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5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Nobody: 9:36am On Feb 23, 2015
These 5
suggestions might help you get to the point where you want
to work things out with your current spouse, or they will help
you in your next relationship. Either way, this advice is worth
the read.


1: Make time to connect lovingly with your spouse
every day.


A couple can significantly improve their chances
of marital success by devoting as little as 15 minutes a day
exclusively to each other. For instance, you could wake up a
little earlier, and spend the extra time in bed cuddling,
making love, and reaffirming your love for each other. Take
time every day to have meaningful conversations with each
other; to listen with the same intensity as when you were
dating; to touch, hug, and show affection; to tell each other
how you feel about your marriage; and to talk about your
goals for the marriage and your lives.


2: Compliment your spouse regularly—both in
private and in front of others.


Even if your partner
seems embarrassed or shrugs it off at first, the glow from
sincere praise lasts a long time.

3: Love your spouse in the way he/she wants to be
loved.


We often make the mistake of assuming that the
things that touch our hearts the most deeply will affect our
partner in the same way. For instance, you may think red
roses are the perfect gift, but to your spouse, they represent
a waste of money and an allergy attack. If you don't already
know, find out what your spouse yearns for, and then deliver
it with love—and no comments about how "stupid" it is to
want a cordless drill/a picnic on the living room floor/a tuna
casserole. Remember: the best gift is something your
spouse wants—not merely something you want him/her to
have.


4: Take care of your appearance. Look your best for
your spouse.


Lose the ratty sweat pants or frayed sweater
he/she hates so much; you can find other comfortable
clothes that aren't a complete turn-off for your partner. This
also means taking care of your health—including eating
properly and exercising regularly.

5: say 'I love you' every time
This is especially important when you're not feeling the sensation of love at these times.
Saying does those 3 words will constantly remind both of you of your inner most feelings


Composed---by---samflexxy
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by alberto2k(m): 9:37am On Feb 23, 2015
Incase
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Viktoh(m): 9:41am On Feb 23, 2015
alberto2k:
Incase
grin .. I catch you, nd u dae abuse me d oda dae
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Omexonomy: 9:42am On Feb 23, 2015
Sombody who is not yet marry is giving advice to married people.
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by xynerise: 9:42am On Feb 23, 2015
Tell that to our celebrities
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Nobody: 9:48am On Feb 23, 2015
When you have a stubborn and disobedient spouse you will forget all these. The only thing you will remember is divorce.
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Akkord4gov: 9:51am On Feb 23, 2015
Sighted
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Nobody: 9:52am On Feb 23, 2015
Omexonomy:
Sombody who is not yet marry is giving advice to married people.
oya come and sue me na
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Nobody: 9:53am On Feb 23, 2015
xynerise:
Tell that to our celebrities
oya connect me with them
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by xynerise: 10:03am On Feb 23, 2015
samflexxy:
oya connect me with them
You are already connected. Just edit your topic and indicate "to celebrities" on it
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by alberto2k(m): 10:07am On Feb 23, 2015
Viktoh:
grin .. I catch you, nd u dae abuse me d oda dae

No vess Oga...

Na S.ban hire me to book fertile land for their weed plantation grin
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Samiceman: 10:43am On Feb 23, 2015
We are marching on to FP--------->

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