eyeview:
My advice is simple. Do you want to be having sex with her? Marry her. Do the noble thing,go to her father's house and with your people do the necessary marriage rites. It is also necessary that you put a ring around her finger and walk her down the isle. If you don't want to do those,please let her go. She is somebody's daughter

ur so harsh oooso somebody's daughter doesn't have sex

Mathematical:
Sex ,sex,sex,...must you have sex with her?its obvious you don't want her,you just want to have her cookies..all iz well with You.....

mummy no vex

Wife her and U wuld chop the food u are looking for ...Since Sex is now a food

xynerise:

Ora'l sex? Nah! Trust me that can lead him to rapi'ng her. Kpekus and mouth are different wella


@ op. If you can't hold sex again and you respect her principle, then do what you have to do to relief the "conjigal" pains and disorder you face daily. Get a side chic or probably seek advice from the Vaseline crew. On a serious note, I won't advise you to keep holding yourself because I know what you are going through and that will make me a Pharisee . Tell her the torture you are facing and if she insist on keeping her words, move to plan B

nice advice




although u cracked ma rib with ur 1st n 2nd sentence

Cutehector4u:
Let her catch you self servicing urself.loool maybe she wil allow u to hav sex wit her

hahahahahahahaha..wish i knew how to self service

xynerise:

Some agreement are sometimes made under duress, emotional duress in this context. My guy no wan lose the babe na

exactly

jomile:
wen u dey make d promise u no for once think say konji fit kill

una no go kill me...hhhhhahhahahahaahabahahababbhah

naijaboiy:

Easier said than done!

Like I said before he shouldn't force her.

But it's not bad if he applies some seduction...if she refuses then he should know that she's strong on her stance.

I guess that's the solution the Op is looking for but nobody is giving it to him,,rather he's being bashed.

......she is de DON'T TOUCH MY ONSHORE N OFFSHORE type

kaycexx:
As hard as finding dy/dx

Tell her ther advantages of sex and also the disadvantages, but back up your points with protection after telling her the disavantages.

Tell her y u will want to have sex with her even go ahead quoting the bible '' sex brings abond between the two people'' buh dats for married people buh it brings a bond.

Tell her how much you love her sats why u don't want to force her, promise her you won't leave her e.t.c

But Dat's how some girls we start saying team virgin until marriage and end up been lesbians..... SMH

sooo right....Thanks

agoadiv:
wonderful nairalands,i just wanna go straight to the point...

av been dating dis gurl for sometimes now.before she accepted me,she told me to promise her dat if we get to date dat sex is outta de booki didn't promise but i rada promised her that i won't try sex until she agrees to it...and am de kind of guy that u can hold me by my word..



now i nid sex from her and i nid it like seriously and de vexation am passing through is dat when we have a heated conversation abt sex,at last wen am getting angry she just say 'NO SEX N REMEMBER, U WON'T FORCE ME TO DO IT' ....in my house ooo...







pls how do i convince her?do i force her?cos she comes to ma house regularly or do i just..............go with ur ideas??

I think U have two options:

1. Walk away, except u like a sexless relationship.

2. Get a fucck-mate to release d sexual tension while u keep her as a gist-mate. If I were I wd stop bringing her to my house, she will get d message: "If u dont want sex, stop coming to ma house! We can always hang out."

Lubbish!

obongproff:


I think U have two options:

1. Walk away, except u like a sexless relationship.

2. Get a fucck-mate to release d sexual tension while u keep her as a gist-mate. If I were I wd stop bringing her to my house, she will get d message: "If u dont want sex, stop coming to ma house! We can always hang out."

Lubbish!

thanks bro

maybe she want to keep her virginity till u guys get married, so respect her decision

Dude be wise ni... I'm sure dah gurl de chop somewhere else jhor... She de ping pong you...

Bros.. D same tin happen to me..I serve this Beb 4 about 9 months. she refused to have sex wit me....I was patient enough to cajole and talk sense into her...Now am enjoying d fruit of my labour .
na just to dey Kolobi

agoadiv:
bro u knw naija babes naaa...AM A VIRGIN

Engrpj:
Bros.. D same tin happen to me..I serve this Beb 4 about 9 months. she refused to have sex wit me....I was patient enough to cajole and talk sense into her...Now am enjoying d fruit of my labour .
na just to dey Kolobi

hahahahahahahahaha no b smal fruit of ur labour

My candid advice is this; sex is not the ultimate and besides pre-marital sex is a sin. Whatever her reasons are, you should respect it. Limit the number of times both of you stay alone, you too can spend time outdoor. That she is ready does not make pre-marital sex right. Rather learn the art of self-control, you have everything to gain. Goodluck.

agoadiv:
wonderful nairalands,i just wanna go straight to the point...

av been dating dis gurl for sometimes now.before she accepted me,she told me to promise her dat if we get to date dat sex is outta de booki didn't promise but i rada promised her that i won't try sex until she agrees to it...and am de kind of guy that u can hold me by my word..



now i nid sex from her and i nid it like seriously and de vexation am passing through is dat when we have a heated conversation abt sex,at last wen am getting angry she just say 'NO SEX N REMEMBER, U WON'T FORCE ME TO DO IT' ....in my house ooo...







pls how do i convince her?do i force her?cos she comes to ma house regularly or do i just..............go with ur ideas??

