Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Enegod(m): 5:30pm On May 25, 2015 |
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Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by rudebouy: 5:32pm On May 25, 2015 |
OP, tuface did not meet his wife afta he made it. Day've been dating for yrs before he made it. 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Nobody: 5:46pm On May 25, 2015 |
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Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by xynerise: 5:51pm On May 25, 2015 |
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Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by RedditandPorn(m): 6:05pm On May 25, 2015 |
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Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Nobody: 6:08pm On May 25, 2015 |
Princecalm: the annoying part is that guys will still knowingly/unknowingly fall for this. true 1 Like |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Nobody: 6:26pm On May 25, 2015 |
I am a girl OP and I tell you that your number 1 is so wrong, like one guy already said u can only find true love as a broke guy When you become rich tell me which girl in her right mind wouldn't wanna be with you? Everyone will act like a good girl so as to settle down with a rich guy even when the love isn't truly there. A girl that cannot suffer with u/married you cos of your money will probably leave you if u go broke after marriage cos she simply cannot cope with a broke ass nigga! But if a girl can faithfully date a broke guy she will definitely love the guy and I tell you most of these girls are independent unlike those that likes to settle for the 'already made guys' I have friends that are broke and so cannot express their love simply because no girl wanna date them, but these guys once told me 'i will so much use these girls when I become rich' Whoever told u that you can find true love as a broke guy said the truth my brother! 1 Like |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Caracta(f): 6:36pm On May 25, 2015 |
Itzmodella: I hope your fellow niccurs sees this You!!! |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by ijoskelew: 7:09pm On May 25, 2015 |
sory |
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Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by amokeme(f): 7:14pm On May 25, 2015 |
I agree with no.1 1 Like |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by LockDown69(m): 7:19pm On May 25, 2015 |
See gobe! |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by raficki87(m): 7:23pm On May 25, 2015 |
xpac01: My brother,wether you like it or not that no.1 is not a mere believe but a reality. When you're rich, all ladies will brand and pose like wife material you can ask Mikel Obi. You find them ladies, the ones at lower class seeing the rich folk as an answer to their high class wishful life fantasy and those at the high class sees a rich dude as a match and security. But if you can find a girl who can love and respect you even while you're down struggling then that's epitome of unconditionally true love. She's a woman with vision. She will definitely be with you through all thick thin. She's a wife material. So its not just a believe bro. Though I aint saying there are no wife material among rich folks, but they are few and so are they also few among the poor class. Nice write up tho. pls can I use this as a status update on facebook |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Damikevin(m): 7:23pm On May 25, 2015 |
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Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by pduke: 7:23pm On May 25, 2015 |
Rapmoney: I know majority of Nigerians too lazy to read but it pays to most times
Below are some common fallacies most Nigerian guys have been pressured and deceived over the years to believe . You might hold a different opinion from these but emerging 'trends' and 'happenstances' in our society clearly point to the fact that these common beliefs no longer hold weight and logic and therefore, may be seen as nonsense!
1) #You can only find someone who truly loves you when you are still struggling#: Bullcrap! Nonsense! So we were told while we were younger! Now, we know better . It is as good as saying 'only poor men find real love'. Imagine that!!! It means 2Face Idibia must have married a bad wife; a woman who doesn't have real love for him because he met her after he attained fame! How fallacious this sounds! Whether you like it or not, there are classes in our society and one should strive to attain the class he feels he wants his would-be wife to come from . I just feel people who still hold this opinion are suffering from a psychology that promotes inferiority complex! Finding a good wife or a woman that truly loves you has nothing to do with struggling! If you are comfortable and finds a woman that is as comfortable as you and in your class, would you say she's after your wealth?
2) #Even if there's no money, when we give birth, children will bring blessings#: Don't allow anyone deceive you, folks. Yeah, blessings come but do not put the life of somebody's daughter at risk and endangering the lives of the tiny legs you would produce because you don't have enough to cater for them!!! Even Jesus Christ, in the Bible(the synoptic gospels), admonished Christians to calculate the cost of something before embarking on it, else the enemies mock the person that he couldn't maintain what he started (call me Pastor Rapmoney ) Truth be told, it would take the grace of God to maintain peace and ensure fidelity in a home that lacks money in these modern times!
