Hi everyone, I am new here and find this romantic section very interesting.
Actually,i want to discuss something that has been bothering me 4 sometime now and that is why guys love playing games with girl, s hearts even after girls shower them with so much love and affection. pls dont get me wrong here o, i am not trying to generalise.
This is a true life story and not fiction and i will try a much as possible to be brief.My girlfriend has a boyfriend who she has been going out with for like 3yrs.the guy came from a very poor background but my friend is loaded she met this guy and fell yakata in love with him.when he told me about this,i advised her to be very careful a the guy might be a gold digger but she didnt listen.he started spending on the boy,footing his bills,paying his house rent.it got to na stage that she started using her school fees on the boy i advised her against doing such but she insulted me so i left her.
Consequently,without telling me,he actually secured a visa for the guy she emptied her bank account doing so and the guy travelled out like some 6months ago.after he left,he changed instantly though she was afraid to tel me then and anytime i asked of him,he will always be like they jst finished talking.Things were going on like this until the day she came to my house crying and told me that ever since the guy left,he hasnt called and she has always been the one calling and recently,he told her that he was through with her that she is a mugun and since he knew this he just played with her heart and used her to make it in life he told her that he was through with her and he has changed everything about him so she can no longer reach him.
I scolded her a lot but didnt want to blame her a lot because some guys are like wolves in sheeps clothing and can go to any length just to achieve their selfish aims but i continue to askmyself why the guy did this after everything the girl went through.my friend is so heartbroken now cries day and night because of a guy that is not worth it.
SHOULD GUYS CONTINUE THIS WAY?

Babe if guys keep playing wit ur heart cme to me baby am sure i cud think of other things 2 play wit on ur body girl. So ur heart cud take a break.

NO. but that is the nigerian story. people who think they can get away with murder. men and women do this all the time. tell her it is not the end of the world.

Some Girls too play with guys heart

Y does everyone into playing wt hearts. I play wt other things so holla if u knw wat i mean.

Its a two way traffic,gals do it,boiz do it!! Okpari

okpari

^{I don't do this}

I keep telling people that the signs are always there
Your friend just got carried away
She would have known long before now that he was fake
I feel her pain though
She will get over it
Time they say heals

JJYOU:

NO. but that is the nigerian story. people who think they can get away with murder. men and women do this all the time. tell her it is not the end of the world.

Very apt. _{'Tis quite refreshing 2 read a non biased comment frm the opposite sex!}

LIMUEL:

I keep telling people that the signs are always there[/b]Your friend just got carried away
[b]She would have known long before now that he was fake
I feel her pain though
She will get over it
Time they say heals

Trust me bro, peeps wth evil intentions don't go about displaying it. Pray u don't come across such!


@ Topic: It behoves us all to always be cautious in our dealings wth the opposite sex. In as much as we're human, we shld also learn to make the right decision, hw u do that is left 2 u!




P.S: Shine ya eyez!

it’s a two way thing

Two can play the game

Okanran:

Very apt. _{'Tis quite refreshing 2 read a non biased comment frm the opposite sex!}

Trust me bro, peeps wth evil intentions don't go about displaying it. Pray u don't come across such!


@ Topic: It behoves us all to always be cautious in our dealings wth the opposite sex. In as much as we're human, we shld also learn to make the right decision, hw u do that is left 2 u!




P.S: Shine ya eyez!

I agree with Limuel though. How does one go about doing what this girl did blindly? I'm sorry, I don't think there was no chance for her to be more cautious and vigilant about the whole thing. Even her friend had doubts.

And it's not every guy that does it. Your friend just happened to fall for one that does.

Because a girl oneday had toyed with his heart and this girl one day will toy with someone else's heart so you make a difference and the other person will.

Kuz it a nice gämè

I know it's not your friend,it's you,So Baby please don't cry.Well your friend let her emotion and feelings cloud her vision and reasoning,pls tell her i sympathise with her,tell her i know how she felt,she felt like her sun has eclipsed,tell her it's not the end of the world and more heart break is coming if she doesn't take her time,tell to dry her tears & i wish her d best of luck in her future relationship.But as for me,i don't play with girls heart,i only playz with their boobs,booty & clits.(BBC) that's all.

b4 i can answer ur question, please try and find out how many men ur friend and even u have broken their heart? when our hearts our broken we become saints because we are the victim. but when break other's heart oooooo we move on and and say thats the way life is.

what goes around comes around.

heart break, Na today?

women play games too, actually so liars are not limited to one gender. Like in this case selfish people tell lies as long as possible because they want the best of both worlds, and forget that the other person is a person with feelings. it a pity yea, I feel for you, I know its you not your friend,
take heart girl, you will get over it sooner then you think.

They do it us because we let them!

Ujujoan:

They do it us because we let them!

trying to put up a fight, give me that heart asap!

na2day?:

trying to put up a fight, give me that heart asap!

Give u that bomb u mean

yea thats my alex babe~

whitelexi:

Give u that bomb u mean

bomb ke, she dey Mutallab bois?

na2day?:

trying to put up a fight, give me that heart asap!

You wish!

whitelexi:

Give u that bomb u mean

lol

Ujujoan:

You wish!

u know u want to so stop forming

Thats why there is so much distrust between the s--xes, no one trust eachother for what the useless minority do.

@post,
Ur friend did nofin wrond,she was only unfortunate to meet an a.sshole.Let her just move on(inasmuch as dat's hard).She'll definately find som1 who'll appreciate her 4 who she is n not for wot she has.

This is what we kall `CHIMPAN`. Hard luck to ur friend,

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