you. I had always lived in Abuja and in
Abuja you would rather pay than keep. But
this is killing me right now as I cannot even
save reasonably.
This ill habit started about 11yrs ago when I
was about writing WAEC, my friend & I went
to a neighboring brothel pretending we
wanted to buy ice cream as we both knew
pretty well such is never sold in a place like
that.
We just wanted to satisfy our curiosity
about prostitutes, see them and stuff like
that. But here I am today I have graduated
to the highest class of prostitutes "aristos".
It is as bad as sleeping with a girl for N
30,000 per night & this I do almost once in
every week.
I can hardly save N 200,000 in my acct, as I
have parents that still give me money, so I
particularly don't do anything with my
salary. Worse still I have a girlfriend & my
girlfriend says we can't have sex until we
get married. She doesn't know I patronize
aristos though.
My greatest fear at the
moment is if I don't desist from this I might
never get a life of my own. Am good looking,
drive a good car, very caring, energetic,
down to earth, with a good sense of humour
yet I keep patronizing aristos. Please I need
your help.

Iamsynord:
I consider it pretty much necessary right
now as I can't continue living this way and I
need u guys to help me out. I am 27 yrs old,
a banker in one of the leading banks in
Nigeria. I also own a business of my own,
but I am seemingly addicted to sleeping
with prostitutes.
You might like to call it
"Aristos", "Rungirls", "Oloshos" or what have
you. I had always lived in Abuja and in
Abuja you would rather pay than keep. But
this is killing me right now as I cannot even
save reasonably.
This ill habit started about 11yrs ago when I
was about writing WAEC, my friend & I went
to a neighboring brothel pretending we
wanted to buy ice cream as we both knew
pretty well such is never sold in a place like
that.
We just wanted to satisfy our curiosity
about prostitutes, see them and stuff like
that. But here I am today I have graduated
to the highest class of prostitutes "aristos".
It is as bad as sleeping with a girl for N
30,000 per night & this I do almost once in
every week.
I can hardly save N 200,000 in my acct, as I
have parents that still give me money, so I
particularly don't do anything with my
salary. Worse still I have a girlfriend & my
girlfriend says we can't have sex until we
get married. She doesn't know I patronize
aristos though.
My greatest fear at the
moment is if I don't desist from this I might
never get a life of my own. Am good looking,
drive a good car, very caring, energetic,
down to earth, with a good sense of humour
yet I keep patronizing aristos. Please I need
your help.

Nneka123:
i Don't really understand is he actually telling us his problem or showcasing his wealth kinda, i mean (Nneka, shut up jor) anyway, just see a therapist to help you fight the urge

atmy:
op am in the same shoes, mine is probably worse than yours cos some times I don't sleep at home for 4 days at a stretch, banging oloshos overnight. am overdoing it, so I. concluded that I am sick but the addiction is difficult to stop. I have left my high paying job in Lagos to live for a while in a more quiet city but I just realized I've only gained access to cheaper hookers. God I hate myself!