3) #Beautiful women have bad attitude#: We can as well say 'ugly women have nice attitude No one is perfect! What you might admire in someone could be different from what the next man would admire in them. Who says a woman cannot be beautiful within and in the outside? It doesn't mean you should place all your bets on big buttocks, pointed boobs and pretty face but I tell you today, marrying a woman who is very presentable doesn't make you a fool or criminal! I love beautiful women
4)#A man should set a woman up financially#: Another bunkum!!! Marriage involves two people who are emotionally, psychologically, spiritually and financially mature! I strongly believe that ladies should as well be financially ready before they get married. It is not just a man's thing. If he goes out to win the bread, you as the woman, should also go out to win the akara. You would attract more respect by such from the man. Men hardly misbehave when they are aware that their wife is financially strong too . It is better to marry a woman that has acquired her degree or into one profession, business, trade or occupation than to get married to a woman who does nothing, sits and folds her hands, waiting for a man to come and marry her in order to take away her burden! Are you getting married to a human being or a burden?
5) #Money is not all; what matters is love#: This is what most girls use to deceive guys on social media, including Nairaland. I always say it that it is only on NL and other social media that girls are quick to say this trash! Most girls can't practise it in real life. They only say this to create what I call 'social media good face' . Same girl that says this online will operate in the opposite offline. Don't let them fool ya fellas!!! . Don't believe this! If you believe this, then you will surely believe anything. It existed in the past...not now. The society has transformed to something else and it is either you follow up or get left behind; simple truth! Make good money and you won't even have time to listen to such trash!!!
A word is enough for the wise!
Good day folks! U are wrong abt 2face and his wife. She didnt meet him when he attained fame. They have been togeda long before plantashun boys days sef 1 Like |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by 190: 7:24pm On May 25, 2015 |
Itzmodella: I hope your fellow niccurs sees this Is this the same modella I know back in the days |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by xpac01(m): 7:27pm On May 25, 2015 |
raficki87: pls can I use this as a status update on facebook With all pleasure bro. Thanks. |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Nobody: 7:28pm On May 25, 2015 |
Very true. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by wisdompraise(m): 7:33pm On May 25, 2015 |
feran14: hmmmmn... I don't even know waht to say Say what you know. |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by DanWrites(m): 7:46pm On May 25, 2015 |
Rapmoney:
1) #You can only find someone who truly loves you when you are still struggling#:
This statement holds a lot of truth.
2) #Even if there's no money, when we give birth, children will bring blessings#:
Many times the presence of kids can spur responsibility and make parents to work harder.
3) #Beautiful women have bad attitude#:
Agreed- not always true.
4)#A man should set a woman up financially#:
Agreed -not always to be believed.
5) #Money is not all; what matters is love#:
Love matters more than money. Situations are rare, but not yet entirely nonexistent.
The utter certainty with which you presented your case is beyond surprising. Next time try to be systematic in reasoning, especially when it comes to matters like this. None of the points listed is a dead-on fallacy. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Nobody: 7:47pm On May 25, 2015 |
190:
Is this the same modella I know back in the days I dont think so Caracta:
You!!! |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by MrBasketball: 7:48pm On May 25, 2015 |
searching4lovee:
U dey take style beg for BIS subscription. smh only wise guys can decode you bittches |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by terzurum5(m): 7:50pm On May 25, 2015 |
Rapmoney: I know majority of Nigerians too lazy to read but it pays to most times
Below are some common fallacies most Nigerian guys have been pressured and deceived over the years to believe . You might hold a different opinion from these but emerging 'trends' and 'happenstances' in our society clearly point to the fact that these common beliefs no longer hold weight and logic and therefore, may be seen as nonsense!
