angelsing:
Must u have sex with her?....Would have love to teach u the best way to go about making her consent to having sex with u but it will be a bad thing for me to do that because its not right...wait for her till she is ready

elantraceey:
If you know you can't keep up with no sex then why did you go on with the relationship




naija guys deceiving themselves since 190ad

Probably because he saw other things in her beyond sex.

It doesn't make him not to want it later on in the relationship.

There is nothing like self-deceit there

angelsing:
Must u have sex with her?...Ever had of MouthAction?...Would have love to teach u the best way to go about making her consent to having sex but it will be a bad thing for me to do that because its not right...why not practice MouthAction till she is ready

xynerise:

Ora'l sex? Nah! Trust me that can lead him to rapi'ng her. Kpekus and mouth are different wella


@ op. If you can't hold sex again and you respect her principle, then do what you have to do to relief the "conjigal" pains and disorder you face daily. Get a side chic or probably seek advice from the Vaseline crew. On a serious note, I won't advise you to keep holding yourself because I know what you are going through and that will make me a Pharisee . Tell her the torture you and facing and if she insist on keeping her words, move to plan B ;-X

I agree with you jare!

Op if you no fit hold am simply stick to your words and look for sex elsewhere.

No be me talk am o

naijaboiy:

Probably because he saw other things in her beyond sex.

It doesn't make him not to want it later on in the relationship.

There is nothing like self-deceit there

TrishaP:
Coming to your house is enough to put you in such a compromising position. Maybe you should start changing your mindset about getting it bcus you've agreed to the conditions already.

zick19:
force her, she will enjoy as soon as ur joystick has been connected to her cpu bt no be me give u d idea ooo

naijaboiy:

I agree with you jare!

Op if you no fit hold am simply stick to your words and look for sex elsewhere.

No be me talk am o

elantraceey:



Then he should break up with her since he can't keep up instead of trying to lure her into something she doesn't want to do.

elantraceey:



Then he should break up with her since he can't keep up instead of trying to lure her into something she doesn't want to do.

Easier said than done!

Like I said before he shouldn't force her.

But it's not bad if he applies some seduction...if she refuses then he should know that she's strong on her stance.

I guess that's the solution the Op is looking for but nobody is giving it to him,,rather he's being bashed.

xynerise:

Not cool. There is a primary and secondary purpose of going into a relationship with someone.


I think there is now a tertiary purpose

xynerise:

I no blame the guy jare . The level of conji don increase these days. Who else observed that?

Me sef no blame am o!

Konji no be easy thing these days. I dey very sure say the guy no dey ein right senses when he agree to date her without sex.

Now the thing don hold am

Mathematical:
you're preaching the act of rape
Do you pray for such to happen to yah lil sister..

Mathematical:
what's the tertiary purpose?

naijaboiy:

Me sef no blame am o!

Konji no be easy thing these days. I dey very sure say the guy no dey ein right senses when he agree to date her without sex.

Now the thing don hold am