it will be better she tells him






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just set him up na, very easy.

Let him release d sextape joor...I wanna watch some good arse banging

Alhamdulillah I am A muslim.
The only intercourse permited is with your husband/wife.



So we don't have to worry about this kind of situations.

As for the girl.......serves her right! I pray her husband to be finds out and dumps her!!

godoluwa:
I know u r jobless. mind u, I used my brain 4 positive thing & nt to be arguing wit a nincompoo like. nise lo kan tenumo oro kan soso bii igba ti akuko(impotence) tenumo obo. shame on u da fooolish foool

Ode!

godoluwa:
if u care to know, I am. next?

I swear that Moniker don mad finish.

That's y it is said that one should live a good past behind, so that when it is flashed back u won't b ashamed to watch it...the past if bad might hunt...but if ur husband to b is matured enough he is gonna say screw da past..but i suggest u tell him...

godoluwa:
if u care to know, I am. next?

Who you dey deceive?

What prompted her to tape her being banged? What was she thinking, blue film? The guy did not go any yankee but pure agbero

ghettodreamz:


Should she tell him, OR should you tell him about the videos?

Nairalanders and their funny ways of framing things .

BTW, is that your picture on your profile? More reason, I doubted the ingenuity of this story as you had painted it to be. More like you found yourself in this mess and not your so-called friend.

Either way, na solution dae need ... Offer it or u park well

sonofananimal:


I swear that Moniker don mad finish.

u mean dat insidous?

sonofananimal:



I swear that Moniker don mad finish.

That makes the two of us

Ode!

Insidous:
Ode! what is he saying?

THE WAY YOU DEY THINK,
SORRY TO SAY BUT YOUR THINKING NO GET DIRECTION,
I NO JUST SEE WETI YOU DEY TRY DEFEND
YOU SERIOUSLY NEED HELP

godoluwa:
u mean dat insidous?

Ode! Wetin now?

Insidous:

Who you dey deceive?

decieve? to achieve what? mtcheew

She should stand her ground and say NO
Unless she has claimed to her fiancé she is a virgin, he must knows she has tasted of the forbidden fruit before, that she recorded one such encounter with her intimate partner at the time is not criminal or ethically wrong.

The ex has a wife and 2 kids and therefore much to loose if he unleashes said video for public viewing that's if he even has it, it's amazing how digital stuff tend to get lost between USB dongles and damaged computer disk drives.(he might not have said video anymore).

It is best she just maintain her No, in defiance without fear or shame and at an appropriate time discuss with her fiance this issue

godoluwa:
u mean dat insidous?

I wonder how he dey take follow person.

cause of this person, mod don ban me three time now. and the useless mod no go ban this Moniker

Two good rules of life: Never deny who you were and Never conceal who you are! You are a fraud if you don't keep these rules. If what you were is still what you are but you don't want no telling, you are an impostor. If your present is different from your past, you never need fear to tell both. People just want to know your TRUE identity today, they don't like to be deceived about who they are are meeting, not who they were. Most who fear to state who they were are just admitting the fact that they have never really changed but would not want others to know.

sonofananimal:



THE WAY YOU DEY THINK,

SORRY TO SAY BUT YOUR THINKING NO GET DIRECTION,

I NO JUST SEE WETI YOU DEY TRY DEFEND

YOU SERIOUSLY NEED HELP

Look who is ranting? You are the one that needs help!

Grow up!

This here is the reason I don't blame some murder cases,blackmailers generally tends to shut their mouths when life is snuffed outa em,cuz they will always come back for more,@topic there are two sides to every story d guy might be bluffing,and he might be serious,best solution is to tell her fiance and face the problem together,some ladies sha!sleeping with random guys u aint married to is bad enough,but making sex videos is way outa it,and just outright foolish,no sane guy that loves his lady would take her nude pictures not to talk of sex videos when dey aint pornstars,@ the end it comes haunting them in d nearest future.

TrishaP:
All that is a bluff. Why would he be saving the video till present?!.. Or was he still hoping to date her again!? That blackmail is a cheap one and she shouldn't fall for it. The best she can do is to tell her fiance that they both once dated, that'll be enough info for now.

