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Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by frankmoney(m): 8:38am On Feb 26, 2015
1. Talk about their Exes in any grave detail.

What you may think is just taking a curious
general interest in their past dating lives will come
off as prying. Sure we would like to know if she
was the crazy, psychotic, jealous one and he is
still Prince Charming like we have imagined but
there are smarter ways to come to these
conclusions than interrogation tactics. Do the right
thing and stalk them on Facebook.

2. Don’t wear giant heels.
He expected you on the date, not the Jolly Green
Giant.

3. . Show TOO much skin.
My mother always said, “You need to leave some
things a mystery,” which I agree with to a point.
However, I am absolutely PRO cleavage. “If you got it flaunt it,”
BUT what you don’t want is a
wardrobe malfunction over appetizers. Too much
too soon.

4.Act like you’re on a job interview.
Stop thinking so much. If you are nervous and
awkward your date will then feel nervous and
awkward. Relax. It is supposed to be a date not a
strangers version of 20 questions.

5.Whine or Complain.
If your shoes made your feet hurt, if you have had
to pee for two hours, if you have suffered 48
mosquito bites from what was meant to be a
romantic outdoor stroll – you let out that anger
via text to your best friend and spare the new guy
the drama. Even if they are valid excuses to
complain, it is going to come off as a red flag that
this chick is a lot of work.

6. Have sex.
I realize you may be tempted. I realize you may
have disregarded rule No. 1 and you are now on
drink five and anything really seems like a good
idea. If you like the guy and he likes you he will be
back. Why take the chance giving it up on date
one without seeing if he actually likes you or if he
just likes the idea of sleeping with you.
In other words: “Don’t have sex, because you will
get pregnant. And die. Don’t have sex in the
missionary position, don’t have sex standing up,
just don’t do it.”

meanwhile happy birthday to me !!!!!!! #dancing shoki
Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Mynd44: 8:41am On Feb 26, 2015
Someone who likes you likes you.

Stop putting these terms and conditions into dating abeg

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Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Caseless: 8:48am On Feb 26, 2015
Do all of the above on a first date, it doesn't matter as long as i'm going to get what I want at the end of the day.
Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Nobody: 9:27am On Feb 26, 2015
Noted....
Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by zyzxx(m): 9:32am On Feb 26, 2015
Don't eat too much
Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Nobody: 9:39am On Feb 26, 2015
cool
Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by frankmoney(m): 9:55am On Feb 26, 2015
Mynd44:
Someone who likes you likes you.

Stop putting these terms and conditions into dating abeg
This are just etiquettes and not terms and conditions
Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Mynd44: 9:58am On Feb 26, 2015
frankmoney:
This are just etiquettes and not terms and conditions
Yeah right
Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Samiceman: 10:15am On Feb 26, 2015
angry
Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by naijaboiy: 11:23am On Feb 26, 2015
Abegi undecided
Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by malonephill(m): 11:32am On Feb 26, 2015
Happy birthday
frankmoney:
1. Talk about their Exes in any grave detail.

What you may think is just taking a curious
general interest in their past dating lives will come
off as prying. Sure we would like to know if she
was the crazy, psychotic, jealous one and he is
still Prince Charming like we have imagined but
there are smarter ways to come to these
conclusions than interrogation tactics. Do the right
thing and stalk them on Facebook.

2. Don’t wear giant heels.
He expected you on the date, not the Jolly Green
Giant.

3. . Show TOO much skin.
My mother always said, “You need to leave some
things a mystery,” which I agree with to a point.
However, I am absolutely PRO cleavage. “If you got it flaunt it,”
BUT what you don’t want is a
wardrobe malfunction over appetizers. Too much
too soon.

4.Act like you’re on a job interview.
Stop thinking so much. If you are nervous and
awkward your date will then feel nervous and
awkward. Relax. It is supposed to be a date not a
strangers version of 20 questions.

5.Whine or Complain.
If your shoes made your feet hurt, if you have had
to pee for two hours, if you have suffered 48
mosquito bites from what was meant to be a
romantic outdoor stroll – you let out that anger
via text to your best friend and spare the new guy
the drama. Even if they are valid excuses to
complain, it is going to come off as a red flag that
this chick is a lot of work.

6. Have sex.
I realize you may be tempted. I realize you may
have disregarded rule No. 1 and you are now on
drink five and anything really seems like a good
idea. If you like the guy and he likes you he will be
back. Why take the chance giving it up on date
one without seeing if he actually likes you or if he
just likes the idea of sleeping with you.
In other words: “Don’t have sex, because you will
get pregnant. And die. Don’t have sex in the
missionary position, don’t have sex standing up,
just don’t do it.”

meanwhile happy birthday to me !!!!!!! #dancing shoki
Re: Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by lirusehn(m): 11:36am On Feb 26, 2015
AmALilgodSoDontQuoteMe:
we need a 'block button '
.


I wanna block some posters like this OP




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