Lol, shame on you. Don't you have something else to do? Others are working hard and you're here thinking about going to bed with a woman.

Lol, i will certainly cut off your dicck. Well, to answer your question, she feels it's not yet time to sleep with you. She wants a possible relationship to marriage and so, wouldn't want to jeopardize it.

Treat her good and talk about marriage and future kids with her being mom. While you're dad

Introduce her to your family, if you have a sister, it's an added advantage. Let her get together with your family and she'll give it to you naturally. Please you can only do all these if you're thinking of tying the knot with this chick later. But if you don't want to, do not go far with her. Just let her go if you can't control your sexual urge.

Hope my advice helps.

zick19:
force her, she will enjoy as soon as ur joystick has been connected to her cpu bt no be me give u d idea ooo

In one word that's RAPE!!!!!! Wicked Soul

give her weed

agoadiv:
wonderful nairalands,i just wanna go straight to the point...

av been dating dis gurl for sometimes now.before she accepted me,she told me to promise her dat if we get to date dat sex is outta de booki didn't promise but i rada promised her that i won't try sex until she agrees to it...and am de kind of guy that u can hold me by my word..



now i nid sex from her and i nid it like seriously and de vexation am passing through is dat when we have a heated conversation abt sex,at last wen am getting angry she just say 'NO SEX N REMEMBER, U WON'T FORCE ME TO DO IT' ....in my house ooo...







pls how do i convince her?do i force her?cos she comes to ma house regularly or do i just..............go with ur ideas??

Rape her na!
Na so e grip you reach!

Mtssheeeew!

The girl must be a real fool not to have run for her life by now.

if you truly love her you won't force or break her.

sexyseun:
In one word that's RAPE!!!!!! Wicked Soul

seun,ur pic alone can make a guy rape u n leta u call him wicked

jemimaa01:
force her ....if u want sex from her that bad then u shld put a ring on it,that should do d trick,and if u aren't goin to do that,then guy u just have to chill till she comes around...afterall you were aware of the no sex stance before you two started out...

btw,sex is overrated...don't overpush it...

which 1 u dey talk sef, force am, no overpush am, e dey overrated?

fejioguma:
if you truly love her you won't force or break her.

why?

You date a gal who clearly told you no sex. The best thing for you to do is to strip nak.end in front of her every time she visits... Get a load of soap and jerk off in front of her like there's no tomorrow.

You date a gal who clearly told you no sex and you're here to complain? What do you think naira land is for? To moan about your failures?

Remember if you rape her.. A possible jail term awaits you. Do the needful and leave the relationship or you may find yourself in far worse trouble.

Your gf is d one dat needs advice
She needs to stay away from you before you rape her.

kaycexx:
As hard as finding dy/dx

Tell her ther advantages of sex and also the disadvantages, but back up your points with protection after telling her the disavantages.

Tell her y u will want to have sex with her even go ahead quoting the bible '' sex brings abond between the two people'' buh dats for married people buh it brings a bond.

Tell her how much you love her sats why u don't want to force her, promise her you won't leave her e.t.c

But Dat's how some girls we start saying team virgin until marriage and end up been lesbians..... SMH

hmmmmm.....this is somewhat misleading

Clarakings:
My candid advice is this; sex is not the ultimate and besides pre-marital sex is a sin. Whatever her reasons are, you should respect it. Limit the number of times both of you stay alone, you too can spend time outdoor. That she is ready does not make pre-marital sex right. Rather learn the art of self-control, you have everything to gain. Goodluck.

very well said

chidyhels:
Your gf is d one dat needs advice
She needs to stay away from you before you rape her.

see,did i tell u i was a rapist? no just vex me ooo

blublahd:

which 1 u dey talk sef, force am, no overpush am, e dey overrated?

I mean dont force her now,I was just surprised that he even considered it,hence my smileys.....then I meant sex is definitely overrated so he shouldn't make it seem like the end of the world because she's saying no...I hope u now understand

Konji is a bastard... But girls why una dey do us like dis as if una knw dey enjoy am SMH... Dude agbeg free de girl one day de tin go hold de girl na she go dey beg....