My dear i am a guy and i can tell you that guys cherish such videos and can keep it as long as they wish, even after so many years
It's like a souvenir...the girl should take him serious.

Leya360:
oh my God,some people are so pathetic,immature and desperate.. So all because he wants sex with her,he uses this so called sex tape as a blackmail tool and leverage of some sort let me tell you this,i know it is difficult to tell someone you intend to get married to about your sex tape,but honestly if he really[b] loves [/b]her then this sex tape shouldn't end their marriage plans.

The best thing to do is to come clean to her would be husband and free herself of torment and guilt once and for all,it is better to tell him herself than for him to find out himself. After all it happened a long time ago so a reasonable and civilized man would understand the situation other than allow it cause unnecessary row and breakup.

All she needs to do is to have the courage and tell her man about it. All will be well i hope....

You guys just use the word love anyhow,
My friend love got conditions, especially if it will bring shame to the innocent guy here.
Even if the Husband agrees to marry her, he will make it a reference point in the future.
Men don't forget these things easily.

@OP she should inform her parent first before telling her husband.

I believe d guy is no longer wit d video clip cos he claimed that he's married with 2 kids.
Definitely, if d guy release d video that shows there's probability dat his wife too may see the video which I bliv he will nt wnt his wife to see it except if he hasn't married.

Get his details on FB, twitter, whatsapp and google and finds out if he's truly married.
Do the findings and don't 4get to ask ur frnds and his frnds in uni. If they av any info abt d guy's current status. After fully knowing his status it will help u how to table d matter b4 ur fiance.

I will advice u to let ur fiance knw b4 u even take any decision on ur own mayb to set up ur ex or anything cos if he finds out or get to knw abt d set up without telling him u might nt b able to save ur ass. Tell him and I bliv he will reason with u how to deal with d issue since is still a threat.
Goodluck.

sonofananimal:


I wonder how he dey take follow person.

cause of this person, mod don ban me three time now. and the useless mod no go ban this Moniker

Have you tried writing and reasoning like a normal person? That may be the secret to not getting banned on Nairaland

Say the truth and shame the devil
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sonofananimal:


I wonder how he dey take follow person.

cause of this person, mod don ban me three time now. and the useless mod no go ban this Moniker

lol

This is why we said in the other thread in the family section that people should never hide anything from their spouses at all. Some immature children posing as marriage counsellors called for our heads. And I am sure she never even mentioned to her fiance that she ran into the guy again and he bought her some things. @Op your friend is not a good person at all. She is a gold digger, immature for marriage and a slut sorry to say.
Anyways the only solution as it stands now is to come totally clean to her fiance.

Insidous:


Have you tried writing and reasoning like a normal person? That may be the secret to not getting banned on Nairaland

ME AND YOU NO GO JAMB WORD TODAY.

THANK YOU

ghettodreamz:


Should she tell him, OR should you tell him about the videos?

Nairalanders and their funny ways of framing things .

BTW, is that your picture on your profile? More reason, I doubted the ingenuity of this story as you had painted it to be. More like you found yourself in this mess and not your so-called friend.

How is that important in this issue? If na you, put your name, surname and house address so people will know that you're genuine. smh

sonofananimal:

ME AND YOU NO GO JAMB WORD TODAY.

THANK YOU

make you now

jayfolarin:


Besides telling the fiance, I am 100 with ur suggestion. The idi.ot will definitely pay for this.

Girlfriend was just with me now, I even showed her this thread and the comments. She is just really scared a revelation such as this could ruin her relationship completely.

"He has been transparent with me, I know basically everything there is to know of his past, how do I tell him now that I did something this appalling and didn't mention it until now that's just few months to our wedding?"..her words

Mehn this matter just weak me.

This is the problem with pretenders. The man has opened up his past to her,yet she kept hers to herself till it became "unkeepable". Imagine if her ex never blackmailed her,she would have never considered opening up her past to him just as he did to her. She for still dey form saint. May God help us find decent wives to marry in dis country.

oyindare:
Kill the guy now.... cos that is what is on your mind ur friend no try at all....but seriously I dont think there is any sex tape with the guy

Don't be to sure...cos from experience i can tell you that he may have it on a cd or memory card (edited version)