Nonso23:


Odogwu k'ibu!

So many intelligent men in this section!! I'm amazed!

Women must know that the first thing in a man brain about the opposite sex is sex .that is the way god created us.

Tay16:


I pray to God you will follow your own advice when your wife turns you into nothing more than a sperm donor and starts trying out bigger sizes out there, since cheating isnt the worst thing that can happen in a marriage

1stCitizen:
Nigerian women are the cause of their own problems. Their husbands cheat and all they can do is cry, cry, cry and come to Nairaland to lament. Try that abroad.....your arse is out da door with only your shaving stick and boxers.

This madness can only stop when the victims divorce such men. Marriage no be do or die... haba! Abi na because Niaja women sabi depend on men for everything from recharge cards, to accommodation to car to kpata sef?

gboss4sure:


One bottle of Hennessy for you,

To us men, sex is not love.

Chillisauce:
Just when you thought you have seen/read it all.
how low can the nigerian women go.

After husband cheating with women, prostitute that might have 5 to 6 client per day. He might even go in the extent of giving her mouth action. The same mouth he then uses to kiss you etc.

*spits*

Make una endure abeg. After all cheating is better than poverty abi?

FrancisTony:
I can only speak for Christians.

Bible said love your wife as Christ loved his Church.
Any Christian man that supports OP will definitely not eat his cake and have it.
Adultery and Pre-marital sex is evil - shun it.

Don't be a cheat and expect submissive/respectful wife.


N/B - Quote responsibly...

Nonso23:


He is intelligent ! exceptionally too!!

Toks2008:


You just nailed it. A man can die for a woman yet still cheats on her.

men see sex differently from women and a man can sex a woman without any emotion attached and will forget yourface after the act.

This is one secret our mothers knew and remained in their matrimonial home.

many ladies who leaves their marriage because their hubby cheats on them usually end up with a man who already has a wife thereby committing same crime they detest against their ex.

Mynd44:

Iranu. Abasha.

To you not men.

Don't lump me together with you in your disgusting defence of your failures abeg

Stillfire:


They will not see this part of the bible. I really don't know what they preach in church.

Even my ancient Igbo foremothers dealt with recalcitrant husbands. How much more women of today trying to condone a bad and evil thing. I don't get it. Some queer statistic show Nigerian women cheat more, I don't see men trying to justify or asking themselves to condone cheating and live with it.

Anyway....
Pseudo-Feminist
A person that claims to be a feminist yet ignores the main point of feminism, equality. Pseudo-Feminists will tend to blather on about how terrible men are, or assume how men do not face social issues in regards to their gender. Not only can these issues include false rape accusations (although that's EXTREMELY rare), rape of men (which is actually more common than you'd think) Selective Service in the United States, and the pressure of masculinity (which is very much like the pressures of feminization that women face and not considered as often).

Just as how pseudo-feminists will frequently call acknowledgement of men's issues misogyny, many so called "masculists" try to generalize feminists by pseudo-feminists, in order to claim that feminism is misandric in nature. Of course, these "masculists" then ignore women's issues and prove to be nothing but hypocrites. If you misuse the term, you'll look stupid to any intelligent being.

There are well documented pseudo-feminists, one of which is the 'Femitheist Divine', a young woman that on her previous blogs had called for mass genocide of men. They try to claim to be feminists in order to have a sense of legitimacy.
Pseudo-Feminists are basically the gender-issue equivalent of a GSA member that hates heterosexuals. Or a Cancer Society volunteer that advocates smoking.

sunnedee:


I didn't want to comment before but let me correct your claim above.
Not to justify cheating but even abroad as you put it men still cheat and surprise : some of the wives know and just bone.

All of you should go through onatisi and ops post very well and grab some wisdom.
NB: quote me only if you have a brain that works

onatisi:
Sex is nothing, boys will always be boys and men will always be boys. We are moved by what we see , so if I see naked bodies and big tits ,there is no amount of spiritual power that will stop my prick from waking up.

Amya:
Coming from a pseudo-feminist, it shouldn't be all that alarming.

I was reading a thread yesterday about a young women who tried to commit suicide because she found out her supposedly perfect husband was cheating on her. If she were my kid Sis, I'd have dashed her free slap for that stupidity. This same lady was just justifying her husband's actions when after an argument he pushed her so her hard she banged her head on the edge of a glass table (in the risk of a permanent head injury). This same lady condoned and even justified her husband hating her OWN mother for the flimsy reason that she made some strong recommendations while they were planning their wedding. And suddenly she finds out her husband had a plethora of runs girls at his beck and call, and she overdosed on pills! You've got to be kidding me!

Now, I know my opinion on cheating males is going to be hugely unpopular amongst the female folks in the house (especially the married ones who for some reason think their life's happiness is tied to their spouse's fidelity). I'm also not making excuse for the male folks for cheating, I'm just trying to be realistic about this society. For some reason, men cheat. Most men infact. The sooner women realise this, the happier marriages will be. Sex is not love. To men especially (and me too) sex is just a function that can stand on it's own independent of love and even affection. It's like eating.

Don't be 100% sure that your husband is not cheating or will not cheat on you. That will be living in a fools paradise my dear. It has nothing to do with how pure or holy you were growing up. let's lower our expectations as far as marriage is concerned, and I bet you you'll have a happier and fulfilled marriage.

Or you can always choose not to get married. Divorce is also an option.

Yeah, Yeah I know about the bringing another woman into the house or infecting HIV to the poor innocent wife. Yeah let's hope your husband is sensible enough to not commit to these ladies and he's not stupid enough to not use protection.

TooNoisy:
What exactly is your point? So women should expect their husbands to cheat? What nonsense is this?

Moana:
may God give you a sexually adventurous wife in Jesus Name

onatisi:
bros ,the point is most of them insulting me aren't married. So there is no point arguing with them, they will learn with time.

Mynd44:

This is either sarcasm or BS. How can a man say and you call him "intelligent"?

I don't understand you people.

And Ujsizzle, biko tell me you shared that by mistake.

dvee2:


Its very hard to justify cheating, but that's the plain truth. One of the oldest surviving Hollywood marriage- will smith and jada pinket, the wife gave the same advice to married women recently, do not police or monitor your husband, for a man, sex and love are two different things, a man can love his wife to heavens but still have side chicks just to satisfy his physical desires. a word is enough for the wise.