justified19:
we've been dating for a yr and half, 4weeks ago she came to visit, when I was asleep she went through my fone texts and saw a msg which anoda girl sent to me( I was trying to make d oda girl a side chik)..I sincerely apologized and deleted d girl's number cos I dnt wanna loose ma babe.. after dat day, all was well wit us until she started giving me attitude a week ago, den 4 days ago she broke up saying she no longer trust me...ve tried hard to convince her and win her back but she wouldn't listen. I had to go to her skul yesterday with d hope of making up (thinking she wld change ha mind if she saw me) it didnt work, she said she's broken up wit me since d day she read d text.
how can I win her? I love her.
should I just let go?

CountDracula:

Bro its a jonzing world! Only knw ur lover wen u let her go... Let her go

justified19:
we've been dating for a yr and half, 4weeks ago she came to visit, when I was asleep she went through my fone texts and saw a msg which anoda girl sent to me( I was trying to make d oda girl a side chik)..I sincerely apologized and deleted d girl's number cos I dnt wanna loose ma babe.. after dat day, all was well wit us until she started giving me attitude a week ago, den 4 days ago she broke up saying she no longer trust me...ve tried hard to convince her and win her back but she wouldn't listen. I had to go to her skul yesterday with d hope of making up (thinking she wld change ha mind if she saw me) it didnt work, she said she's broken up wit me since d day she read d text.
how can I win her? I love her.
should I just let go?

agarawu23:
nice one he should listen to the music "let her go" by passenger

pauloftarsus:
In my view, She was already looking for an excuse to leave you, even if she didn't see the text she would have seen something else
. In other words, she is gone bro.

pauloftarsus:
In my view, She was already looking for an excuse to leave you, even if she didn't see the text she would have seen something else
. In other words, she is gone bro.

Enegod:
make the side chick your main chick and find another side chick

ib4babes:
GOOD POINT HERE. IF SHE TRULY CARES, THAT'S NOT GOOD ENOUGH REASON TO BACK OFF. JUST GIVE YOURSELF A LITTLE TIME IF SHE DOES NOT ACCEPT YOUR EXPLANATION, LET GO MAN. FOR TRUST FORGET IT BECAUSE SHE TOO CAN NOT BE TRUSTED HERE. JUST GET YOURSELF TOGETHER AND MOVE ON FOR A WHILE.
AM SO SORRY FOR THAT, I'VE HAD SIMILAR EXPERIENCE OR EVEN WORST BUT FINALLY IT WAS DONE ON ME THAT SHE WAS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE.... BUT WHAT CAN A MAN DO.
but next time try locking you phone if that can keep your relationship locked up and sleep like a dog

tohpahz:
Mentorandfriend said what i wanted saying...

So op, give her space..
U both should get your priorities right..

But you sef,u want to play away match,, now u hv lost home and away.

mentorandfriend:
One cardinal characteristic of love is that it is patient.

So I advice you give her a space of perhaps two months at least to re-assess her priorities and decide what she really wants out of life. If both of you were in deed in love, you can go and have peace of mind. She doesnt need you bugging her for attention and forgiveness. All she needs is a thinking space.

Give her that space to think; but send her sweet texts every weekend while the two months last, reaffirming your undying love for her, and how she completes your life. She will come around. Surely! Cheers.

buygala:
You have obviously outsmarted yourself .... You tried to play for both teams and ended up not playing for any

now, chick you no get, side-chick you no still get....

Better go buy vaseline, or better still, Superglue, make you use am masturbate

Buygala, here's the truth most women here would never acknowledge; women keep a host of admirers on the side. Check her phone and you'll find incriminating evidences like SMSs she replied to guys, guys she's led on probably to extort from them.
I prefer not to dig but if a lady digs for mine, I'll did for hers and my discoveries would be 'earth-shattering'.
Nothing justifies what the girl did but SHE ISN'T A SAINT EITHER...IF YOU DIG DEEP.

buygala:
You have obviously outsmarted yourself .... You tried to play for both teams and ended up not playing for any

now, chick you no get, side-chick you no still get....

Better go buy vaseline, or better still, Superglue, make you use am masturbate

buygala:
You have obviously outsmarted yourself .... You tried to play for both teams and ended up not playing for any

now, chick you no get, side-chick you no still get....

Better go buy vaseline, or better still, Superglue, make you use am masturbate

sarmiie:
Just chill, man. Give her some space...... She'll come around..

justified19:
thanks

agarawu23:
your first line is trash , "care" my foot

a lady stood by you for more than a year and you are toying with her emotions and u expect her to stay?

the Op didnt tell us the lady is not faithful to him, so why would u expect the lady to stay? you don't know how it feels to be betrayed

justified19:
stood by hin? doesn't mean she was flawless, she had her shortcomings too