How does Chinua Achebe fit into wife battering?

5minsmadness:

heheehe.
some people have been reading too much chinua achebe
Just out of curiosity, can you show me a single post, just one, where you have noticed the above?

Its real. Its everywhere. Its a virus. You aree a culprit.

Keep chinua achebe out of it.

Sophyrocks:


Cool. I have also been attacked by male folks myself in this forum for no just cause. Just admit it. Men are equally verbally abusive as women can be. If we keep using verbal abuse as an excuse for physical, then men are not left out. That means we all should go beating up anyone that runs his/her mouth, men inclusive. Or do you think women enjoy it when you men run your mouth?

Men are naturally verbally abusive. They feel it's normal and ok to talk to any woman any how without any atom of respect. Check our streets and see how men talk to women they don't know from Adam. If you respond and defend yourself it is termed ''indiscipline'', 'misbehaviour and 'not wife material'.
It is our responsibility to teach them how to start respecting our gender.

Ihuomadinihu:

Men are naturally verbally abusive. They feel it's normal and ok to talk to any woman any how without any atom of respect. Check our streets and see how men talk to women they don't know from Adam. If you respond and defend yourself it is termed ''indiscipline'', 'misbehaviour and 'not wife material'.
It is our responsibility to teach them how to start respecting our gender.

On point. It stems from their upbringing to be honest. Where will you hear of parents teaching their sons how to be good husbands? A lot of them were not trained to respect women so we've got to teach them how to. How sad. Well, at least women not backing down to swallow abuse nowadays is teaching them something already. Abusers will always select their victims.

Sophyrocks:


On point. It stems from their upbringing to be honest. Where will you hear of parents teaching their sons how to be good husbands? A lot of them were not trained to respect women so we've got to teach them how to. How sad. Well, at least women not backing down to swallow abuse nowadays is teaching them something already. Abusers will always select their victims.

You said it all. Many men lack home training

5minsmadness:

Pls ask your question again, maybe I didn't understand it well.

The wife of a verbally abusive man you mean? If we are to go by you ladies' opinion then she should learn to be abusive as well

What is making the hypothetical man verbally abusive if I may ask?

Ooooooh right so there is a 'reason' for HIM to be verbally abusive but she is just a nagging b&tch .

5minsmadness:

Oh, I'm sure they don't
Am sure it pisses them off no end cos we are surfing on thier turf
Its called adaptation.
You dont expect the men on this forum to recieve insults and lay low quietly.
It is inherently within us men to fight and to conquer by whatever means necessary.
If we cant reach you physically then we we learn verbal combat.
And unfortunately its is inevitable that we will become much better at it

Lol, they base their argument on how verbally assaulting some of us can be on this forum... Lmao..

These people are starting to lose touch with reality after spending more than twenty hours out of twenty-four every day on NL...even married women who claim to have jobs and children.

Like seriously, which honest and sane person doesn't know that women are more verbally abusive? Lol..
Nairaland is now a frame of reference because their lives seem to revolve around it.
They know the truth but just won't admit it - take a poll and ask females to count how many verbally abusive men they've encountered compared to women...the result is obvious.

I am not saying verbal abuse should be an excuse to hit a woman.
what pisses me off is when a woman feels she can do anything to a man without consequences afterall "there is no justifiable reason for hitting a woman"

Its like a woman dressing like a hooker and walking down harlem street at night.
Anything that happens to her is entirely her fault.

That's one sentiment I've never subscribed to - any woman that crosses a certain line with me is liable to get knocked the fvck out.
Fortunately, I've always had a certain carriage about me that keeps people from being directly confrontational or insulting to me, so it's never been an issue.

Ihuomadinihu:

Men are naturally verbally abusive. They feel it's normal and ok to talk to any woman any how without any atom of respect. Check our streets and see how men talk to women they don't know from Adam. If you respond and defend yourself it is termed ''indiscipline'', 'misbehaviour and 'not wife material'.
It is our responsibility to teach them how to start respecting our gender.

Yimu!

Teach only your husband/boyfriend and leave every other man out of it.

crackhaus:

Yimu!

Teach only your husband/boyfriend and leave every other man out of it.

Who the hell is this?

Ihuomadinihu:
Who the hell is this?

who the hell are u?

oloyede252:

who the hell are u?

I can't remember referring to you...shift abeg!

Ihuomadinihu:
I can't remember referring to you...shift abeg!

lol,hello madam take it easy o,

crackhaus:

Yimu!

Teach only your husband/boyfriend and leave every other man out of it.

Wonders shall never end.. Someone must've died somewhere that I'm not aware of.

Obviously there's a secret coronation going on on this section.. That's not gonna happen

Ewuro4:


Wonders shall never end.. Someone must've died somewhere that I'm not aware of.

