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5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Nobody: 9:36am On Feb 23, 2015 |
These 5 suggestions might help you get to the point where you want to work things out with your current spouse, or they will help you in your next relationship. Either way, this advice is worth the read. 1: Make time to connect lovingly with your spouse every day. A couple can significantly improve their chances of marital success by devoting as little as 15 minutes a day exclusively to each other. For instance, you could wake up a little earlier, and spend the extra time in bed cuddling, making love, and reaffirming your love for each other. Take time every day to have meaningful conversations with each other; to listen with the same intensity as when you were dating; to touch, hug, and show affection; to tell each other how you feel about your marriage; and to talk about your goals for the marriage and your lives. 2: Compliment your spouse regularly—both in private and in front of others. Even if your partner seems embarrassed or shrugs it off at first, the glow from sincere praise lasts a long time. 3: Love your spouse in the way he/she wants to be loved. We often make the mistake of assuming that the things that touch our hearts the most deeply will affect our partner in the same way. For instance, you may think red roses are the perfect gift, but to your spouse, they represent a waste of money and an allergy attack. If you don't already know, find out what your spouse yearns for, and then deliver it with love—and no comments about how "stupid" it is to want a cordless drill/a picnic on the living room floor/a tuna casserole. Remember: the best gift is something your spouse wants—not merely something you want him/her to have. 4: Take care of your appearance. Look your best for your spouse. Lose the ratty sweat pants or frayed sweater he/she hates so much; you can find other comfortable clothes that aren't a complete turn-off for your partner. This also means taking care of your health—including eating properly and exercising regularly. 5: say 'I love you' every time This is especially important when you're not feeling the sensation of love at these times. Saying does those 3 words will constantly remind both of you of your inner most feelings Composed---by---samflexxy |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by alberto2k(m): 9:37am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Incase |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Viktoh(m): 9:41am On Feb 23, 2015 |
alberto2k:.. I catch you, nd u dae abuse me d oda dae |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Omexonomy: 9:42am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Sombody who is not yet marry is giving advice to married people. |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by xynerise: 9:42am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Tell that to our celebrities |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Nobody: 9:48am On Feb 23, 2015 |
When you have a stubborn and disobedient spouse you will forget all these. The only thing you will remember is divorce. |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Akkord4gov: 9:51am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Sighted |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Nobody: 9:52am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Omexonomy:oya come and sue me na |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Nobody: 9:53am On Feb 23, 2015 |
xynerise:oya connect me with them |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by xynerise: 10:03am On Feb 23, 2015 |
samflexxy:You are already connected. Just edit your topic and indicate "to celebrities" on it |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by alberto2k(m): 10:07am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Viktoh: No vess Oga... Na S.ban hire me to book fertile land for their weed plantation |
Re: 5 Ways To Avoid Divorce In A Marriage by Samiceman: 10:43am On Feb 23, 2015 |
We are marching on to FP---------> |
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