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Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Antoinne: 7:55pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Can someone explain to me this sense of entitlement Nigerian women feel when they are married? What's the basis for this? Is there anything so special about marriage? Isn't it unfortunate that Nigerians see marriage as a crowning achievement in a man's life? Doesn't this say something about not paying attention to other more rewarding aspects of life? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
I want to know too A mature Man or Lady who is not married is termed irresponsible in Nigeria. Yet 90% of marriages break up. I don't know what's with them and marriage sh1t. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by hijodedios: 7:59pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
what according to you op is fulfilling other aspects of life? what else is more fulfilling than a girl who has come of age getting married and fulfiling the will of God in their lives 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by bigiyaro(m): 8:00pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
if u r a male, u r still a small boy. If u r a small girl, u need counsellin, if u r a mature lady, u r livin in denial. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
hijodedios:So we are created to marry alone? Marriage is the only fulfilment in ones life? pls ....... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by axiliborha(f): 8:03pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
marriage can be termed as joy and love and major support....but why do we women seek love and still break up....because....check out for part 2 |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Slimzjoe(m): 8:05pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
If 2 people didn't get Married, Diddydiva and Antoinne won't be Existing Today! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by tpiander: 8:07pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Op are you gay? I actually meant to ask you this before. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
I love girls buh I hate marriage.. It shud be abolished |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by dulux07(m): 8:34pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Marriage is compulsory but not a do or die affair. But it is more fulfillin to get married n reproduce. The bible does not say otherwise either, but its only concern abt reproductn n most especially, ur sexual urge. I wonder how u intend to cope sexually n alone. Marriage makes u committed, discipline n responsible. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Antoinne: 8:39pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
hijodedios:Other more fulfilling things like taking a trip to the Himalayas, ascending mount Everest; studying in a discipline so well to know every single bit about it; becoming a professional in something; inventing a product; breaking barriers in one's field. Why don't Nigerians place more emphasis on this? Why is it so usual to see a woman whose only fulfillment is getting married? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Antoinne: 8:42pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Slimzjoe:The ignorant can lay claim to this at this moment. So I'll grant you Antoinne wouldn't have existed. Then again, it wouldn't have stopped another sane, rational person born of a woman from asking this question. In later ages we should expect science to be able to create humans from mere cells, and not from heterosexual reproduction. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Antoinne: 8:45pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Diddyydiva:Good point. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Elfrancisco(m): 8:48pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
hijodedios: Abeg Joor, where is it in the bible that all women must be married to be fulfilled. Yeye Talk, marriage these days brings more Sorrow for some Couples |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Ewuro4: 8:56pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Elfrancisco: |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by KanwuliaJara: 9:01pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Dem get work? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by TooNoisy(f): 9:02pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Nobody is asking anyone to marry neither has anyone suggested marriage is by force. If you do not value marriage, by all means stay single; no need belittling the wonderful institution called marriage. We know it is not a matter of life or death, but I love my husband and kids and we are all one big family! 15 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by UyiIredia(m): 9:04pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Antoinne: There's nothing wrong with it. The human race survives through marriage, procreation and upbringing so it's vital. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Ewuro4: 9:08pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
TooNoisy: COSIGNED!! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Slimzjoe(m): 9:17pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Antoinne: Ahn! Science! Anyway, its Your Choice.....you have your Mind made up already and only Looking for Someone to Insult. Don't marry if you don't want to #Peace |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Here in nigeria,that our way of life,our culture,just like women in the us,europe and the rest feel fulfilled after a divorcee,that their way of life,their culture,just like being gay is culture and way of life in america too.... So face your country and stop loosing sleep because of nigeria and her wonderful women..... It our culture,our way of life |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by lilmax(m): 10:39pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Antoinne:smh,so these are more fulfilling? Ascending mount everest |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by khukhi(f): 11:29pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Diddyydiva: In a perfect world marriage is the solution to a lot of social problems hence the persistence of social pressure for marriage in our society's. I also believe in the need for family structure. The only problem is that we pressurise ourselves as woman as soon as we hit our twenties. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Diddyydiva: In Nigeria? I don't know what's with them and marriage sh1t. You'll know in due time. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Stillfire: 11:29pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Can someone explain to me this sense of entitlement Nigerian women feel when they are married? What's the basis for this? Is there anything so special about marriage? Oya Nigerian women, over to you... |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Antoinne: 11:45pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
I still don't see a reason... |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by cococandy(f): 11:48pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
kevinberry: I can't deal Whether to laugh or frown. So you know how every woman in these two CONTINENTS feel and what makes them fulfilled. Smh |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by dinachi(m): 3:49am On Jun 30, 2015 |
You do not rate marriage highly in the US that is now why two men fvcking each others anuses can also call themselves married! Bunch of retards. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by lilmax(m): 6:17am On Jun 30, 2015 |
dinachi: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Nobody: 7:09am On Jun 30, 2015 |
Antoinne:If you don't see a reason dear, please remain single. . Nobody will flog you, it's your world... Leave those who value marriage to get married while you enjoy what you term fulfillment too... To them, marriage may be their own source of fulfilment. . So?? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by Nobody: 7:41am On Jun 30, 2015 |
I love marriage as ordained by God devoid of adulterous husband or wife - any other trash/form, is BULLSH1T and not marriage to me. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Rate Marriage So Highly? by mutter(f): 7:50am On Jun 30, 2015 |
Fat women console themselves with - i feel comfortable in my body. Unmarried women with- marriage is not the ultimate. Marriage is the ultimate achievement in life. God made woman for man and said we should go into the world and procreate. God did not say - go in the world and get a degree. All the degrees you have and all the jobs are merely - toiling with hands to eat. Yet even the bird's and the bees do not toil and they eat. 10 Likes |
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