Obviously there's a secret coronation going on on this section.. That's not gonna happen

what is this one saying,,,,,,,,, shut up before I shut it for you,god dam it

oloyede252:

what is this one saying,,,,,,,,, shut up before I shut it for you,god dam it

Oloyedeee.. NL's renowned omo ale. Is that post adressed to you? No respect for your elder ehn?

remsonik:
A lot of threads has graced front page justifying conditions in which men can beat their wives. Anyways woman stop provoking your man to beat you after all they all say it's your fault. Take some training in martial arts and if worse comes to the worse squeeze em balls. Don't bring out the beast in him and don't let him kill you. Defend yourself!
Get busy and work hard. A busy woman won't have time for domestic squabbles

remsonik:
A lot of threads has graced front page justifying conditions in which men can beat their wives. Anyways woman stop provoking your man to beat you after all they all say it's your fault. Take some training in martial arts and if worse comes to the worse squeeze em balls. Don't bring out the beast in him and don't let him kill you. Defend yourself!
Get busy and work hard. A busy woman won't have time for domestic squabbles

Who beat this 1?

Any man who beats a woman because of verbal insults is nothing but a coward ask those same men if they've never been insulted by their bosses , male classmate , conductor , a fellow driver on the road during an argument? Did they stop and fight all those men They controlled themselves because of the consequences which is either getting fired by the boss or getting their butts whopped by the conductor.
The only reason they decided to show their power on a woman is because they know the average woman is not a as physically strong as them and that is why they are cowards.

Ewuro4:


Oloyedeee.. NL's renowned omo onile. Is that post adressed to you? No respect for your elder ehn?

ewuro,child of bitterness, bsc in gbeborun,MSC in so lo,PhD in e bu

oloyede252:

ewuro,child of bitterness, bsc in gbeborun,MSC in so lo,PhD in e bu

.. omo ake, lo fimi diwon oh , mmm

Ewuro4:

.. omo ake, lo fimi diwon oh , mmm

na play o,just wanna have fun before exam starts,

no ba yin se re o,

oloyede252:


na play o,just wanna have fun before exam starts,


no ba yin se re o,

Afi bee naa ... Oya lets hug

Good luck in your exams.

Ewuro4:

Afi bee naa ... Oya lets hug
Good luck in your exams.

thanks,.......
Dipper life hugging activation,



move on to the next person to insult,,,,

crackhaus:

Bro keep trying, you will eventually begin to make sense to all other people apart from NL females

Haba! This "reta.rd.ed monkey called fransisca" don show again? Lol

funlord:
Who beat this 1?

You wish

remsonik:

You wish

remsonik:

You wish

Not really! I only give " savage bedroom beatings" so I'm not the type that the you people are looking 4!

Ihuomadinihu:

Who the hell is this?

An advice for you; Nairaland family section is filled with frustrated males controlled by Magareth Thatcher's of Nigeria.

Here's the sole avenue to heap their frustration and claim alpha male which they are not in real-life.
I say tread lightly.

Ihuomadinihu:

Who the hell is this?

You should be scared of me.

I'm that nightmare that keeps coming back, causing you to doubt your sanity and eventually become a full-blown man-hater... better recognize.

funlord:
Haba! This "reta.rd.ed monkey called fransisca" don show again? Lol

Lol, Francisca the azz fvcker a la' confused sexuality?

Of course the dude keeps showing up... how someone can be so Francis and mentally malformed beats my imagination

FrancisTony:

[s]An advice for you; Nairaland family section is filled with frustrated males controlled by Magareth Thatcher's of Nigeria.

Here's the sole avenue to heap their frustration and claim alpha male which they are not in real-life.
I say tread lightly.[/s]

See this child be talking of alpha male like it's something SHE knows anything of.

I bet your ancestors roll over in their graves every time you say MALE or MAN, not to mention adding the prefix ALPHA... or are you in the mood for receiving some ancestral resetting slaps?

Ihuomadinihu,

Just ignore him. He's frustrated and depressed. Nairaland is the only place they brag to keep their lonely and boring existence lively.

If you doubt, i'll show you a thread created by one of their disciple. Female boss gave him sack letter.

FrancisTony:
Ihuomadinihu,

Just ignore him. He's frustrated and depressed. Nairaland is the only place they brag to keep their lonely and boring existence lively.

If you doubt, i'll show you a thread created by one of their disciple. Female boss gave him sack letter.

Hehehe
The way u r hustling for this new chic is commendable I must say!
Another one to add to ur harem
Have u sent her a pm yet?

5minsmadness:

Hehehe
The way u r hustling for this new chic is commendable I must say!
Another one to add to ur harem
Have u sent her a pm yet?

PM kor!

She deserves to know better; that not ALL men are frustrated and so vain about patriarchy.