Nonso23:
Drink your milk first Then you can even ascend on me if you want

Troll

crackhaus:
You're not serious...are you saying you want to be patronized? What are you selling?

VictoriaBee:

coogar:


cococandy, why so serious?

erm why not?

cococandy:
erm why not?

so do you believe a woman without a husband is respected anywhere in africa? how is it sexist? men with no wives are also deemed irresponsible by the same society.

Nonso23:
Fiona

Shrek or?

coogar:


so do you believe a woman without a husband is respected anywhere in africa? how is it sexist? men with no wives are also deemed irresponsible by the same society.

Men can find wife anytime they want but when a woman marry a man, they'll tag her irresponsible and see it as an abomination.

That's sexism.

Nonso23:
I said Fiona

Who? Me? I resembe fiona? Which is me?

VictoriaBee:

Men can find wife anytime they want but when a woman marry a man, they'll tag her irresponsible and see it as an abomination.

That's sexism.

men can find wives @anytime but until he does, he's not responsible in the eyes of the society......just like the society thinks a single woman in her 30s is irresponsible.

it goes both ways......

coogar:


so do you believe a woman without a husband is respected anywhere in africa? how is it sexist? men with no wives are also deemed irresponsible by the same society

I don't know about any other place. I'm just saying for the place I know. Which is my hometown. If it is not sexist what is it? Besides you can't overlook the unhealthy tension and pressure it puts on ladies to get married. Anything flies because of that.

@bold really?
I can't think of any derisive slang in my language that is used to mock single men over 30. None. If someone knows, let them enlighten me.
I don't see any single guy being called old cargo because of his status. Of course the parents may stress the point of marriage to him because they want grandkids but no one makes him believe is value as human is diminished because he's single.

Why are you guys even arguing with me over something that is clear like day?. Who are those running 'helter skelter' looking for husband in all the odd places if not single ladies. Why? Could it because they are put under more pressure and made to feel less worthy than their single brothers?

If the level of disdain for unmarried women is same as that for unmarried men, why aren't we seeing the effects on the single guys?

Nonso23:
Luke 23:3 Those are your words, not mine,” Jesus replied.
And i believe you

Yes, i'm ugly

Nonso23:


In Igbo land they are labelled " Okokpuru "
I can't begin to explain the level of derogatory that word alone begets.

What state are you from?
You studied in FUTO?

Nonso23:


why are you telling me na?

Okay i have a solution
bleach twice for 2 hours every morning and evening for 2 weeks every month for the next 10 years. You will graduate from fiona to snow white.

Lol

Crackhaus, you are edo?

cococandy:

I don't know about any other place. I'm just saying for the place I know. Which is my hometown. If it is not sexist what is it? Besides you can't overlook the unhealthy tension and pressure it puts on ladies to get married. Anything flies because of that.

it's not sexist!
single men/women of marriageable age in nigeria get pilloried by the society.

@bold really?
I can't think of any derisive slang in my language that is used to mock single men over 30. None. If someone knows, let them enlighten me.

nonso23 has answered you....

I don't see any single guy being called old cargo because of his status. Of course the parents may stress the point of marriage to him because they want grandkids but no one makes him believe is value as human is diminished because he's single.

the men are called all sorts of names too....

Why are you guys even arguing with me over something that is clear like day?. Who are those running 'helter skelter' looking for husband in all the odd places if not single ladies. Why? Could it because they are put under more pressure and made to feel less worthy than their single brothers?

because of the biology of their reproductive organs. they put that pressure on themselves cos they know their eggs have an expiry date. that's just nature, nothing to do with sexism!

If the level of disdain for unmarried women is same as that for unmarried men, why aren't we seeing the effects on the single guys?

because men are less bothered about what the society has to say about him. his standard is his standard and he rarely changes it for anyone.

this is why men are reluctant at wedding receptions when it's time to throw the bouquet. meanwhile, single women instantly become agberos hustling to catch the bouquet. let's just admit men have set higher standards for themselves than the women.

Nonso23:


Why do you want to know?
@2nd question ... what is FUTO

Just tell me.

Federal University of Technology Owerri - you chat like one. Sex starved niggas like my sister told me.

coogar:


it's not sexist!
single men/women of marriageable age in nigeria get pilloried by the society.
nonso23 has answered you....
the men are called all sorts of names too....
because of the biology of their reproductive organs. they put that pressure on themselves cos they know their eggs have an expiry date. that's just nature, nothing to do with sexism!
because men are less bothered about what the society has to say about him. his standard is his standard and he rarely changes it for anyone.

this is why men are reluctant at wedding receptions when it's time to throw the bouquet. meanwhile, single women instantly become agberos hustling to catch the bouquet. let's just admit men have set higher standards for themselves than the women.

@bold nice.

But Then why are you guys always in the way when someone says ladies should have standards and some dignity too. Enemies of progress

Nonso23:

Crackhaus I guess he is chilling somewhere.
I'm not Edo. Fail!

That question is for crackhaus not you.

Nonso23:

Your sister chats with sex starved guys? That explains a lot Law of e-induction.

SMH
okBye

cococandy:

@bold nice.

But Then why are you guys always in the way when someone says ladies should have standards and some dignity too. Enemies of progress

who says women shouldn't set their standards? we are saying stop blaming everything on the society or sexism and take responsibility for once! jeeez.....

must everything be about sexism?

VictoriaBee:

Men can find wife anytime they want but when a woman marry a man, they'll tag her irresponsible and see it as an abomination.

That's sexism.

Your comments are mostly awe-inducing. The people that always like your comments aren't helping you. You come across as someone who doesn't think before speaking or doesn't know how to. No offence intended, seriously. You're damaging your ability to reason with this pseudo-feistiness you think you portray.

Timbuktou:


Your comments are mostly awe-inducing. The people that always like your comments aren't helping you. You come across as someone who doesn't think before speaking or doesn't know how to. No offence intended, seriously.

take it easy on her....
she's just 17.

Timbuktou:


Your comments are mostly awe-inducing. The people that always like your comments aren't helping you. You come across as someone who doesn't think before speaking or doesn't know how to. No offence intended, seriously. You're damaging your ability to reason with this pseudo-feistiness you think you portray.

Just shut it, please.
You musn't be noticed.

Arrant balderdash!

coogar:


who says women shouldn't set their standards? we are saying stop blaming everything on the society or sexism and take responsibility for once! jeeez.....

must everything be about sexism?

Who says women shouldn't have standards?

You and everyone else who has been on my neck the moment I typed that women shouldn't place their value on being married. Yes you're the ones hushing the message of self valuation devoid of what society thinks of you.

So pls if indeed you and those other posters disturbing my life over my opinions believe women should set standards for themselves too, desist from distracting me when I say it. It is really that simple.