So u want advice on NL? Have u discussed this same issue with the elderly people close to u that u can confide in? If u never do dat one and u come dey ask us for social media, e mean say ur case get k-leg o!

DoroMega:
Are you a learner?

Lol no obviously, people's opinions are needed

Gurgle:


Lol so why defend him

did I? I told bibi dah she should meet him at a neutral place...

Cutehector:
did I? I told bibi dah she should meet him at a neutral place...

Ok

Cutehector:
I duno why... Am not him.. I dnt invyt gurls ova on d first date...

Different folks for different strokes

Cutehector:
did I? I told bibi dah she should meet him at a neutral place...

Yeah you did say so, bless you For that

bibi1234:

Don't worry The rest I think I may know what's it in my head

u can invyt him ova u knw

bibi1234:

Lol no obviously, people's opinions are needed

Okay, meet him in public. Ikeja Mall would be cool.

bibi1234:

Different folks for different strokes

urm I tot its best described d oda way round

Rapmoney:
So u want advice on NL? Have u discussed this same issue with the elderly people close to u that u can confide in? If u never do dat one and u come dey ask us for social media, e mean say ur case get k-leg o!

Lool already done that even i myself I know what to do ,k-leg yeah right so funny people's opinions so far I like them obviously not going to his house I am of the idea

bibi1234:

Yeah you did say so, bless you For that

Cutehector:
u can invyt him ova u knw

Lol he would stay outside we would gist

DoroMega:

Okay, meet him in public. Ikeja Mall would be cool.

Yep thanks very much

DoroMega:

Okay, meet him in public. Ikeja Mall would be cool.

Yeah thanks very much

Cutehector:
urm I tot its best described d oda way round

Lol

Gurgle:


Lol so why defend him

Lol

bibi1234:

Lol he would stay outside we would gist

yeah dats also a good idea.... B sure to ask him wah drink he'd like to hav

Gurgle:


Yeah the guy is saying it but its just up to you to say no

Then he will understand you and do what you are comfortable with

Appreciate x

Cutehector:
yeah dats also a good idea.... B sure to ask him wah drink he'd like to hav

That's not a problem

bibi1234:
Hey guys /girls
Want to ask a question if you are meeting up a guy for the first time where should it be his place or a public place ? Though you both have been chatting and all gotten comfortable he says let's meet and you suggest meeting in a public place like cinema or over dinner and he says his place you should come to?
What do you think? Going to his place advisable or not because something in my mind is telling me not meeting up at his to me doesn't make sense I can meet up at his later on if he comes around to see me

GO HE PLACE NOW, YOU GO SHOUT RAPE,




MEET AT PUBLIC PLACE, YOU GO ORDER THE WHOLE FOOD (COS POVERTY DEY DO YOU)

IN FACT!! NAIJA WOMEN DON'T USE THEIR BRAIN ANY MORE .


KEEP ON DECEIVING YOURSELF

I Appreciate guys your opinions xx
I am going to bed any further opinions is welcomed I know certain people would comment and say why bring to nairaland this discussion someone well just did so.
Really just wanted different views on it so many people out there are of the idea visting at their places these days gets tiring to me I always tell them public places first etc
Night Night guys sleep well

Gurgle:
Babe don't ever try going to his place if its the first time meeting with him

Im begging you in the name of our Lord

Meet in a public place, like an eatery like you said

If youre conscious of spending money you can just take a walk somewhere and get to know each other along the way

Please don't go there o

AND WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT

DID YOU THINK ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THAT?

bibi1234:

That's not a problem

I trust u on dat. I remember a tym wen I had a date, we agreed to meet in a restaurant.. Wen we saw, I ddnt gv her a hug... She askd me why ddnt I hug her instead I shook her... I was like, lol see me playing d saint and she wants me to hug her...

sonofananimal1:
AND WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT

DID YOU THINK ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THAT?

I didn't say so o

Even if only 0.01% of guys are "like that"

that is 0.01% reason enough not to try it since she may meet one of them

Don't blame me, blame your fellow men

sonofananimal1:


GO HE PLACE NOW, YOU GO SHOUT RAPE,




MEET AT PUBLIC PLACE, YOU GO ORDER THE WHOLE FOOD (COS POVERTY DEY DO YOU)

IN FACT!! NAIJA WOMEN DON'T USE THEIR BRAIN ANY MORE .


KEEP ON DECEIVING YOURSELF

Lol Nigerian women use their discretion though obviously not going to his place I don't have to order the whole food while meeting up in public place
Public place is just the best to meet up first time

sonofananimal1:
AND WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT

DID YOU THINK ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THAT?

Some guys are like that though guys are different

Cutehector:
I trust u on dat. I remember a tym wen I had a date, we agreed to meet in a restaurant.. Wen we saw, I ddnt gv her a hug... She askd me why ddnt I hug her instead I shook her... I was like, lol see me playing d saint and she wants me to hug her...

Lol I know right that happens,the expression on your face would be like oh wow

Gurgle:


I didn't say so o

Even if only 0.01% of guys are "like that"

that is 0.01% reason enough not to try it since she may meet one of them

Don't blame me, blame your fellow men

Gbam!!

Cutehector:

bibi1234:

Lol Nigerian women use their discretion though obviously not going to his place I don't have to order the whole food while meeting up in public place
Public place is just the best to meet up first time

WHY NOT TELL HIM TO PICK A PLACE THAT WILL BE CONVENIENCE OTHER THAN HIS HOUSE AND DO YOUR RESEARCH ON THE PLACE HE DO MENTION..
THAT WILL BRING MORE VALUE TO YOUR INTELLIGENT, OTHER THAN YOU PICKING A PLACE

sonofananimal1:
WHY NOT TELL HIM TO PICK A PLACE THAT WILL BE CONVENIENCE OTHER THAN HIS HOUSE AND DO YOUR RESEARCH ON THE PLACE HE DO MENTION..
THAT WILL BRING MORE VALUE TO YOUR INTELLIGENT, OTHER THAN YOU PICKING A PLACE

Better suggestion

sonofananimal1:
WHY NOT TELL HIM TO PICK A PLACE THAT WILL BE CONVENIENCE OTHER THAN HIS HOUSE AND DO YOUR RESEARCH ON THE PLACE HE DO MENTION..
THAT WILL BRING MORE VALUE TO YOUR INTELLIGENT, OTHER THAN YOU PICKING A PLACE

True that, he may not he's one kind I rather pick a place and we meet up