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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 12:34am On Feb 28, 2015 |
steppin: You see your problem, when I mentioned inferiority complex. I meant it in relation to English Language. What if I did mess up English? My tutors have never complained so far about my essays and exams which by the way I take time to edit. You could be right though, maybe I should come back home but the thing UK is also my home. What do I do? |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by steppin: 12:39am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Justfollowit:Don't waste your time studying? You know the answer to the question you asked. I got a thick skin dear. Your sarcasm is noted. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Truckpusher(m): 12:39am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Justfollowit:Your shaft is another woman's gold and she's smarter than you. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 12:47am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Steppin already made the correction for me It is chaff and not shaft Lol Maybe Maybe not Yet you blame us, you just wrote on that an indecent woman maybe smarter than a decent one |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Truckpusher(m): 12:47am On Feb 28, 2015 |
donphilopus:Find out what? digging into a woman's past is like opening a Pandora's box. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Truckpusher(m): 12:51am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Justfollowit:Lol, I guess I got caught up with your own spelling and hit the same shiit. Back topic: by what standards do you measure a woman's decency, that one should be classified as indecent and another decent ? |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by donphilopus: 12:52am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Truckpusher: E dey give heart attack 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 12:52am On Feb 28, 2015 |
steppin: Really? My admission letter must have been mistakenly addressed to me. I must have cheated through my WAEC, IELTS and admission exams before I finally got to this university. Hmm, who could have known? Would you like to have my passport and my ID You know I can't leave them unused The benefits that come with it must be tapped. What do you suggest |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 12:53am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Truckpusher: A woman who is neither gullible nor indecisive |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Stallione(m): 12:56am On Feb 28, 2015 |
christinauju:absolute madness,ua just fooling urself,by the time u clock 40yrs,by special grace of God u've reached menopause,then u go know howfar,mtchewwwww!!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Truckpusher(m): 1:00am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Justfollowit:How many Islamic feminist active group do you have in the UK? Help me with the answers please . 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by socialwritter: 1:01am On Feb 28, 2015 |
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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 1:03am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Truckpusher: I don't know about any Islamic Feminist group. Do I sound like a feminist Why do you ask? |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by lockupman(m): 1:36am On Feb 28, 2015 |
4yrs and the guy is still hoping when another man is enjoying you. That guy needs to have his head examined. christinauju: 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Decryptor(m): 1:37am On Feb 28, 2015 |
christinauju: That "nigga" must be the most dumbest f.o.o.l that ever walked the planet. 4 precious years...they never born the girl wey I go toast for 4 weeks 3 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by lockupman(m): 1:42am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Haba! Are you that stingy? If he's your best friend, add some benefits na. christinauju: |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Decryptor(m): 1:47am On Feb 28, 2015 |
seedorfg: That is for ugly dudes like you 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 2:22am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Raiders: Say what..for what now..is she a drug undergoing preparations in the lab...lubbish 1 Like
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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Truckpusher(m): 2:59am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Justfollowit:Ok, but you sound like a closet feminist to me but what I can't figure out is how you intend to pull through with Islam on your neck like yoke. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 3:43am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Truckpusher: I am not a feminist I am a Yoruba African lass : I am also a Muslim Over the years I have realized that the reason we have issues with the position of women in the society is attributable to the West and its history. I know my rights in Islam and in my traditional Yoruba setting. Those are the rights I focus on. I believe the guy is the head of the family and the woman primary role is to maintain the home. In fact I don't mind being in a housewife for the sake of my family. My problem is when people fail to realize that these roles are very flexible with the type of society were are in. I may appear to be a feminist when I see men being inconsiderate because of a stereotypical view of women. Like the issue of polygamy, I hate being told that it is islamically acceptable do I have to agree to it when we all know it is not obligatory and God himself said the best is sticking to one wife. Yet some would see it as some sort of a birthright. Those kind of men to me are extremely selfish and I don't like extremely selfish people- to me they are simply not human. And I am more of a nature person (over nurture). I believe in the natural order of things and its consequences but of course with common sense. Therefore I wouldn't mind the death sentence for a rapist. Anything that directly or indirectly violates anyone's integrity should be subject to the absolute consequence. So tell me how can I be a feminist? |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by justmag(m): 3:52am On Feb 28, 2015 |
After I talk to her on day one. After that first convo. And that's it. Anything else is extra n pointless. 7 billion people in the world. 3 billion are women. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 4:33am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Truckpusher:My issue with African men is this argument ‘our mothers were sunmissive and so you have to be submissive' submission in their context is basically unrealistic. I believe in being a submissive wife but in that context. Have you ever died to examine the women roles over the years: In those days A new marriage starts with a young child/teen moving in with the wife, even at that they will not move into one big house. Rather they moved into a big family compounds filled with many wives, children and teens. Obviously, some house chores would be shared. They did not have everything in excess. Grinding with their hands does not count as a chore ( used to that almost every weekend before I left for UK-it wasn't a chore then). The only thing that counted was farming which is still subjective. The women contributed to the upkeep of the home though may not be in the same proportion. The women could travel miles to trade while leaving the husbands asking for weeks. When the colonial masters came, the men were mostly in employment- and the women took care of the home. Yet the practice of having a young family member or more was still the norm. And they did not have everything in excess. So where did the youths of today get the notion that their ‘foremothers' did everything without breaking a sweat? I will tell you where It was between after the colonial era and now Today, basically both parents work, 9am-5pm. Yet most men would say the woman should be responsible the 100% maintenance of the house with everything in excess because the guy contributes 100% to the upkeep of the house. That they she say is not submissive. If her job requires her to travel here and there, they will also say she considers her job to be more important than her family. Why can't we have that toe of family setting again? Why would the man contribute 100% of his income, what's up with the wife's? Why can't the wife ask habitually for her husband to help her out in the house of even allow him to choose what he would like to do? If all these reasonings make me a feminist, so be it then |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by onoja12: 5:20am On Feb 28, 2015 |
TAKE MY WORD FOR IT,THAT GUY HAS CHANGED HIS MIND,HIS STILL AFTER YOU JUST TO GET HIS POUND OF MEAT christinauju: 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by beordune(m): 5:27am On Feb 28, 2015 |
christinauju: Four years and you're not still convinced ... You wicked o, Na medicine the guy dey read for your life ni? . I pray his feelings for you doesn't become weak when you finally submit your heart to him. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Cutehector(m): 6:04am On Feb 28, 2015 |
christinauju:u r selfish! 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by craix(m): 7:54am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Menh...try be close to her like close friendship |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by yungest(m): 7:55am On Feb 28, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ:Abeg if u sight am holla me abeg.....d vexnation were guys wan tk 4low awoko ehh.. |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by harveyspec: 8:08am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Raiders: You made a mistake, firstly that was selfish on your part. Your action has revealed that the only reason you wanted to know her was to date her To know is to love & the best way to know someone is thru friendship & not relationship, because in friendship pretense is reduced compared to when one is in a relationship If she doesn't want to date you, remain friends with her, she might come around later, you might get another thru her or she might turn out to be a trusted, reliable friends with no strings attached |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by seedorfg(m): 8:17am On Feb 28, 2015 |
you a slowpoke @Decryptor |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 8:17am On Feb 28, 2015 |
humilitypays:God bless you sire. chai |
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by anigbajumo(m): 8:18am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Enegod:da comment z jst 4me.... |
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