1) #You can only find someone who truly loves you when you are still struggling#: Bullcrap! Nonsense! So we were told while we were younger! Now, we know better . It is as good as saying 'only poor men find real love'. Imagine that!!! It means 2Face Idibia must have married a bad wife; a woman who doesn't have real love for him because he met her after he attained fame! How fallacious this sounds! Whether you like it or not, there are classes in our society and one should strive to attain the class he feels he wants his would-be wife to come from . I just feel people who still hold this opinion are suffering from a psychology that promotes inferiority complex! Finding a good wife or a woman that truly loves you has nothing to do with struggling! If you are comfortable and finds a woman that is as comfortable as you and in your class, would you say she's after your wealth?
2) #Even if there's no money, when we give birth, children will bring blessings#: Don't allow anyone deceive you, folks. Yeah, blessings come but do not put the life of somebody's daughter at risk and endangering the lives of the tiny legs you would produce because you don't have enough to cater for them!!! Even Jesus Christ, in the Bible(the synoptic gospels), admonished Christians to calculate the cost of something before embarking on it, else the enemies mock the person that he couldn't maintain what he started (call me Pastor Rapmoney ) Truth be told, it would take the grace of God to maintain peace and ensure fidelity in a home that lacks money in these modern times!
3) #Beautiful women have bad attitude#: We can as well say 'ugly women have nice attitude No one is perfect! What you might admire in someone could be different from what the next man would admire in them. Who says a woman cannot be beautiful within and in the outside? It doesn't mean you should place all your bets on big buttocks, pointed boobs and pretty face but I tell you today, marrying a woman who is very presentable doesn't make you a fool or criminal! I love beautiful women
4)#A man should set a woman up financially#: Another bunkum!!! Marriage involves two people who are emotionally, psychologically, spiritually and financially mature! I strongly believe that ladies should as well be financially ready before they get married. It is not just a man's thing. If he goes out to win the bread, you as the woman, should also go out to win the akara. You would attract more respect by such from the man. Men hardly misbehave when they are aware that their wife is financially strong too . It is better to marry a woman that has acquired her degree or into one profession, business, trade or occupation than to get married to a woman who does nothing, sits and folds her hands, waiting for a man to come and marry her in order to take away her burden! Are you getting married to a human being or a burden?
5) #Money is not all; what matters is love#: This is what most girls use to deceive guys on social media, including Nairaland. I always say it that it is only on NL and other social media that girls are quick to say this trash! Most girls can't practise it in real life. They only say this to create what I call 'social media good face' . Same girl that says this online will operate in the opposite offline. Don't let them fool ya fellas!!! . Don't believe this! If you believe this, then you will surely believe anything. It existed in the past...not now. The society has transformed to something else and it is either you follow up or get left behind; simple truth! Make good money and you won't even have time to listen to such trash!!!
A word is enough for the wise!
Good day folks! lol "Social Media Good Face" and I call that 'Social Media Deceit' 1 Like |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by ikorodureporta: 7:51pm On May 25, 2015 |
Correctn: plural - NONSENSES!
#3...Who no de fear fine women?
As guyz de pursue, na so evil spirit sef de pursue |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Caracta(f): 7:53pm On May 25, 2015 |
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Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Acidosis(m): 7:55pm On May 25, 2015 |
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Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by naijaboiy: 7:56pm On May 25, 2015 |
Itzmodella:
Do i know you?? is that supposed to bother me? 1 Like |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by macof(m): 7:57pm On May 25, 2015 |
I stopped reading at no 1. The op must be ignorant of the history between Tuface And Annie Macauley 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by deolumike(m): 7:59pm On May 25, 2015 |
Itzmodella: Really? After all these years? Yaba left did you no good? Darn! wicked response. Itzmodella: Really? After all these years? Yaba left did you no good? Darn! wicked response. |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Napoleon55(m): 8:00pm On May 25, 2015 |
I just register to this forum jusT to commend u on this write up,because me and you think alike People don't always use their brain to think in these days. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by Rapmoney(m): 8:03pm On May 25, 2015 |
pduke:
U are wrong abt 2face and his wife. She didnt meet him when he attained fame. They have been togeda long before plantashun boys days sef Says who? If that's the case, it means you only know little about Innocent Idibia |
Re: 5 Nonsense Most Guys Have Been Deceived To Believe by bettercreature(m): 8:06pm On May 25, 2015 |
This thread is so on point |