im tired of hearing about WWW
we all need to know what men want in women
lets be realistic here.

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Hey its like this , U 've got players, U've got lovers and then U've got the HUSBAND Material. It depends at what point in a mans life u meet him.
When is a randy guy and wants to explore sew his wild oats( da Player) .
When he's trying to get serious with someone or the one but is un sure if she is the right one and has the tendecy to fool around once in awhile (the lover) .
And finally when he is sure she is the one and is Madly in love or has been knocked over the head and is ready to head to the altar

Trust me I know i'm a guy . Not to say there are a few that miss this rule

SEX, SEX, AND MORE SEX

a LovePeddler in bed  , a French chef in the kitchen  , a 'cleaning' company in the house    and if that is not bad enough a device whose sound can be switched on/off at will  .

Sorry sis', but let the truth be told.

@ ugwumba

@ Busta, the truth, only the truth!!!

they want a woman with brains & beauty
don't they as a matter of fact
i will answer that yes they do
one like me. hhaa haaa hhaaaaa i got yah all

For every man who really wants a woman with brains (like i have), there are 9 who don't give a sh*t and would gladly settle for beauty (and some quiet).

Do the math, and pitch your tent where the numbers are.

Ugwumba im so lost
what was that again

@ Busta - about the fact that i love women with brains?

i just laid down the facts first - i am a 'minority' male (1 out of every 10).

u re right

@ Ugwumba

INDEED!!

Hey girl, don't mind a little beauty, booty (who would not) and craziness (spices things up), but w/out brains i'd be gone in a sec.

Busta u're nnnnnaaaaaty
what do u mean sex, sex, sex

atleast u kept it real

Ugwumba thats what i'm talking about
u go boy

Checking out ladies - past my bedtime. Catch up with yall tomorrow. Keep it real!!

@ CHRISTEL

reality check gurl!

they want someone whose gon be their slave and do everythin 4 them and sex

Hmmm its very simple,       I want a freak in da bedroom ,  Lady in da street , a graduate (doesnt matter what her major is, she's covered) We can go 50/50 in cooking , cleaning , and taking care of our child or children.

@lionheart

damn i love u already i mean not like dat but i love ur personalty ur wife gon be a lucky woman and she better be a freak atleast u r better dan some african men who thinks its a woman job to do everythin i can't belive that dey still believe in dat old rulewell i guess that can only happen in Nigeria cos up here wen ur wife is like workin almost 24/7 to keep ends meet ow u gon eat or take care of d kidz some even thinks women are so worthless they can get one anytime they want to damn i really love ur personalty

@lionheart

ma kinda guy, that's if u ain't bluffing

Busta:

@lionheart

ma kind of guy, that's if u ain't bluffing

gurl i know this is d first time i'm gonna hear an African man say that and damn iall i can say is its about time

Bluffing. lol nah, I've been taking care of myself for over 10 years. why should I put all my responsibilities on my wife/girlfriend   . . I'm a good cook , but it won't hurt 2 try new flavor sometimes from her .  I took care of another guy"s son 4 over 5 years, why won't i take care of mine , plus  it would be very romantic 2 do things 2gether .

OMG u are so sweet are u really Nigerian cos i'm kinda shocked i'm hearin this from a nigerian man or should i say African man

LOL, Hell yeah !.  Naija   speaks  Ibo and Yoruba fluently

how long u been in NY?

9 years. Are u trying 2 guess my age? ,  J/K

i'm just tryin to see maybe is because u been here for a long time thats y u sound like that because i'm still shocked but well u been here kinda long tho

Maybe, because I left when I was like 17 but I still got respect for my culture, its  2006 for God's sake lol I know that there are more nigerian men like me out there.

ha ha yeah rite maybe 1 out of 100 but dat is so kool i'm talkin bout wat u said never heard it from a Nigerian man before and i av talked to alot of them

@ lionheart, get real!! don't care how long you've been out - ditch the games (50/50 for cleaning and cooking for a red-blooded Naijaman)?

no give us bad name oh!!

hmmm huh??

@ lionheart, ride on guy. lol

@ ugwumba, speak for urself. pity u no be small