What’s stopping modern men from walking
down the aisle?
While the numbers of women who want to get
married are going up, men are less likely to
want to walk down the aisle.

In the past 15 years the numbers of men who
do not, or will not, get married has jumped six
percent. More and more men are opting out of
marriage and women are asking why.
Ladies, here are the nine dirty little secrets of
men who refuse to get married:

1. They Don’t Need To Have s*x To Get
Married
Men today don’t need to marry you to get s*x!
You know this is true. I’m all for gender
equality, but the changing societal standards
for premarital s*x has backfired for women
who want to move their relationships toward
marriage.

2. They Would Rather Live Together Than Get
Married

Another change in relationships over the years
is the number of couples who opt to
cohabitate versus get married. Unlike in the
past, most people don’t frown upon couples
who live together. So ladies, if you want to
improve your chances of marriage, don’t move
in with the guy.

3. Serial Monogamy > Divorce

It’s easier for men today to have a girlfriend
for a while, enjoy all the privileges of marriage
without the civil contract, breakup, then move
on to another new girlfriend. To men, serial
monogamy is easier than going through a
divorce.

4. In Fact, They’re Terrified Of Divorce

Multiple sources cite that the number one
reason men don’t want to get married is that
either they themselves have been through a
bad divorce or they have witnessed the grief,
bad outcomes and money problems that
divorces have cost their buddies.

5. They Don’t Want To Leave Their Bromances
…
Guys love to hang with the guys, and they feel
like a wife will keep them from this vital part of
their social life.

6. … Or Ditch Their Man-Cave

When men live alone, their space is their own.
They can hang their moose heads in the living
room if they want. All too often when they get
married they end up relegated to the unfinished
room in the basement, where they have to set
up their man-cave to preserve their manhood.

7. They Think They Can Have It Better

These are the perpetual playboys who are
always looking for something better. If they’re
dating a “9”, they’re on the prowl for that
elusive “10.” Expect age to slow these guys
down, because as they get older, dating really
young women just categorizes them as “creepy
old men.”

8. They’re Mamma’s Boys

Forget these guys. If they’re still living in
mommy’s basement, you wouldn’t want to
marry them anyway. They’re already married
to momma and there’s no room at the Inn for
you!

9. They’re Die-Hard Bachelors

These are the guys who have hit 50 and have
never been married. Don’t get into a
relationship with them expecting marriage
because according to the research I did, it’s
probably never going to happen.

Feel free to add no. 10

lalasticlala

Fulaboy:
Yesss and the broke ass ones: they don't want to get married and at the end of the day feeding the family turns to a nightmare to them

Xiadnat:
....Or! Or, They are being smart.

Svenn:
On spot.

Xiadnat:
....Or! Or, They are being smart.

blublahd:
i like your type of feminisim

RAKITIC:
Marriage is not a do or die affair. The last time i checked marriage is not compulsory and been single is not a sin.

Svenn:
Does feminism have types?

Svenn:
Does giving birth out of wedlock logical?

RAKITIC:
if u are nt a christian

agarawu23:
scared of responsibility

some men envy couples when ever they come across one but they are scared they aren't man enough to start a family So they end up staying single and waiting for "sudden wealth" for them to get married and have a flamboyant wedding.

but you forget the fact that your #10 can still make you a married man if you are determined to succeed and you should have In mind that not everybody will be as rich as dangote.

my brother , keep waiting till you clock 67

Svenn:
Please expatiate.

Svenn:
Does feminism have types?

blublahd:

i like your type of feminisim

Xiadnat:

....and what type is this?

Xiadnat:
....Or! Or, They are being smart.

MOST women rush into marriage for the wrongs like casting their financially burden on someone else and taking the title 'MRS' to to escape society's criticisms of spinsterhood and NOT REALLY FOR LOVE.

Why should a man rush to MARRY a woman who's that selfish by thinking only of herself and not him?

You lots should encourage us with your change of attitude.

kramfonos:

MOST women rush into marriage for the wrongs like casting their financially burden on someone else and taking the title 'MRS' to to escape society's criticisms of spinsterhood and NOT REALLY FOR LOVE.

Why should a man rush to MARRY a woman who's that selfish by thinking only of herself and not him?

You lots should encourage us with your change of attitude.

lalasticlala

McEwen:
like kingto m

adeh39:
Some men don't get married because they think they are still young and don't want to be tied to just one woman yet, they even say that they don't want to be a baby Papa yet. This is their favorite words:

* Let me enjoy myself with all these ladies first jare, after all, A man can get married at any time, So why should i rush into marriage now and tie myself to one woman, when they are lots of sexy ladies out there*