So I have this girl. That's super jealous and gets annoyed easily.

Now here is a short story so u understand .

Am that kinda guy. That believes girls are not needed in my life especially since am still hustling.

But being ur typical extrovert. I have lots of friends. Both male and female.
And am very popular in my school (S.U.G PRO) and a bit okay pocket wisely.

So I happened to like this girl. Who is very intelligent. We started dating.
But its 1 months we started dating. And this is the fourth time we are quarelling. For the same thing she was aware abt before we started dating.

She doesn't want to see me around female friends anymore.

The last one we are quarrelling for now. Is that I uploaded a pics of my friend and gave her a shout out.

What do I. I wanted to break up with her. As I don't have time for childish behaviours.

What's ur advice please

U too get annoyed easily.

If u want to break up, pls break

What u have is a delicate issue dats if u love dis gal. Every gal wants to be incharge, dats their nature. But u have to stand ur ground and let her know dat u love her and nothing wud make u cheat on her but u must have female friends . Prove this point times without number or u wud become a slave

dump her

5naira:
ask apc

Olodo ni ehn.

Break up since u already know that u don't need her abi relationship na by force?

Ok

#bakfromban

Op, your case is very critical....

You like to think you don't need girls

But you like this girl

Now you are committed, the poor girl has fallen for you, and is trying to protect her investment. And you are now feeling like a Chairman.

You don't have time for 'Childish behaviors', and want to break up with her.

Please answer the following questions.... All of them carry equal marks.

Question 1- Are you gay?

Question 2- If you can't handle jealousy, why the hell are you in a relationship?

Question 3- You seem to have already made up your mind to break up with her, so what's the purpose of this thread ?

Question 4- Why is your diction and punctuation this bad?.... Doesn't your school offer any English language General courses?

5naira:
ask apc

haha...u 1 politicize this thread abi...

MizMyColi:
OP
Clearly you're not ready for a relationship, so why string her along?
Why do you date?
Do you date because you earnestly desire to love someone ideally or because it's a badge of warrefa to you?
From your post, you clearly aren't cut out for relationships, do her a favour and let her know the stance of your mind.
I agree that most times we ladies act irrationally, but given the scenario you put up above, I doubt any lady who genuinely wants a life with you would wanna put up with that.
It'll take a deliberate lady, one who has made a very strong conscious decision not to let her emotions get the better part of her to bear that.
In the end, this is just a case of selfishness on your part and lack of good judgement on hers.

I really love ur input madam. Truth be told. I love her. And have cut down excessively on keeping female friends. But considering my status. And extrovert nature. Girls must always stick around na. Moreover the girl I gave shout out to has been my friend for 2 years now.

Moreover she knew about me b4 we started dating.

You never date before ni.. If a girl gets jealous because of you, consider yourself lucky.













In other news, vote Buhari come FeBuhari 14 and she'll never get annoyed easily again

Op is not ready for relationship and secondly from ur post am not sure if u are even treating her d way she should b treated
Bros abeg tell d girl ur mind
u are giving dat girl sleepless nights without knowing how much of emotional pains she is going through

ronald4lif:
Methink you are not doing enough to make her trust and feel secure around you. She may be over-doing things but you can't blame a girl, in love, for getting jealous seeing different ladies flock around you or do you? Now man up and work on your relationship, first by gaining her trust to the best level you can and then also endeavour to reduce the way you flex with girls. When the trust is on an optimal level she may not even care about the girls who surrounds you anymore.

Your relationship is still too young to be contemplating on quiting, except of course there's no more love between you.

Hm Love Doctor, Bravo!

Nairaland:
You never date before ni.. If a girl gets jealous because of you, consider yourself lucky.
In other news, vote Buhari come FeBuhari 14 and she'll never get annoyed easily again

No. Never had the time jare.

Nairaland:
You never date before ni.. If a girl gets jealous because of you, consider yourself lucky.















[i]In other news, vote Buhari come FeBuhari 14 and she'll never get annoyed easily again

Sai Buhari! Change2015!!!

Eiyah she likes u wella ....She dosent want to Loose U ....if she starts her wahala jez get a Chair , sit down nd start looking @ her face to face ...nd jez be nodding ur head ...na she go tire

TrishaP:

Hm Love Doctor, Bravo!

Many thanks. Sure you know where I derive inspiration from na

ronald4lif:


Many thanks. Sure you know where I derive inspiration from na

Tell me something

TrishaP:

Tell me something

From her - 'God's gift'. Try translating to your local lingua for better comprehension hehe

Break up with her.

InZA:
Break up with her.

Okay boss.

ronald4lif:


From her - 'God's gift'. Try translating to your local lingua for better comprehension hehe

I Gerrit!

ddeston:
So I have this girl. That's super jealous and gets annoyed easily.

Now here is a short story so u understand .

Am that kinda guy. That believes girls are not needed in my life especially since am still hustling.

But being ur typical extrovert. I have lots of friends. Both male and female.
And am very popular in my school (S.U.G PRO) and a bit okay pocket wisely.

So I happened to like this girl. Who is very intelligent. We started dating.
But its 1 months we started dating. And this is the fourth time we are quarelling. For the same thing she was aware abt before we started dating.

She doesn't want to see me around female friends anymore.

The last one we are quarrelling for now. Is that I uploaded a pics of my friend and gave her a shout out.

What do I. I wanted to break up with her. As I don't have time for childish behaviours.

What's ur advice please

see wahala oooo!!! Break up na, who hold u b4? Were u expecting us to tell you otherwise? Do d needful and breakup b4 tomorrow morning

sexyseun:
see wahala oooo!!! Break up na, who hold u b4? Were u expecting us to tell you otherwise? Do d needful and breakup b4 tomorrow morning

You dy find attention na. If u don't have anything to say. Kindly bounce off.

sexyseun:
see wahala oooo!!! Break up na, who hold u b4? Were u expecting us to tell you otherwise? Do d needful and breakup b4 tomorrow morning

It's night.


Stop shouting.

Rubbish! Some people are blaming the op for his girlfriend childish behavior, so because you are dating her you have to get rid of your female friends when you guys get married nko you will not have female visitors or talk to your female friends and colleagues. Jealousy is allowed but over jealousy is bad really bad everything has to be balanced, sit your girlfriend ass down talk to her about what her behavior towards your female friends is causing you, base on your nature and post PRO for that matter, is like preventing OLISA METUH and Lia Muhammad from relating with female members of PDP and APC. After talking with her and she refuse to change dump her and get another girl, from the indication you are not going to marry her with this altitude and you don't have to compromise your nature for a girl that may dump you in the future. She is lucky she is not dating me cus I have more female friends than male friends which means na fight we go de fight everyday. Like the popular saying anything that happen in the university ends at the exit gate @op use your number six.

That girl is not worth a hair from a man's balls man! Break the 4k up or u die of high blood pressure!